I did what?!?!  

Sweetgenie_girl 41F
326 posts
9/12/2005 12:58 pm

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I did what?!?!

After spending the last hour and a half responding to emails (I told you that new pix is generating response), my next post was going to be about my pet peeves about AdultFriendFinder. Then I read my last entry again and decided to come clean. My approach with this blog was to give anyone who’s interested on honest peek on how I experience life as a single girl, searching for “whatever”. And as Dr. Phil says “If you’re gonna talk to me, you gonna have to be honest”, so here I am being honest…

So remember me saying something about people seeking pleasures outside their relationship and others having sex with people they barely know…well turns out that this self-proclaimed “I’m good girl who would never do something like that” has quite a bit of “put me in the right situation and I’ll get naughty”!

So, this weekend, I met up with an acquaintance, who was in town for a business trip. Ok, so acquaintance is a bit an overstatement, since it’s someone I met online a few weeks ago and chatted with on a few occasions. Now is probably the good time to also mention that he’s “attached”. Out of respect for my acquaintance, I won’t go into the details as to why he’s seeking “some” outside of his relationship.

So back to my story: so we were to meet Saturday evening after I was done with work and the plan was to have dinner. Afterwards, I would show him some interesting Montreal landmarks and be on my merry way home and in bed for a full good night sleep! I woke up that Saturday morning with the desire to call in sick at work, stay in bed all day, watch bad movies and eat junk food. But since I’m responsible, I got myself out of bed and got ready for work. I dressed according to my mood and with no afterthought whatsoever about my dinner plans. It’s funny how on some days, your ugliest clothes are suddenly animated with magical powers to walk out of your closet and drawers and mysteriously appear on you. Let’s just that I didn’t look like the fashion victim I know I can be. I just didn’t know that I would come to regret my decision.

Now fast forward to me waiting for my acquaintance in the hotel lobby. Here comes this man out of the pages of a GQ magazine and walking towards me. Why is it that on the day that I look like… shit, I happen to have a date with a guy who actually looks way hotter then his picture? Well, dinner was good and casual. We talked about the facts of life, interests, plans for the future, hobbies, you know, non-sexual topics. After dinner, we opted for drinks at his hotel bar, where we continued our laid-back conversation. Call me innocent or whatever, but as we left the bar and he invited me up to his room to see the view, I actually believed I was just going up to see the view. There had been no sparks, flirtation or sensual looks or touches between us, so I thought I was safe.

Well it all changed, when in his room he leaned and kissed me…Woah!!! What a kisser. It had been a while since I was kissed that way. Remember back in high school and you discovered the thrill of kissing for the first time? When you and the other person were both nervous and excited. When feeling his or her tongue slip inside your mouth and exploring it made you moan with pleasure. Well this is what I was feeling and…I loved it! It was fresh, electrifying, exhilarating and arousing. And horny I got! The thought of him being attached just vanished from my brain. He became the man with the ability to make my body feel things it hasn’t felt in awhile. So I let go of all my inhibitions and I surrendered. I surrendered to his lips, his tongue, his hands and his body. It wasn’t too difficult, as my acquaintance was attentive, playful and eager to please.

After our wild romp, I watched him doze off and I laid in bed thinking. I expected at any minute to be infused with guilt over what I’d done. And I kept waiting and waiting and waiting but it never came so I finally fell asleep.

The next day, as we kissed each other goodbye, it dawn on me that we probably would never see each other again and that soon he would just fade into a memory. And the only thing I really feel guilty about: I wished I had shaved and done my pedicure on Friday evening like I had planned!

ungarsdici 46M

9/12/2005 1:54 pm

I know exactly how you feel....I cheated on my wife and did not have any guilt and way I don't know but that's really a great story....you see we never know when something special can happen....that's why I say live and let live and have fun while you can

ByteChaser2 53M

9/12/2005 3:32 pm

I'm pleased for you! And I wont say the obvious here, you already know anyway... Just a word of caution though.

Being the very moral kind of woman you express, when in time your personal monogomy values begin to knaw at you, please don't allow this to darken your this very positive experiance! It was good and under the circumstances, it was right for you.

Peace and Kissin Grease!

homme_514 37M

9/13/2005 1:22 pm

Hi Sweetgenie: Im glad that you enjoyed some fun. Too bad for the pedicure and the shaving but you seem to have had some fun anyway.

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

9/13/2005 7:37 pm

Thanks ByteChaser,

I'm still feeling guilt free...let's see how long it last

PassionateBeat 44M

9/14/2005 10:03 am

Hey SweetGenie_Girl,
I am happy you are not experiencing the pangs of guilt.. it only helps you appreciate what you have offered yourself.

Have fun, be happy and be safe.

1586 posts
9/14/2005 3:45 pm

Sweetgenie -

Isn't it nice not to feel guilty?

There is nothing better than emerging from a situation entirely unscathed.

I'm glad you had a great time.

Sweetgenie_girl 41F

9/14/2005 8:36 pm

Ungarsdici - I now understand when people tell me "it'll happen when you least expect it", cus trust me I didn't expect this at all. But one thing I know, life's too short to live with regrets.

Homme_514: thanks much...and yeah I had fun.


DCEbony: Good to see you back! And as much as I enjoyed my little adventure and the lack of guilt, it's good to be going back to my "good girl" ways! But it was nice to see my inner "naughty girl" come out and play!

rm_pgn_man 39M
82 posts
9/14/2005 10:41 pm

Good for you lass!

I'm chuffed at how you handled yourself.

Though you may want to consider that thinking you didn't look your best might have relaxed you enough to really enjoy your time with "Mr Stranger". If you found him attractive then I'm sure he noticed and returned the compliment.

Congrats and high fives!

ungarsdici 46M

9/15/2005 5:12 am

Ho yes Sweetgenis...let's live life without regrets....that's the best way........have fun...

alex_200mm 57M
4960 posts
9/15/2005 8:59 pm


Isn't it great when you enjoy the view... and your "naughty girl" likes it too?

Congratulations on your adventure!


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