How do you Initiate Playtime....  

Swiper72 44M/49F
21 posts
5/8/2006 7:16 am

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11/29/2006 3:39 pm

How do you Initiate Playtime....

Ok we find the site, we look around, send a wink here, add to hotlist there, visit a chatroom or two along the way...
A couple winks us back, sends photo's, we chat, msn etc etc i'm sure everyone knows the routine..we meet, things go well, we meet again, and again, we all have alot in common, we enjoy each others company etc etc... we discuss playtime laugh about it tease about it,, DAMMIT WE ALL WANNA PLAY... BUUUTTTTT, here's the Kicker... we get the couple here at our place, things are good as usual we're all primed and ready to play , noone makes a move, we talk all night long yet again, we all know that we want this we all know that it will be fun and comfortable once it gets going.....
The thing is.. HOW DO WE GET IT GOING ??? We dont want to cross any boundaries, or anything. But OMG we're all so horny for each other it's not funny , i want his wife, he wants mine, they want us , we want them, but neither of us know how to initiate the play.

So i ask you all here, how if ever have you initiated play?? What does it takes to give couples that extra boost of confidence to make the first step towards play time. Attraction is there, want is there, desire, all the key elements of a good evening are present, with the exception of that first step..
So what is it? How do you all get past it?

penguinluvr 58M
1083 posts
5/8/2006 8:10 am

If you want something to start and it's your place, then you and your wife start making out, and after a couple of minutes ask the other if they would like to join in the fun. The times I was out playing we just all got naked right off the bat so there wasn't any of that "Who goes first?" delay. I don't know about you but my time to play is generally pretty short, so I need to get started quickly.


redmustang91 57M  
8571 posts
5/8/2006 8:20 am

How about watching an adult movie together? Monkeys see, monkeys do...

rm_ralee5 64M
1 post
6/23/2006 12:44 pm

I agree with PANDTT on this one....hell, if I went that far, just jump into's not like you don't know why you got together..

I'd be damned happy to get a wink...lmao


Witness 46M
704 posts
9/9/2006 8:31 am

Ok, I must be the only other person that's just more subtle. I used to fall into that "awkward pause" category when I was with couples. Like many, I find signals aren't put out there, everyone seems to wait for the other person to make the first move.

When in doubt though, I find going for the brushing of the thigh with the hand the most effective to really find out if things will advance. And this works either with guy on woman's thigh, or woman on guy's thigh. If all seems like it's going well, a touching of the thigh is subtle and non intrusive enough to see if things will progress. If the Thighs close or are pulled away, you know "Game Over" and you read it wrong. If the Thighs stay the same or even spread a bit more to accomidate then "Game ON". Once one pair start up, the second soon see it and follow for sure.

Just my opinion, take it for what it's worth

Swiper72 44M/49F

9/11/2006 10:57 am

Well everyone this was taken care of a couple of months ago so all's good

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