WHAT IS A MAN?  

TTigerAtty 62M
3769 posts
12/3/2005 8:42 am

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WHAT IS A MAN?

A Man who displays sensitivity will be a Man who is sensitive to you.
A Man who displays humility will be a Man who will show you respect.
A Man who is not afraid to cry will be a Man who understands your tears.
A Man who is quiet will be a Man who will hear your quietest whisper.
A Man who knows fear will be a Man who will not leave you to face yours alone.
A Man who will listen to a child will be a Man who will always work to understand your words.
A Man who can stand alone will be a Man who will not crush you under His weight.
A Man who controls Himself with ease will be a Man with the ability to control you in the same way.
A Man who does not have to prove His point will be a Man with many worthwhile points to share.
A Man who never makes demands will be a Man who treasures anything you give.
A Man who doesn't run after you will be a Man you will never need to run away from.
A Man who is calm will be a Man who can weather your storms.
A Man who has walked the path to peace will be a Man able to guide you along that path.
A Man who does not shout will be a Man who will never deafen you.
A Man who knows Himself will be a Man who will have time to know you.
A Man with an open mind will be a Man who never stops learning.
A Man who never stops learning will be a Man who never stops growing.
A Man who always seeks to be the best He can be for you is the only man truly worthy of being called a Man.


Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
12/3/2005 9:30 am

Love the picture of the majestic tiger - even more love what this posts conveys. Wow. I would love to connect with a Man who really thinks, feels and lives that way. Nice post!


kats60 56F

12/3/2005 9:45 am

i liked it, if men only would do all that! kat


rm_captcha3 43F
35 posts
12/3/2005 10:12 am

very nice sounds like my husband i forgot all the good qualities he has thanks for reminding me


TTigerAtty 62M

12/3/2005 10:53 am

Whispersoftly5 - This, of course, is one definition of the "perfect" Man. Perhaps, you can add to or modify the definition. In the real world, it is one thing to write these things down, look at them and believe that one should conduct himself according to these principles to live up to the ideal. It is an entirely different thing to adhere to all the principles all the time. Men need good role models in their lives so that they can see these principles lived out in real life. While neither were perfect, my role models have been by Father and my Grandfather, both now departed.

kats60 - Yes, I know, kat. It's difficult to live up to this high standard! But, I do think that it is still the standard and, as such, should not be "watered down". We may try to live up to this ideal...and fail. And still, we should try yet the more. Thanks for stopping by! Please drop by again!


RailBaron2 54M

12/3/2005 11:07 am

TTigerAtty,I belive it was J.F.K. that said ' I would rather attempt something great & fail than to attempt nothing & succeed." I think many of us men try to live up to the ideal & fail but at least we try.


Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
12/3/2005 11:49 am

TTigerAtty and RailBaron2 - You're both so right. We should all strive to live up to such ideals and so many of us do try. The reality is we're all human and nobody - nobody is perfect. We're all going to make mistakes and hopefully grow in a positive way from them.

We can choose what type of person we want to be and the type of person we want to share time with - touch our lives. I don't expect to find the perfect man - he doesn't exist anymore than the perfect woman does. But... I want touching my life men like you who strive to live life by such ideals.

Kisses. Whisper...


TTigerAtty 62M

12/3/2005 2:11 pm

[blog captcha3] - Honey, if your husband meets all of these qualifications, I would highly recommend getting off this site and others like it and focusing all your love and attention on him. I know what I'm saying may sound old-fashioned and you may not want to hear it, but I think you have a good guy and you need to hang on to him! Thanks for dropping by!

RailBaron2 - Well said! We can try!

Whispersoftly5 - Thanks for adding your thoughts to the discussion!


silkysmoothlegs3 105F

12/3/2005 7:52 pm

Oh what a sexy big cuddly pussy

Dont ya just love a man

Your all those things and more babes..

Thanks for the nice things you always say on my bloggs

Love silky xxxxxxxxxxxx


TTigerAtty 62M

12/4/2005 4:39 am

silkysmoothlegs3 - Always nice when you stop by! You give me more credit than I deserve. It's easy to say the right things, but much harder to do the right things on a daily basis. We can only try our best! Keep yourself well, dear!


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