He checked out....  

Synn74 42F
1142 posts
2/24/2006 5:55 am
He checked out....


Last night what started as a major fight between hubby and I turned into finding out Finally how he truly feels...

This past 2 years has been rough for my husband...his parents died 6 months apart and instead of getting everything of his parents he got nothing (only child) his parent's neighbors got it ALL!!

And since that day he's become cold and bitter and emotionally detattched. He admitted to me last night eventhough he loves me he realizes he may never get back to the place he was before April of 04 and that he realizes it's not fair to me us and our daughter...

Finally!!!

So I told him that if he needed to go it was okay..if he wanted to stay it was fine too our daughter should be our main focus
You can only love someone so long before it becomes clear they have given up on everything even after counseling ect...

So we will see...so from today forward I think I NEED to think of us as seperated because we have been emotionally...wether we divorce I dunno..but atleast I can breathe easier knowing what I have felt all along was true..

Not mad I love my husband he's a wonderful man and awesome father who loves he daughter it's just he doesn't "trust" anything or anyone even me anymore so in order to cope he shut himself down..

So we will see where it ends...



I welcome you to the House of Syn...



toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
2/25/2006 11:09 am


I have a favorite Cole Porter lyric

Even without you
my arms fold bout you...


hang in there baby...


TTigerAtty 62M

2/25/2006 6:50 am

His admission is a good start! Perhaps if you can both be patient and hang on to each other and your daughter, he will be able to work through the hurt in time. My thoughts, prayers and best wishes are with you!


rm_samat8500 51M

2/24/2006 12:49 pm

You have my prayer of hope for the best, for all involved.


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