Beautiful  

SunneyOne 43F
2146 posts
10/31/2005 6:50 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Beautiful


I have never, until yesterday, been told by a man, other than my Dad, that I am beautiful. Let me clarify ‒ a man who has seen me in person and says it to me in person. While the compliments here are lovely, it’s never the same as someone real, present and touchable saying it to your face. I’ve heard “cute” more often than anything, sometimes “sexy”, and I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve been called “hot”. But never beautiful.

And there’s something about that. When you’ve never heard it, you begin to internalize the opinion that you just aren’t. And sometimes, that’s okay. You learn to deal with that.

But then someone comes along and holds your face in their hands, looks into your eyes and tells you that you’re beautiful. The first time, you may blush and argue a little. The second time, you still blush, kind of laugh. The third, you may learn to accept the compliment graciously.

By the fourth time, something else happens. There is a shift, a slight change, and you begin to see yourself through their eyes. And for the first time, ever, you believe it.

Men, if you have a girlfriend, a wife, a lover, whatever… never take it for granted that we know you think we are attractive. We need to hear it. Tell your woman that you think she’s beautiful. Look her in the eyes when you say it. Say it till she believes it. Drink her in like she is the last gulp of water in the desert. Like she is the last sight you’ll ever see. What that does for her, you may never know, but she will. And she won’t forget it.

soulripper2005 47M

10/31/2005 10:30 am

Isn愒 anyone beautiful, isn愒 it???
There aren愒 lots of people to find this words for, but on their way, their mind, their oppinion it will be at last as is it: "Everyone is beautiful"!
Everyone has got the right to hear those words from the one she/he is in love with, from people, dont愒 know who they are.
So i惻l say it too, "Your are beautiful!"
You are beautiful for beeing borned, You are beautiful for beeing here on this website, You are beautiful for Your blogs and Your mind, You are beautiful to take the shit of some ignoring, cockbreathed Members, You are beautiful, cause You are You.
And if anyone would like to tell You anything other,this one should realy quit find the Startup or the restart Button for his brain and his Soul.
So do on You wonderful, beautiful and uniqe Soul, do on sharing Your Life with us, till you惻l get Your Soulmate, Your Mr.Right, the dragonharded, dragonkilling Partner who will serve you, love you for this and for all the time You both will life.


LovableEclectic 59F

10/31/2005 2:42 pm

Oh Sunney - you are so right. There is nothing like hearing that special man in your life tell you that you are beautiful. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks as long as he feels that way, and tells you so.


qlbanks 34M
1 post
10/31/2005 8:36 pm

Probably the most insightful message I've read on this site. It meant something just to read it.


rm_gent258 68M
486 posts
10/31/2005 8:43 pm

Maybe it's your gorgeous eyes. You are beautiful


bardicman 50M

11/1/2005 7:57 am

It is always nice to be given a compliment and know that it is meant. To many times it seems, people throw compliments around in hopes of getting something. The sincere ones warm your heart and soul.



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a_poetman 45M

11/1/2005 8:19 am

Enjoy Sunney! Enjoy!


letmeseeanumu 45M
25 posts
11/1/2005 9:39 am

you are beautiful Sunney and thank for letting me know the secret of a girlfriend


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
11/1/2005 12:33 pm

FAR MORE IMPORTANT, I BELIEVE..

IS THE ABILITY TO SEE AND RECOGNIZE A BEAUTIFUL HEART..

SOME FOLKS BELIEVE "HERE ON EARTH" IS A TESTING GROUND..I DONT KNOW, BUT I HAVE LEARNED THAT GOODNESS LIES IN THE HEART AND NOT ON THE SKIN..

SO,..I WISH YOU HEAR SOFT WHISPERS IN YOUR EARS OF HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE ... ALL OVER..EVERYWHERE.. THE BEAUTY OF A TRUE GODDESS..

NAMASTE


SunneyOne 43F

11/3/2005 4:27 am

Bardic - doesn't appear it was sincere after all. Oh well...

anacortes - While I wholeheartedly agree, as a woman, I still want the man I am with to think me physically beautiful too.


SunneyOne 43F

11/4/2005 7:42 am

Sexygirrl - Of course it's okay! I'm an equal opportunity appreciator. And from you, lovely lady, that's quite a compliment. Thank you.


AMIR_05love 36M
1 post
11/5/2005 2:04 pm

hello, my goal is to find a woman sexy which can make me forget the life.


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