Thoughts of my mind  

Synn74 42F
1142 posts
2/12/2006 2:18 pm
Thoughts of my mind

You Heart is free it is up to you to have the courage to follow it...- wc

Something a good friend mentioned to me to the point he thought is was worth a blog. He's right how many times have I TOLD MYSELF I quit my marriage isn't what I want it to be anymore..
sure me and my husband get along but hell so do me and my other male friends the only difference is I have a daughter with one... Yes I love my husband but yet I wonder if I want to live like I have for the last 2 years.

So I guess my true question what point do you do what you need to do inspite of the consequences that may follow...

Yes all marriages have ups and downs but you begin to question what life would be single maybe it's time to embrace change...

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
2/13/2006 5:52 pm

look inside your heart.
you 'll find the answer.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/12/2006 5:48 pm

after u have tried and tried and tried

Purry {=}


frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
2/12/2006 5:46 pm

I left him, despite of having a child with him (and probably because I did!). She deserves better than seeing 2 parents fight all the time and kids are like sponges, they absorb everything, including negative energy if they are around it too long.

Only you know whether you are happy of not. My rule was, if I was unhappy more of the time than I was happy, then it's time to go.


Synn74 42F
1206 posts
2/12/2006 5:23 pm

wow guys and ms.Kat ty for your responses...he is a good guy just oblivious to my needs...
I have made a wonderful friend here whom I feel I have connected with mainly because he is married with his situation similar either so having friends that know how I feel helps during my struggle.

Wordy you made sense hun

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
2/12/2006 4:10 pm

Just cheat on him it's cheaper that way...for a while. All kidding aside, it's not easy to figure out and believe me, I know how you feel.


Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
2/12/2006 3:57 pm

Honestly, deep down, I think you KNOW what you want to's really decided inside isn't it?

so are you seeking some kind of absolution or acceptance for how you feel?

Then the only place you can really find any of that, and have it mean something, is by putting it all out there for your husband and telling him the truth...either he'll understand, or he won't.

I know it's not quite that simple in personal practice...but also in many way, it is.

Does ANY of that make sense??


Hope that was helpful...and I was glad to stop by

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Justwantfun1962 54M

2/12/2006 3:11 pm

From experience being single is great for a few years after that is get rather boring, lonely and you get sick of masturbating. lol
Stick with it sure as hell at least you can get a shag from your husband if you need one.

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