loosing trust in someone  

SxyMelody 40F
180 posts
1/11/2006 6:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

loosing trust in someone

Well I have come to the conclusion that i am either a complete idiot or a trusting fool. I have had contact with a member that i met through a mutual friend off of this site. This particular man has given me so many stories and lines that i don't know heads or tails on what is the truth anymore. I am not the type to have a one night stand and i wanted some kind of emotional connection with someone before i took it any further. I thought i had that with this person but he still leads me on. I don't know whether i should just wash my hands of the whole thing or continue to go along with what he has told me. I think it is my stubborness shining through, i don't give up on anything or people easily. Plus, he has something of mine that i need back, and i am afraid that i won't get it if I break off contact. I fear that it is just my idioticy coming through, but the thought of going through life without being able to trust people scares the shit out of me. JUST ME VENTING!!!!

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/11/2006 8:36 am

I hope you find a solution to your problem i.e. getting back what you needed to.


1/14/2006 11:07 pm

Lying and "fantasy" lives seem to live on here, from some experince's. If any on here can't be themselves, truthful, and honest why are they here. I guess for the deception and game playing. Unfortunate for them and us, as the truth will come out, seem's to have happened in your case, and all lose. Belief and trust in another is given in my case until a lie is caught, all is over from there. Why waste time with liar's?

outatown5 46M

1/19/2006 11:38 pm

I'm sorry to hear about your dilema. Unfortunately, there is a lot of
J--ks out there. I myself have found this site more frustrating then anything, I was lousy at dating when I was a kid. (Not much has changed). Haven't actually met with (or even chatted) with anyone on the site, although I've had a few responses to messages. It seems that as people we tend to pursue what we think will make us happy, but after a few days on here, I don't know what the hell I want to do, and certainly don't have the trust in people that I once had. (Pretty naive, huh?) Anyway, good luck in retrieving the missing item, and I hope your venture works out for you.

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