Can you handle it?  

SunneyOne 43F
2146 posts
7/8/2005 8:12 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Can you handle it?

Recently, a post was made in a message board I am on wherein a gentleman stated that he had seen this title or at least as text in quite a few ads. He was asking what it meant. Some guessed maybe it was sexual partners. Some guessed it had to do with preferences. Some thought maybe physical aspects.

For me, it isn't about any of those things. Can you handle it is the title of my profile. For me, this is what it means:

Can you handle commitment? Can you handle doing what you say you will, speaking your mind, saying what you feel and what you mean, then backing that up with your actions? Can you handle a woman who does that? Can you handle emotion, honesty, trust and communication? Can you handle someone who is sexually open, demonstrative, affectionate and wickedly nympho - who wants to focus that on you? Can you handle devoting yourself to one woman? Can you handle physical intimacy without sex sometimes? Can you handle sex, all weekend, in bed, only getting up to order pizza and take a shower together, dragging another bottle of wine to the bedroom? Can you handle intellectual stimulation? Can you handle just sitting and staring at stars sometimes, listening to frogs without having to fill the moment with conversation? Can you handle being able to talk about anything, to listen to the same story for the third time, and still be amazed at how much you like listening to the sound of my voice? Can you handle a woman who knows exactly what she wants and has reached a point in her life where she won't settle for less?

That's what I mean when I ask, Can you handle it? Sure, it's a big order. But somewhere, somehow, someone is reading that and saying, "Hell yes I can."


luvsxoxo 43F

7/9/2005 8:01 am

I had no idea sunny...I hope you didn't take any offense, But I do see what you are saying...


JonJonAlone 70M/89F  
12 posts
7/9/2005 9:42 am

"Hell Yes! Been there, DOING that!


SunneyOne 43F

7/9/2005 10:22 pm

Luv - Gawd, no, I didn't take offense.

Hey there Marjon, nice to see you two.


consistant2005 87M

7/10/2005 6:18 pm

I understand exactly what you mean. Alas were I 20 yrs younger, I would like to have taken up the challenge


SunneyOne 43F

7/10/2005 8:24 pm

Awww, thank you, consistant. That's sweet.

Akadafa - I realize that. It's all about marketing.


AltumHunksUnite 53M

7/11/2005 2:07 am

Sunney, I'm sure plenty of men out there are perfectly willing to "handle it", but in my opinion, they're not looking for something like that on this site.

In any case, the thought of putting your life into someone else's hands, being the light of someone's life, becoming responsible for their emotions, etc., can be a pretty scary.

Let me drive. I like the view


SunneyOne 43F

7/11/2005 4:56 am

Cleavis - You never know. And welcome to my thriller.


rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
2/3/2006 5:17 pm

"Can you handle commitment?"
Yes, but won't dare make it early, first discover , than commit, commitment when one is unsure is a recipie for disastor and wasted time. until I am commited, I am free, once I'm commited, "tunnelvision"

"Can you handle doing what you say you will"
I try, however, I am not real good vs. the world, still I try hard.
comes with saying what you can do, not overextending verbally.

"speaking your mind, saying what you feel and what you mean, then backing that up with your actions?"
sometimes I get shy, sometimes my feelings change on me, yes, I back up my words.

"Can you handle a woman who does that? Can you handle emotion, honesty, trust and communication?"
-- yes, and the greatest of these is trust, win my trust and the rest will come, but oh how hard to truly in my trust says the once bittin twice shy man.

" Can you handle someone who is sexually open, demonstrative, affectionate and wickedly nympho - who wants to focus that on you? "
-- oh yeah, can you handle focusing that, after a fe years will that baseball player in the elevator who is young hung and has an ass like a two chisled rocks, make you regrett being tied up at home?

" Can you handle devoting yourself to one woman? "
-- did, the one and only time I cheated is on my blog. extenuating circumstances.

"Can you handle physical intimacy without sex sometimes?"
-- uuuuuuhhhhhh welllllll, emmmmmm, errrrrr, maybe?

"Can you handle sex, all weekend, in bed, only getting up to order pizza and take a shower together, dragging another bottle of wine to the bedroom?"
-- ahhhh yes, this one I got in the bag baby! yeah!

"Can you handle intellectual stimulation? Can you handle just sitting and staring at stars sometimes, listening to frogs without having to fill the moment with conversation?"
-- tis how you know you've reached my heart.

Can you handle being able to talk about anything, to listen to the same story for the third time, and still be amazed at how much you like listening to the sound of my voice?
-- especially the voice part

Can you handle a woman who knows exactly what she wants and has reached a point in her life where she won't settle for less?
--- yes, im glad you won't that part I dig.

"but how far down the rabbit hole will she go to get it?" the midget asks the female midget.
Can you handle the wierdest person you have ever met? lol
rotfl mwuaaaa mwuaaaa


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