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Well, maybe not too deep.
I was thinking in the shower today about sex (well, that's not too difficult to believe is it?), and the way my desires seem to be trending lately.
It may be because I feel like I've been 'in charge' of a lot of things lately, but the thing that is turning me on the most right now is *not* being in charge. I wouldn't say being submissive, but definately not being the decision maker in bed.
Now, I love my husband. He's the sweetest guy that I've ever met in my life. He's just not very...agressive isn't the right word...He's cautious. He's very shy about initiating sex, his overtures so subtle that they almost don't exist. And it drives me crazy!
We've talked about it. And it's not like he's shy once he gets going! Hell no! I just feel like I'm 'Topping from the Bottom' sometimes. I've told him "Look, tell me what you want. I'm not a mind reader! If you want me to suck your cock, say: 'Suck my cock'! If you want to watch me play with myself, tell me to put on a show. I'm not going to shrivel up in a ball because you want to put your needs in front of mine at times. Trust me, I'll enjoy it as much as you will!"
And, you know, that will last maybe 3 days. Then he's back to walking around on eggshells sexually around me. And then we go through it all over again...How many times do we have to have a conversation before he realizes that I'm not talking about a one time thing?
I know it may not be in his make up, his personality. He's a very gentle man who loves licking my pussy (and does it very, very well), but I'm really looking forward to the day when he comes home, pulls out his cock, and says: "Get on your knees and suck it, baby"
The previous post was brought to you by the 'SNS is horny, and is frustrated that she has to be the one in charge all the time' foundation.
12/6/2005 2:37 pm
Me and your hubby have lots of things in common then. I'm not particularly demanding in bed either. |