The Perfect Partner...  

SuperAdventurous 37M
227 posts
9/3/2006 12:31 pm

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9/5/2006 12:52 pm

The Perfect Partner...

I have finally just finished my house & I must say that this is proof that I can look after myself. LOL... I mean come on people, I USED A MOP??? Hell, I didn't even know what one of them things were for until this evening.

Now back to the topic & thoughts in my head for the evening...

I've been called superficial, UNREALISTIC & shallow... All because there is a certain type of woman that I am attracted to & I wont settle for anything less.

Why should I have too..?

So I am asking u to describe or post a pic in the comments of who you would consider as ur perfect partner, if you haven't already found them...

The icon are some photos of a girl I found somewhere on the net. She posted on a well known rating site I was surfing & thought to myself that I would share with you folks the kind of woman I find appealing. Not necessarily her 100%, but you get the general idea.

As a person, obviously, I dont know what she is like. Sense of humour, personality, sexually etc. But her keywords in the profile are what kind of filled in the blanks. She is ambitious, has her own dance teaching business, fun, out going, DARING, likes sushi etc.

The other photo of her in the bikini. OMG... She isn't skinny/thin. But slender, with a curves in all the right places. Nice pair of boobs, bout a full C... She seems to be the type of persona takes pride in her appearance & her body. Physically I find her quiet appealing. She is tanned, so it means she must like the beach & outdoors. I LOVE BEING OUTDOORS. I Hate being couped up indoors for too long.

So lets see... She is ambitious, good looking, stunning body, likes the outdoors... Now all that needs to be done is that I must fly to UK and win her heart. LoL...

She is a South African girl, but up there for a few years...

My point is this... That that is the type of person I seem to be attracted to.

So you tell me... Am I Unrealistic? Must I Lower my standards? Am I Aiming too high? Is she too much of a "Barbie" that is only interested in the guy with the BMW? Its easy to answer those questions with a no... Kinda like the, "Does my bum look big in these jeans" question. Its an answer you give to spare someones feelings.

I've had a few hotties in my day. Not just attractive, but very attractive... The problem seems to be holding on to them. ROFL....

I know I know... Im obsessed with this whole fcukin single life & finding someone story as its all I seem to blog about.

But this is my blog & I will cry if I want too (Super sings in that whole ITS MY PARTY & I'LL CRY IF I WANT voice)

Other than that, there is nothing else on my mind. Its been an expensive weekend as far as my 3G card is concerned. Used up alomst 280MBs, this weekend. Thats ok... I think I need to start getting out more anyways. Visiting friends, taking someone to movies, playing pool etc... Its not healthy to spend as much time as I have been "Hybernating"

It just hit me... A blinding realisation as I wrote that last sentence. Im not "Hybernating" AM I HIDING?

I never used to spend this much time indoors (ok, weather has been crap) or alone. I was always doing something of sorts. Hmmmmm...

Now I have something new on my mind. Let me ponder on that topic for awhile & I will get back to you.

Love, Peace & Chicken Grease - The Pest

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
9/3/2006 1:37 pm

You are not superficial, unrealistic or shallow. You like what you like, and shouldn't settle for less.I would say this, however; keep your mind and heart open for all different types of women. You might think you want a certain type, but a different type might come along and be everything you want in a woman, and steal your heart away.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

SuperAdventurous replies on 9/4/2006 11:49 am:
Amen Amoldenough...

I agree with you fully. And 9 times out of 10, it happens they way you describe. Im not saying that I am blockin other options out all together... I am extremely open minded in many aspects of life.

Thanks for poppin in and the comment.

sweetandchey 40F

9/3/2006 1:48 pm

Congrats on your success with the mop. You made a huge step in the right direction in life today.....LOL. As far as being superficial, UNREALISTIC & shallow... You should be! I think there are lots of amazing people who may not be the most beautiful out there, but have some great qualities. Is that what your looking for? Great! If not do what makes you happy. You need to be content in how you feel and need to make the choices in woman you feel is right for you. After all you are the one who has to be happy.

As far as what I'm looking for... well he's about 30-40, dark hair, darker eyes, an amazingly fit tan body. Tall, but not too tall. He must be a well educated, professional man with great amount of respect for people and good manners. Be genuinely kind man with great conversational skills. So this is what I want in a man. So I guess some may say I'm superficial, UNREALISTIC & shallow... But so be it. Good luck to you. Kisses, Chey

SuperAdventurous replies on 9/4/2006 11:55 am:
Hey there Chey...

Yeah, I tell you... I thought I was pretty domesticated for a bachelor. Laundry, cooking etc etc... But then I realised that I actually have to clean the house this time, not my cleaning lady. I learnt alot yeasterday. LOL

Its not all about the physical aspect for me. But it does play a role... Too narrow it down, its basicallt the complete package for me. You cant be with an attractive person, who is loyal, honest etc, but completely sucks in bed. Or vice versa... They have to be an all rounder.

You looking for a 30-40 yr old? I'll chat to u in 3 years time. ROFL...

Chey... You're a honey. Thanks for stopping by.. Hope to hear more from u.

JeersPilarSaver 35F

9/4/2006 5:58 am

no, dont lower ure standards n ure not aiming too high. and kinda man that im looking, well he should be tall, nice body, great stamine, can be blond or dark hair, niceeeee smile, and can appreciate people (umm am i describing u?? hahaha). hard to find? or aiming too high?? maybe, but thats what i always get kissssss

SuperAdventurous replies on 9/4/2006 11:57 am:

From what people have told me, we all have the right to be shallow and unrealistic when it comes to finding the right person.

I dunno... Are you describing me? Hehe... I can only hope.

You're a babe... Love hearing from u sweety.


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
9/4/2006 11:45 am

Put that mop away and get outside and do something fun!

Purry {=}


SuperAdventurous replies on 9/4/2006 12:01 pm:

U are so right my queen. I have decided to try do that from now on. Had an awesome gym session today and went and played squash.

Tommorrow its gym and go visit someone...

Mwah babes.

rm_Angielicku 35F
25 posts
9/5/2006 4:13 am

Its like going to a car dealer and you say to yourself: today i get that BMW. You get to the dealer and there is no BMW. Are you gonna another car or wait for your bmw? When it comes to the love of YOUR life, be as selfish and shallow ,superficial, UNREALISTIC as u can be. It is YOUR life afterall, you will be spending the rest of it with that person, whom i think should be nothing less than what YOU want... As for your mop situation, YOU GO BOY

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