Sweetgenie_girl 41F
326 posts
9/23/2005 6:16 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I’ll admit it. I’m a sucker for a kiss! You put me with a great kisser and there’s no telling the kind of damage I can do. I know there is no wrong way to kiss and that everyone has his or her own “kissing techniques” but I must admit that when I find that one person who kisses me sensually, passionately, fervently, I melt.

And don’t even get me started on French Kissing…Something about tasting the other person’s tongue that is exhilarating and arousing. I love it best when the guy starts slow with small kisses, then works into a French kiss. I melt when he starts sucking on my upper or lower lip. I get aroused when he moves from my lips and slowly works his lips and tongue towards my cheeks, chin, eyelids, my ears, my neck, my collar bone…MMMMmmmmmmmm!!!!

I once dated a guy who had the “slow kiss” technique. He would kiss me as slowly as he possibly could. And the more I anticipated and got pressing in my kiss, the more he would take his sweet time and slow me down. He would concentrate on tasting my lips and enter his tongue in my mouth little by little. Once his tongue was fully in, he would twirl it around mine again slowly, almost letting it rest on top of mine…damn I’m getting wet just thinking about it!

So anyway, I’m throwing this back at cha beautiful people of blogland…What kind of kisses do you love? What is your fondest kissing memory? Who is that one kisser you’ll never forget?

Please, spare no details…

PassionateBeat 44M

9/24/2005 4:41 am

Hi Sweetgenie_Girl,
It is hard to pinpoint what type of kissing I like better because I love kissing in all its forms.
I would have to pick one type of kissing over another I would probably pick 2.
I love the long passionate French kiss and I love the exploratory little nips& kissed.
hmm, I do love those!

The fondest kissing memory was when I was 22; I was walking a friend to her place late at night, as I usually did when she left from my place late.
We usually walked through an alley when I walked her home; Montreal has some pretty romantic alleys hidden here and there, little jewels nested under canopies of old trees and lined with lovingly tended yards.
It was a little nippy as it was the first days of autumn so I had offered her my vest and while I draped it over her shoulders we started to kiss, at first had started as a long tender kiss and she started to push me backwards towards one of the yards. We kept on kissing and how I loved how her lips tasted, how her dark skin smelled, the wet sound of our kisses as they started to evolve towards French kissing against the wall of a wooden shed under the shadows.
We had kissed for quite a while and I had kissed, nipped and tasted every inch of her exposed skin.

The kisser I will never forget is actually not someone I can identify, it was a stolen kiss.
I was at party at a good friends place and she had invited me to sleep over. I had gone to sleep in the guest room before everyone was gone and all I remember is feeling a kiss on my lips and hearing her say "I love you" in a tone that suggested that it was someone that had never told me before....
That is the kiss I will never forget, and I will always wonder who she was!.


Sweetgenie_girl 41F

9/24/2005 7:40 pm

PassionateBeat - Beautiful stories, thanks for sharing

TomEboy10 - Welcome to my blog, make yourself comfortable while I try to sort out all the crazy ideas going on in my mind.

And you are so right, kissing is just not as passionate as it used to be before. I remember in my teens and early twenties making out for hours, making out for so long that your lips were sore for days...Aahhh what I would give to get those days back!

luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/25/2005 3:07 pm

What is a kiss?

Prelude to love...as we begin kissing.

I gaze long and deep into her eyes, slowly moving my lips, she feels my slow steady breaths and then hand to hand, or my hand to shoulder caresses. I slowly begin caressing her neck while steadily, slowly speaking her name, smiling, my eyes move from her eyes to her nose, ears, then her mouth, usually culminating in a soft, trace with either index finger her upper lip. I slowly tip my head slightly back and forth, sensually smiling, whence returning to her eyes which begin to sparkle and shine, and her eyelids begin to flutter ever so slightly. I softly caress her ears with sweet compliments, showing her my smooth, sensual, expectant lips and the tips of my nearly perfect white teeth and gently stroke her hair. My breathing deepens, and she smells my scent and breath, hears my sweet words, watches my smooth lips, and now responds to my touches, she begins slowly rocking back and forth and her mouth opens slightly, and her lips begin to swell and part, as pleasure sweeps over her. My nose occasionally flares while breathing, as her hand instinctively reaches for my cheek/neck. At last I touch her cheek and slowly draw her to me as our mouths begin to open wider, smelling the sweet scent of sexual attraction. Slowly I caress her lips with mine, exploring, then moving my tongue over the center of her upper lip, bringing a throbbing sensation into her mouth, and finally part her lips with my sensitive tongue stroking. I slowly, softly tilt her head to one side and then while softly caressing/stroking her opposite cheek, I part her now-swollen lips with my tongue, and her tongue rushes to meet mine, but I withdraw, savoring the sensation of our lips meeting. Our eyes meet; her eyes narrow and soften, while mine intensify, her eyelids beat quickly. I slowly caress her breast, then move one hand over her heart, stroking it while leading it to a new, faster, more even pace, as I draw her upon me. I softly caress her lips, as she responds to me, savoring my touch, as our lips slowly stroke each other’s. My mouth, nose, and face exude my distinctive male scent over her, and she responds by exuding her unmistakable, beautiful female scent of life onto me. Then slowly, sensually, while stroking her hair, I seek her parted teeth and tongue, naturally tilting her head back, parting her teeth, and finally meeting her tongue with mine. Her heartbeat quickens, as does mine, and I feel every sensory gesture in her tongue, leading and responding to her motions in kind, while slowly moving her head slightly, and tease her to explore my mouth as well, gently nipping while brushing noses and locking eyes in a trance-like state. Then at last, our first deep long kiss begins, our tongues reach deeply for each other, our eyes flicker, both overcome by our respective scents, we caress each other’s tongues and lips back and forth, and pleasure overcomes us. I caress her mouth in and out, side to side, feeling the inside of her mouth for the sensory buds, knowing that her lips will swell eve more, as will mine. She softly begins clawing my neck, a natural reflex to my unusual kissing technique and her eyelids flutter more quickly, as her heartbeat races. She feels lightheaded, as her heart cannot pump blood quickly enough to meet her new sensual demands. I gently roll her to the side and back, whilst moving my tongue in and out of her tongue and teeth, inside her lips, touching every tender bud, while stroking her cheek and neck, and at last lightly tugging her hair. Our eyes only briefly meet, as we experience sensory, sexual overload, while our hearts race together and at last we both begin to feel very wet, even though we have yet to explore one another’s sexual organs.

...it is then that we begin kissing while touching in earnest.

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

9/25/2005 4:55 pm


Nice post! So which kissing school did you attend? Or is it just a natural talent?

"Lucky" is the lady who gets to share a kiss with you...

luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/25/2005 9:43 pm


Thanks for your compliments.
I love ladies, and I love kissing them, as well. I always have, and always will. It's like dancing with a lady, very special, only much, much, more personal and intimate. As for myself, I doubt that you can teach this deep of affection, caring, and caress; you have to hunger for it like water while dying of thirst...hunger for it with all your heart, from the very bottom of your soul. In this light, both kissing partners instinctively follow each other’s cues, like there's no tomorrow.

Thanks again.
lucky - like you

luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/25/2005 11:30 pm


Thanks for your compliments.
I love ladies, and I love kissing them, as well. I always have, and always will. It's like dancing with a lady, very special, only much, much, more personal and intimate. As for myself, I doubt that you can teach this deep of affection, caring, and caress; you have to hunger for it like water while dying of thirst...hunger for it with all your heart, from the very bottom of your soul. In this light, both kissing partners instinctively follow each other’s cues, like there's no tomorrow.

Thanks again.
lucky - like you

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

9/27/2005 6:48 pm

Aaawww Lucky,

Glad to hear that they are some people now our days who still believe in the magic of kissing. With this era of instant gratification, people hurry kisses so quickly to get to "the good part" but sometimes kissing is the "best part"!

rm_txscorpion 42M
206 posts
11/28/2005 10:18 pm

A post worthy of an award. The sweet art of kissing. I have to say, I agree w/ Lucky. Kissing is like a sensual, romantic dance with a lady. I must thank my friend Chanelle. She taught me many years ago (while I was still innocent) about the art of kissing. As the years have gone by, I have gotten to appreciate the art of kissing and it has become an essential part of lovemaking for me.

Kissing is one of the most erotic forms of foreplay in my book. If my partner cannot kiss or doesn't enjoy the art of kissing, the rest f the moment has been flushed down the toilet. It exhilirating to hold your lover and gaze into their eyes just before slowly embracing them in a romantic slow kiss. Then taking the time to savor the taste of her lips as I slowly suck the bottom and top lips. Taking my tongue to lick her lips and finally, slowly, embracing her once again in a more passionate kiss. Next enjoying the taste of her tongue as we french kiss, feeling the heat build up in each of our bodies. Then slowly running my tongue down her chin and gently licking and sucking on her neck. I would then run my lips and tongue to the side of her neck and begin to lick her behind her ear and then kiss and softly suck on her earlobe.

From a kiss, an evening of pure and unadulterated passion can surely be sparked. There should not be an inch of a woman's body that is left out of feeling the warm embrace of a passionate kiss, sensual sucking, or an erotic lick.

I must admit that the one person that I could never forget is an ex g/f that I had 5 years ago. It seemed as if everytime we met up, we would embrace so passionately that I would almost loose my self control in my pants. It was likewise with her as she would have an orgasm from the embrace that we shared.

Thanks for letting me post this "book" on your blog. I do have a little bit of a confession. You know that I have always told you that you are a beautiful lady in my eyes. But I must say that I have a great weakness for your lips. They are very sensual. Oh my!! Okay, I feel a little better getting that off my chest. Now for that cold shower.


~The Scorpion King~

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

11/29/2005 5:36 pm

Txscorpion, can I join you?
Thanks for the lovely post, it got me totally week in the knees. Kissing is my most favorite thing to do. And it's even better when you meet someone who is just as passionate about kissing as I am. So, any plans of traveling up north? I bet you're dying to see snow
As for my lips...

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