what do you think?  

TB49er 40F
633 posts
7/12/2006 3:10 pm

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7/29/2006 2:06 pm

what do you think?

If you told someone to back off and they didn't what would you do? How do you get rid of people who keep bothering you? If you told someone to never call you, never email you, never contact you again and they wouldn't stop, what would you do? I know Kofla had to take legal acctions, but has anyone else had to ever deal with this?

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
7/12/2006 4:56 pm

I haven't had to deal with this. I wouldn't answer any of their correspondance. I would try to ignore them. If that didn't work, I would try to get a restraining order. Save the emails and record the conversations, for the police. I'm sorry you are having this problem.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

corvairguy 65M

7/13/2006 10:16 am

Is that here on this site? If so, then I would report abuse every time they contacted you and save all the corespondence, don't delete! Explain to CS that you have requested that this person leave you alone completely, just like you have said above. I can't stress enough to save everything you can for evidence.

Contact Kofla, I am sure that he will give you some pointers.


TammyDHU 45F
246 posts
7/27/2006 7:05 pm

I've, unfortunately, had to deal with such a thing as well. I agree the best approach is to do your best to ignore the person in question and if any further attempts are made at disrupting your life in any way, follow through with your threats to contact some authority figures about it. Hopefully it will work...

Take care, baby!!!

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