how fair is this?  

SxyMelody 40F
180 posts
4/22/2006 8:17 am

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9/21/2006 8:31 pm

how fair is this?

So I am just looking for some feedback on this. Scenario. Husband wants sex. Gets me in the mood. Falls asleep won't wake up and gets angry when I try to wake him up. So, I do my thing and everything is fine. Next day, I come down with a nasty flu, and he still wants sex. However, instead of respecting the fact that i cant hardly move or breathe, he continually picks at me until i give in (which is of course absolutely no fun for me) and he freely admits that he wasn't going to leave me alone until he got what he wanted. Do you know how disrespected that makes me feel as a person? never mind his wife?

rm_CDRoss 34M
655 posts
4/25/2006 12:14 am

*nods* I've sometimes felt like I'd been used as a sextoy and not as a lover or even a person. Not sure if that helps to know you're not alone though.
But if it makes you feel any better... feel free to vent. Will listen.

rm_swtedmguy1 42M
4 posts
9/17/2006 12:11 pm

i knew of one lady she was married and would be asleep, and the husband wanted to have sex, or at least get off. he would basically her to get off. seems like its the same situation that you have experienced a few times. to make love both parties need to consent, even if you are married or just dating, when one person says no, No means stop.

misterramboyahoo 47M
2 posts
9/20/2006 2:47 pm

Let me jus say that that is a dis-respectful thing to do.. bad enuff to fall asleep and leave u high and dry, but even worse is to hound till yuou give in... I could never imagine even having the nerve to hound..hola!

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