Silent Sex  

SweetNSassy065 44F
41 posts
3/16/2006 12:01 pm

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3/16/2006 2:02 pm

Silent Sex

I'm a girl that loves to express myself. I like to "use my words" in written form as well as in midst of the act. After all, language was designed for us to better communicate and interact with those around us and make more meaningful connections.

When it comes to playing, I tend to be....ahem, not so quiet. I want to show what I'm feeling and for my lover to have the benefit of the same. In fact, here's a recommendation for you silent lovers (especially you men!) out there: let it all out!! What's the point of keeping it all bottled up? You might as well just keep your fluids to yourself as well. Sex is about sharing...everything. Don't limit the experience!

Despite my usual habits and preferences, I find myself lately in a situation where my lover and I aren't exactly alone most of the time. Now, I have been traveling a great deal in the past two years and in some pretty odd situations and often, my desire for pleasure has been a higher priority than politeness. Let's just say, I don't always mind others being near if that's the only way things can be. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.

But I'm now trying to be polite at the moment and be quiet in the act, as hard as it is. So, in the midst of playing around in the darkness last night, a few more ideas for how to keep your tongue tied during sex came to mind...

Keep your tongue occupied as much as possible. If you're orally occupied, you can't exactly scream.

Keep your mouth filled. These tips are great, aren't they? Just use your mouth in the midst of play more than you normally might. You know, your lover, especially if he's a man, may really get off on you sucking on his finger while he's immitating the act with other parts of your bodies.

Take this opportunity to play more with gags.
You know what I mean: a scarf comfortably tied around your lover's head and between the lips or even a red rubber ball and leather straps.

Stay away from the blindfolding Surprise feelings and touches are going to cause a surprise squelch as well.

Muffle your pleasure outcries with a pillow.

Have a little bit play. Again, the key is to keep the mouth occupied and the moans and groans muffled. Nibble, bite down, or nip depending on your lover's tastes.

Do it in a new location. If you have the option, maybe you can remove yourself from the silent surroundings and take the opportunity to find an exotic location to play. Try the apartment building's rooftop, the nearby park, your car parked outside, or run a loud shower and bathe each other.

If you have your own tips for silent sex, I would love to hear them.

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
3/16/2006 12:46 pm

how bout earplugs?

rm_dragonheat23 51M
1158 posts
3/16/2006 1:14 pm

I agree with Kaliedascope to some degree. Hearing it one of the best parts.

SweetNSassy065 44F

3/16/2006 2:01 pm

Yes boys hearing is wonderful, but I was talking about public places where someone might frown on what you are doing.

rm_lucky125125 47M
91 posts
3/21/2006 8:45 am

I like the little bit play. What about each others hands? We both would need help

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