Who are you and why are you here?  

SunneyOne 44F
2146 posts
1/9/2006 4:21 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Who are you and why are you here?

Hey you! Yeah, that's right, you. (tap tap tap) I'm talking to you, the one reading this. Who are you and why are you here?

I see all these names I don't know everyday of people who come and read my blog, many of whom come back every day. Most of whom never leave comments.

Even some of you who do leave comments... who are you? Why do you read my schlock?

Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm just curious about why you read this. What do you get out of it? Do we have something in common?

Obviously you don't HAVE to answer. But I'm just curious as to who's out there and what I did to deserve so many people's curiosity, at least.

a_poetman 45M

1/9/2006 9:53 am

I read cause you are one of the most intelligent women I've met down here. Your outlook, opinions, I like the way you think baby!

I think that sums it up Sunney!

Thanks for sharing!

SunneyOne 44F

1/9/2006 10:53 am

Awww, thanks Poet. I read you in hopes of seeing more pics, you damn sexy hunk of man.

AltumHunksUnite 53M

1/9/2006 11:17 am

Because you're one of the few honestly real people in this place.

And... what's all this about moving out of the area? WITH A STERN LOOK ON HIS FACE Hmmm???

Let me drive. I like the view

nnevjim 61M

1/9/2006 11:26 am

I check here every couple of days because you always have something to say that's worth reading. Why else? It's certainly not for the nude pics.
I'm in a stale marriage that has had its ups and downs over 20+ years, but I'm still in it for "the children". I live with it.

Here, I read about a woman's life that does not include denial about her nature, one with appreciation for her body even though it does not match conventional ideas of perfection (hell, who cares who "they" are), and about someone with a real artistic sense.
I can tell you that my spouse was, and is, more "conventionally" attractive to me than are you, but who says attraction is merely surficial and a question of planes,curves and forested indentations? Mental connection is at least 50% of the substance of attraction, and anyone reading your blogs knows that real substance exists here. Why should you question your attraction, anyway?

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
1/9/2006 11:29 am

I read because you're beautiful and funny and insightful
and knowing that there are alot of us passionate women out there
makes me proud

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

piamatter 44F

1/9/2006 12:25 pm

Hi Sunny,
I am currently living in NJ though I spend the summers in Seminole. I grew up in the area. I came across some of your TASA posts. Then I also noticed your blog listed on the "if you like the blog you ll like.... section of my blog. Could not resist peaking. Happy I did!
Its nice to come across an intellectual,sexy and well-written blog.
I have added your Ramblings to my watched list, so you ll see my name appear on the visitors list often.


SunneyOne 44F

1/9/2006 1:12 pm

hottiecop - Good Gawd, man. Please allow me to be your one woman welcome committee. As for the whole "cop" thing... my sister is a cop. She says I'm a holster sniffer and that you will know what that means. But anyway, good reasons, and thank you for the compliments.

Pia - many thanks. So are you an official snowbird?

nnev - Uhm, thanks, I guess. Signed, the less conventionally attracive one. (How's that for obsessing?)

Cleavis - So much for me keeping that quiet huh? Yeah, when I figured out that I couldn't have you, I decided it was time to move on.

AltumHunksUnite 53M

1/9/2006 2:08 pm

Hmm... just when I thought I was done with driving women out of town.

The Pied Piper of Pinellas strikes again.

Let me drive. I like the view

nnevjim 61M

1/9/2006 4:24 pm

Probably considered it a back-handed compliment, no? You do obsess a good deal,which only shows you're human. I MERELY implied that my wife is very attractive, yet we're less than successful as a couple (for whatever reasons). Did I say you were NOT attractive? That I'm sending notes to you is pathetic at a certain level, but I'm just commenting (in a back-handed way) about the fickleness of some (most?) men and how attraction is difficult to put one's finger on.
Did I say you're attractive.....how about beautiful? Is the fence mended??

gardinaire 54M

1/9/2006 5:44 pm


Because you bring a smile and even a develish grin to my face when I visit and read.

I did not find what I was looking for on this site, but I did discover some really wonderful, sexy, & passionate people.

Thanks for writing to us!!


SunneyOne 44F

1/9/2006 6:18 pm

Gardinaire - Awww, that is sweet. And the not finding what you were particularly looking for, but finding something else is a sentiment shared by many. I didn't either, but I did find some great friends.

nnev - Fence is more than mended, sweet man. And no, you aren't pathetic.

Songbird - Ditto, punkin, ditto. *hugs*

Cleavis - You could've at least attempted to make out with me. Now all of TASA will have you to thank for my departure. (teasing)

ct - Nice to see you back!

goldinboy2 60M

1/9/2006 6:56 pm

were else can you converse with people from far off lands(sometimes) and read, comment or whatever. Speak your mind thats what bloging is all about.

rm_bigchoklatdk 45M

1/9/2006 7:45 pm

Sunneyone, I was drawn to your blog when I was brousing thru the "most views". Your pretty face and sexyness caught my attention. You seem very photogenic and have an aura about u, so I was enticed to read your blog "I Love Cock". It was interesting to say the least. You seem to have a way with words. You drew me in even further so I came back for more and read your next one about the Christmas gift from your boss. You seem to put your soul into your writing and when I look at your photo and read your articles, I can tell that u r a passionate woman. For that, I will continue to check in on u periodically! U go girl! Holla!

mangomamiCT 42F

1/9/2006 8:50 pm

Honesty is addictive for me . Rare and addictive .

softnlush 53F

1/9/2006 9:26 pm

I read your blogs because I feel you are honest,funny and totally to the point..there are no games or guessing where your blogs are concerned,I have read things you wrote that I could have written myself and I appreciate what you write as I know it comes from your heart..there is no bullshit there at all..you are open and brutally honest (in a good way my friend).

my 2 pennies *wink*

JudeL5 46M
1550 posts
1/9/2006 9:41 pm

Hey Sunney,
I first came to your blog because of your eyes and mischiveous smile in your previous profile pic.

And I like your writing style... kind of a "matter of fact" way of fleshing out all kind of topics from Xmas shopping, to making cookies, and without batting an eye, you switch to lusting after your doctor, sushi making you horny, and wanting to give oral in the coat closet at work .... still matter of fact

While my situation isn't the same as yours, I still feel I can relate to some of the feelings you share about being separated and moving on....

Oh, and if you're ever in Vancouver, I know several top notch sushi restaurants..... to start the evening out right

SunneyOne 44F

1/10/2006 4:06 am

Jude - My sexy friend, you have NO idea how tempting that is. Probably a good thing for us both that you're soooo far away. I'd have to break my own rules.

SnL - I'm always surprised, and very touched, when people say that they identify. So much of what I post is stuff that I feel like I'm the only one, that people will be shocked, put off, or just not get. But yet, every single time, there is either a comment or email from someone who understands. That means a lot to me. And looking at it from the other side, I think it means alot to other people to be able to identify with someone at least on one issue.

mango - Many thanks.

bigchok - Oh lordy, I'm blushing.

goldin - Thank you.

Fallic40 53M
1858 posts
1/10/2006 9:41 am

Sunney, I read your blog because you entertain and enthrall. You write better than most and there is a constant variety of stories.

Plus you look very sexy laying on that bed like that.

SunneyOne 44F

1/10/2006 1:53 pm

Fallic - You sweet patootie. Thank you.

hottie - I don't recall offering a tour of the area, other than.. well, nevermind. But anything in the name of service to my community. he he he...

hereforyou6217 43M
912 posts
1/10/2006 9:29 pm

Sunney-- well, I *used* to leave comments on your blog. Then I... stopped. Wasn't sure my comments were welcome here anymore. But I didn't stop reading. It's still one of my favorite destinations on this site. I love the way you describe things-- from the way you're feeling to the things you're seeing. You write so evocatively and... sensually. That's why I'm here.

Now you just need to get a cat. Cat stories are ALWAYS winners.

SunneyOne 44F

1/11/2006 3:52 am

hereforyou - I wondered where you had gone. Why did you think your comments weren't welcome?? They always were, and always will be.

And no, I'm not getting a cat.

rm_VoodooGuru1 49M
2053 posts
1/11/2006 10:12 am

I read because:

1. Your writing is eclectic, fun, and has nearly no sense of self-consciousness.

2. You sometimes mention stuff in the Bay area, my home for more than a decade, and it brings me back.

3. I have a low grade crush on you.

24n26RAVER 38M/35F
2 posts
1/11/2006 12:17 pm

I'm not normally one to make blog comments but I've been reading your blog for quite some time and felt the need to speak up. In all actuality this is the first blog I ever started reading on here and only one of 4 I sign on here everyday in order to read. Sadly I've gotta repeat just about every other comment on here as to why I read your blog......you're smart, funny, beautiful, honest, and very opinionated and not in a bad way. I also am very honest and opinionated and some in a bad way...but that's just cos the filter I should have between my mouth and brain was never installed. Just thought I'd speak up and let you know we're not all stalkers if that's what you're thinking but you're more of a breath of fresh air that is much needed around this site.

oraide05 50M

1/11/2006 2:05 pm

I read because sometimes you make me laugh and I find you interesting and sexy.

SunneyOne 44F

1/11/2006 8:44 pm

Voodoo - I don't have a lot of self consciousness. Life's too short for it. Just enough to be "sane". And a "low grade crush"? That's it? Just low grade? Just teasing... I'm flattered.

24n26 - Jen, wow, I'm very touched. I had seen your nick on the watching list a few times and wondered why you were here, etc. Thank you for speaking up, that means a lot to me.

oraide - Again, hellooooo, never knew you cared. He he he... maybe we can say hi at Rudy's.

creativcouple2 65M/64F

1/14/2006 12:07 pm

no low grade crush here, it is a full fledged craving.

Tall01Guy 42M

1/30/2006 8:17 am

A long-overdue response...

Why am I here? Because it's a diversion from the workday; because you've usually got something to say, and it's always a combination of funny, interesting, sexy, and heartfelt; because you write well enough that I can almost see what you're talking about. And because voyeurism is fun, of course.

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