The dating scene again ...  

SweetPeachNTX 51F
13 posts
4/22/2006 2:36 am

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5/2/2006 6:31 am

The dating scene again ...

Well, here I go again ... back into the dating scene. Whoever would have thought it a new city, new state, even ...

I'm here in Dallas, via New Orleans ...yes, Hurricane Katrina. I've spent the last ...well, nearly 8 months now, getting my personal life back in order ... this dating thing has been low on the priority list, as you can imagine, but, I guess it's time.

I don't like the dating scene, never have, and I suspect I never will. The word "date" seems to add unncessary pressure to the entire outing. One feels the need to impress the other with looks and manners and eating habits and, ...well, just about everything. I would much rather consider it an outing with a friend and/or friends .. and let it be just that. Whatever happens later in the evening, happens .. but with no strings attached, no need to feel pressured into anything more than either party's comfort zone.

I kinda' like the whole "fuck buddy" scenario. No need to feel pressured or "guilt tripped" into a commitment of any kind. Just relax, have fun, enjoy each other's company, have sex .. and be done with it... is this asking too much? .. lol

So I've spoken my peace about re-entering the "dating scene." I don't want to "date", I want to make friends and have fun .... let's just do it!

FYI ... the lil' Photo/Icon thingy .. my nickname is Peach .. has been for years .. {=}

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
4/22/2006 4:14 am

welcome to blogging .... you can find some great things in the blogz

have fun!!

alexand1964 52M

4/26/2006 11:24 am

I have to agree on the "buddy" thing. Just nice to have fun with someone without all the baggage. Enjoy yourselves and not worry about alot of other things. I am simply not ready for a relationship right now and think the buddy thing works just fine.

Good luck with your search and welcome back to Louisiana.

SirMounts 102M

4/27/2006 5:34 am

Well, I hope that any new relationships are very enjoyable to you.
Welcome to blogging, Peach. *smiling*

69mike69 61M
3 posts
4/28/2006 11:43 am

SweetPeachNTX. I replied to your last message and AdultFriendFinder said you blocked me. Was that a glitch? Or error?

sparkie105 57M  
7 posts
5/2/2006 5:44 am

I so much agree. The "dating" thing does put too much undo pressure on things. About the "fuck buddy" thing,,,,,,I think that makes it so erotic. Two people on a mission kind of thing. Knowing you are going to meet and pleasure each other,,that is what it's all about right?
I hope you get back to New Orleans soon and everything works out for the best.


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