Sexually deprived  

Sweetgenie_girl 41F
326 posts
11/10/2005 9:50 pm

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Sexually deprived

Alright fellow bloggers, now that I have your attention it’s time I talk to you about a very serious problem that is plaguing too many good people: Sexual deprivation. And my friends, I am currently suffering from this unfortunate condition. In the last while I have found myself sexually deprived, repressed, neglected, denied, etc. And this condition is now affecting my life. Yes, indeed, I find myself being irritable, fatigued, ill tempered, unable to focus and worst…totally disheartened by the fact that this condition might keep on FOREVER!!!!

It all started a few months ago, with that man who was from out of town. Unknowingly, he reintroduced sex in my life in just one night of pure, delightful, raw, savage and very satisfying fuckfest. Yes, in just a few hours, my four-year sex sobriety just vanished (you can pick up that jaw off the floor now, I did say FOUR years) and just like an addiction I was hooked again. As he went his way back to his town, I found myself alone, with a need to satisfy. I was like a junkie looking for my next hit. Soon, the signs of sexual withdrawal appeared: tremors, vivid sexual daydreaming, constant wetness, dangerously increase heart rate, sleeplessness and an irresistible urge to masturbate anytime, anyplace. Now I find myself getting desperate. My friends, this is a sign that things have gone too far. I am making indecent proposals to men and worst, I am actually considering indecent proposals from men: men who are married, attached, engaged; men who want to f*ck me while their wives watch, men who want to f*ck me while I wear nine inch heels, men who want me to f*ck them while wearing a strap-on. Heck, I’m even now considering proposals from women ---anything. Anything to get my next hit! This is MADNESS!!!

(Catching my breath) This is why I appeal to you all. Together, we can bring a cure this condition. There is no reason why, people with healthy sexual appetite, who are in the prime of their lives must go on without the sublime satisfaction of a good old fashion fuck!!! If you are suffering from the same condition, we must unite our voices together and say loudly: NO, I will no longer accept to be sexually deprived!!!

And to those of you who are fortunate enough to get sex on a regular basis, next time you engage in such activity, think of us less fortunate. Take that special person and make love to them last it’s the last time. Greedily touch, lick and suck every inch of their body, kiss them passionately until you take their breath away, hold their body so close to yours that the two (three, four, five or whatever) of you become one. And when you feel that fire getting hotter inside of you and you know you are about to explode, don’t hold back. Release and for god’s sake: BE LOUD!!!!

Well, bloggers, thank you for your attention, and I’m now going to give myself some temporarily release (thank goodness for my faithful fingers! )

Orally_Corrupt 31F
27 posts
11/10/2005 10:42 pm

That's just really weird. It's like as I read it, you were walking through my mind and I totally agree. Deprivation no more! ?*

smileguyqc 53M

11/11/2005 11:47 am

Very funny post Genie… don’t lose sight of what your looking for the right thing will come along. J add another NO!!!! to the no more sexual deprevation bad-wagon.

homme_514 37M

11/11/2005 12:41 pm

This is a very funny post. I can feel that it really comes from deep down. You make people laugh about a situation that is not easy. I used to be sexually deprived and I must admit that I now have sex on a regular basis. I think I know what you are going through. I unite my voice to yours to say NO to sexual deprivation !
I promise I will have a little thought. I do not know if this will help you feel better. Anyway, keep the fingers working, that sure is a fairly good release... until you find your special someone. Let me tell you that this guy does not know how lucky he is. After hurricane Katrina, here is hurricane Sweetgenie !!! It will sure leave the poor guy's cock in dire straits...

Nouveau_Couple 43M/44F
31 posts
11/11/2005 2:10 pm

She, her answer:
"Loud and clear is my answer to you. There are times when we do feel it. It looks like that we are in couple, that is one advantage, but then again there are days that I am exhausted or that he exhausted. We take so much for a given that people in couples have it all. True, statistically we do have more than the single person. But there are times too that we loose that passion.
It is always said that sex starts with dishes, but what if one has a bad day? One can have a bad day at work and not be in the mood for sex. It can be the last thing on our mind. i sound like I am whining when really, I must be fortunate to have it, right here and right now for me. I do feel how you feel, although, according to Dr. Phil it is not right to say such.
Ally McBeal once said: "How come I feel so lonely even when I am in a relationship?". We often think that we can have it all once we are in a relationship and yet we always have that emptiness and search for more. We think that maybe by exchanging and trying it out more, that we arrive to a new happiness and fulfillment.
It is once said, that relationship must be resolved form within. Yet we have that lust and that thirst of more than just what is there in front of us.
All I an say, that is politically correct, is that, us as local bloggers we are all ears to your pain and misery. That you are not alone after all. That need and search is present in all of us!"
He, his answer:
"I do understand what you go through because me too, I have been single and we search long and behold on sites like this in the hopes that we have our sex needs fulfilled and that it completes us once the sex is satisfied. If you think your cravings are bad, I have days that I cannot let go for the Internet images and I do know that it can hurt my career and reputation. I can search through images and texts alike. I would copy the content and send to my email and pretend to read mails. I would look into women's sites about sex advices and read it for hours.
I did search and wonder if sex-addicts anonymous was right for me. I am fortunate to have someone by my side and say that sex addiction is normal. As long as I am not ruined or lack social life or sacrifice relationship for a craving.
I wish I can tell you that once satisfied we are satisfied but we all know tomorrow is another day that we want it anyway.
I feel your pain because I have been there, and I do wish it were different, but then again, a sexual addiction can be corrected, drug addiction is painful!"

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

11/11/2005 9:46 pm

Curious - I'm glad I'm not alone in this! We, girlfriends, should unite and claim our due!!!

Smileguy - As always you always have the words to pick me up!

Nouveau Couple - Thanks for the insight, I find it interesting that even people in relationship can feel this way too. It's an interesting perspective. Good luck to both of you!

PassionateBeat 44M

11/11/2005 10:11 pm


I am sure you have friends that have the same problem (male friends or female friends)and they being friends would be happy to provide release and get release...

I think I should keep my eyes peeled too for such friends and add a resounding NO! to deprivation to the lot.


Nouveau_Couple 43M/44F
31 posts
11/12/2005 4:22 am

You're welcomed sweetee, you're a nice girl and desrve so much what you are looking for.

alex_200mm 57M
4960 posts
11/12/2005 8:38 pm


I love your idea of all joining our voices together against sexual deprivation! A good way to counteract it would be to do our joining in a large room (and, as I'm sure you're aware, such choral efforts should be done in the nude) and then perhaps we'll find someone we cherish in that group.

Just an idea,


NaughtyNurse514 30F

11/13/2005 6:51 am

Genie- Unfortunately, I can't really understand EXACTLY what your saying, because 4 years ago I wasn't even... thinking about sex yet, but I know what it's like to consider very indecent proposals. I once considered, and thank god never really did, joining in on an all male and only poor moi gangbang. How's that for desperate? I think you and I suffer for sister ailments. Hell, maybe even the SAME one. I dunno about you, but I'm a nympho. The more I fuck, the more I need it. And of course, being bi has it's advantages, because then I get to seduce women when cock is not available. Sigh, sex is great. As for you considering women... lol. Just kidding, I would never... Force you. I let my women come to ME! . Anyways, as a final word, I'm thinking you and me need to make an URGENT, I repeat URGENT trip to Sexecité and buy you a vibrator. The same one I got yesterday for my bday. Ooh la LAAAA! Fingers no longer do when you're like us... Now, my darling, I'm going back to my bed. To sleep... Or something.

Bella xoxox

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

11/13/2005 3:52 pm


thank you everybody for either your support or your understanding...Glad to see that I'm not alone!


rm_pgn_man 39M
82 posts
11/18/2005 8:22 pm

Exactly why have you not hooked up again with this hot guy who gave you such a great night? Does he return your e-mails?


Sweetgenie_girl 41F

11/19/2005 6:43 am

Homme514 - So weird! I just saw your post today! (another bug on AdultFriendFinder???) - but I wanted to say thank you for the thoughts. It encourages me to keep sharing my thoughts when others can understand what I'm going tru!

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

11/19/2005 6:48 am

Pgn_man: unfortunately my "hot" guy is from out of town - hence why we have not hooked up again

homme_514 37M

11/19/2005 3:53 pm

Hi SweetGenie: must be a technical problem with the site. I tend to have some of those too when i update my blog. It can take days for a new page to be published. Sometimes it really makes me mad.
Keep sharing your thoughts, I just love reading you and from the comments you get it looks like im not the only one here.
I hope that what you are going through will have a happy ending !

rm_txscorpion 42M
206 posts
11/19/2005 7:43 pm

Sorry to hear you going through this. I feel your pain though. I remember going "on strike" twice in my life (focusing on my goals). One was 19 months and the other was 22 months. The first 2 months of each were HELL. You're right in saying you feel like a junkie that's been deprived of their fix. Shakes, unusual thoughts of unusual proposals, the works. Uugh!

Too bad you're not in the States. You'd have your pick of the crop here. In the South you'd be a hot commodity...intelligence, wit, ambition, and sex appeal.

I wish you the best in searching for your next hit. Hang in there. The night sweats will go away soon enough.

~The Scorpion King~

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

11/20/2005 6:31 pm

txscorpion - thanks for the compliments

I remember my last trip to Atlanta, I was DA BOMB there!!! It really made me appreciate myself even more, and I realized that as cliché as it sounds "beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder"!

By the way, lovely blog! It's nice to have someone like you around

LeopardLatte 62F
84 posts
11/22/2005 7:45 pm


Hang in there!
I find that life comes in cycles and good often comes to those of us who wait - until its the right thing to do!
And then, often, when it rains, it pours!!
I think we all go through dry periods - and then hopefully wet ones...
When you least expect it, there it'll be!

neil4you999 45M
22 posts
11/30/2005 10:45 am

u should come to my parties... u sound like just the type that are my regulars... check out my blog for details...

rm_dork1963 53M
4 posts
1/7/2006 5:34 am

New people add life to one's sexual life.

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