Past girlfriends new lovers  

Tala4u2 54M  
2089 posts
3/28/2005 5:31 am

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Past girlfriends new lovers


It is kinda cool to have an ex-girlfriends phone up and tell me about their new boyfriends and lovers and all the good things about them. There seems to be so much love around me from many people I wish I could feel sad for those that do not have that in their live's. I don't understand how other ex-couple's have so much grief from breaking up?

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
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keithcancook 60M
17795 posts
3/28/2005 4:29 pm

Sometimes folks just can't give it up and let go. My ex hates my very guts, even after 9 yrs and her living over 500 miles away. For myself I don't even waste any emotion on her unless indifference is an emotion.


Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
3/28/2005 10:13 pm

Hey Keith i gathered that from your post (the Venting Poem) I read, ( sorry mate just cracked up laughing). Indiference is a very special emotion and should only be used by experts, other wise it is wasted by amateurs. Sorta like, "Oh you're on fire, sorry I don't need a piss right now."

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
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wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/29/2005 3:05 am

hehehehe vindictive ex's are a hoot, particularly those that go outta their way to try to make your life miserable, I have spent the last 7 years laughing my ass off at all her antics its is guite refreshing actually, every time she tries to make things hard for us, (which we are careful not to give her any means too) all she manages to acheive is to piss people off, make enemies of her friends (she has gotten a few of her friends fired) make herself a target of road rage, and become the focus of criticism from her peers, its called Karma, it always come's back to bite them on their ample rears!

WyvernRose


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/29/2005 3:13 am

Ohhhhhhh Tala Baby you have never been married have you?

Ahhhhhhh well you see, when its more than just dating or living together, particularly when there are kids involved (which I am assuming you don't yet have any ankle biters,) then thats a whole different kettle of fish mate!

you see when those issues apply majority of women get greedy, thats because they can very easily take the LOT! and even get an ongoing income for doing so. it's a big motivator for many women to be vindictive, most don't realise what they do to everyone else around them in the process however.....

your very lucky not to have an ex wife or 2 under the belt and a couple of childsupport cases draining your wallet at your age Tala.

WyvernRose


Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
3/29/2005 2:19 pm

Tala personally believes he was clever not to get married. He also makes an efort not to get himself in positions where greed, vindictiveness, anger and hate are distinct possibilities. Mind u I'm not perfect and very capable of having and causing those negative emotions. I like life to be happy and it is working If it ain't broke why fuck with it.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
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Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
3/29/2005 2:28 pm

I have many faults, perhaps my only saving grace is my honesty. If I am wrong I will admit it and rectify the problem of course if someone else is wrong then I remove them. I do give them the option to admit and rectify their problem first. As i do not have to maintain any facades it is very easy to keep life simple.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
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wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/29/2005 10:16 pm

Tala one day you will find a person who is your best friend, your greatest lover, a comfy companion, and you will want to achieve and share everything with that person, that's when you will get married,

more than anything my husband and I are friends first.

most frequently vindictive ex's are those who started thinking marriage was just the "next logical step" or desires the financial security it brought so as they could comfortably satisfy their desire to have a child, (but you see after conception the other person isn't needed and its easier to gut them if you have a marriage certificate) They have no idea what marriage actually is.....

WyvernRose


Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
3/30/2005 5:33 am

Wyvern you are so pragmatic and correct at times. Marriage is a one off hing for me so I fully intend to be wearing a white suit when I go down the aisle. There is no logical step in my mind on this subject.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
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wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/30/2005 9:37 pm

for us too Tala, my husband just hadn't found out his ex wife was a man beating, paranoia suffering, accusation spitting, manipulating control freak from hell until after he had a child with her, in his case the wedding had been a vein attempt to return her to what he had known rather than lose his daughter......it doesn't work....and its has been a nightmare trying not to lose his daughter.....

I wouldn't say I am pragmatic lol, I am just ashamed to be female with the way majority of them behave and treat people....

WyvernRose


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/30/2005 9:38 pm

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh also Tala I should have mentioned earlier......I am a fathers rights lobbyist....

WyvernRose


keithcancook 60M
17795 posts
4/18/2014 11:12 pm

Nice basement, mate!

blog on!


Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
4/20/2014 5:03 pm

Heheh It is a good thing to have a place to come and muse on my adventures. Would truly like to say I have became a responsible member of society it lasted 3 years and I near went mad being normal!

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,
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