Possibly going to silver, should I?  

SuzieQ4U60 61F
283 posts
8/8/2006 11:59 am

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8/9/2006 8:17 pm

Possibly going to silver, should I?

I have been thinking, for a little while now, about trying and seeing the difference between standard and silver membership. It the cost worth it? I know you can email whoever you want if you are silver and/or gold, but I can email some anyway now, for some reason.

What else do I stand to gain?

Come on, someone help me here!

Help a friend out, help me make that decision. Or just pay for it for me, and let me see the difference...lol, just kidding. Am not sure AdultFriendFinder will even let you do that.

I'm just curious is all. I can blog, see profiles, email to a point.... once I had sent and/or answered about 10 or so in 1 day and got a message saying I had reached my "standard" limit.

So, what should I do??


papyrina 51F
21133 posts
8/8/2006 12:31 pm

as a standard female ,i can do most things without paying,as we female get views the more views you get the more profiles and up to 9 mails a day we can write,also in chat you can see cams for a few mins at a time.
if i could afford it i would like silver only for responding on my blog ,not for anything else.

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
8/8/2006 12:36 pm

Standard memebers are limited to 10 email responses a day. The more views you have of your profile, the more you can view other people's profiles.

Paid members can "respond" to comments left on their blogs. THat's pretty nifty. They can view unlimited profiles, send unlimited emails, comments post faster for paid members. Paid members can see blog posts a bit sooner than standard.

If you are a man here looking to hook up you almost have to go silver or gold to be able to contact women. Women are at an advantage here. We outnumber men something like 12 to 1 in most parts of the country. We are sort of the "if you build it they will come" category. If you make a profile, the men will come to you. Now, they may not be what you are looking for so a paid membership might give you a better opportunity to do your own shopping around.

BTW, the site does allow other people to pay for you. It's a sex site, do you think they are going to turn down money from anyone?

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

8/8/2006 12:42 pm

If it's not outside of your budget, try it for the shortest period/least cost available.

We've been both Standard and Silver, and for us, right now, we'll stay Silver.

timberwolf6972 44M

8/8/2006 12:49 pm

I'd go with the Silver, Gold is overated. I was a Gold member for about seven months and I wish that I would have just been Silver instead. Silver is the best deal going on the site. It has all your basic necessities covered. Standard sucks big time!

Silver can do unlimited emails and winks. It also has bigger photo album. It holds 20 pics versus the standard's 5 pics. Gold will hold 50 pics but most people will never use that many photos. You can also send network invites with a Silver account. Gold and Silver can also use the special smileys on this site.

As far as blogging goes, premium members can respond to a comment on their blog inside that same box as the commenter. Something that Standard also cannot do. These are just a few of the premium features that I normally use. Go for it, you surely have nothing to lose and some nice features to gain. {=}

SuzieQ4U60 61F

8/8/2006 1:10 pm

Thanks for all of your input. I had thought silver was best and I would like to respond to blog comments. I'm still thinking tho...


EroticaXTC 50F

8/8/2006 1:40 pm

I started out as a standard member and eventually moved up to silver. After I became a silver member is when the site added more "perks" for the paying members. Besides what Daphne said, you can read the latest responses or quotes of your comments left in other places, rather than trying to backtrack all the comments you've left to see if anyone has answered.
But being able to directly respond to the each comment in your blog has been worth it to me. Now that I'm silver, I can't make myself give it up!

amoldenough 70F
16436 posts
8/8/2006 2:18 pm

I am a standard member, and for me, right now, it is good enough. Maybe one day I will change to silver.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

SuzieQ4U60 61F

8/8/2006 2:26 pm

I love you Am.... thanks for reading my stuff. Thanks for commenting. Thanks for caring.......


ZZ_Todd 59M

8/8/2006 3:40 pm

Absolutely! Just the convenience of being able to use more of the blog features, like replying to comments on the comment, seeing where you've been quoted (to know who has replied to your comments)... being able to not worry about your limit when you want to check out a blogger's profile... Yes. Definitely... well worth it. And when you take the 3-month membership, it really is a much better deal than the $20 / month rate.

SuzieQ4U60 replies on 8/8/2006 9:26 pm:
Ok ZZ, I did it..... see, I'm silver now....

SingleWarrior 52M

8/8/2006 9:27 pm

I just looked by your user name and see the silver ball, so I guess you decided

SuzieQ4U60 replies on 8/8/2006 9:28 pm:
I sure did Single, just did it oh, about 5 minutes ago.

SuzieQ4U60 61F

8/8/2006 9:29 pm

Thank you all for your comments and advise. It truly did help me make my decision.

SingleWarrior 52M

8/8/2006 9:32 pm


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