frustrated bi-girls?  

Sugaree53 63M/63F
4 posts
12/2/2005 7:32 pm

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5/10/2006 12:38 pm

frustrated bi-girls?

Are other bi-girls having trouble meeting others? You must be online in the Boston area but where are you? In a year on AdultFriendFinder we met exactly one girl and we weren't eachother's types. Also she lived in a small town and was worried that news would get back to her husband. I joined for women seeking women but most lesbian ladies hate bi-girls. The only person I've met who was worse off for dates was a transgender individual who (although I didn't say it it to her face) couldn't pass. Does anyone have advice? I won't sign up for silver or gold since I joined AdultFriendFinder believing it was "free" We seem popular with men but my SO prefers another women,so our invitations haven't ben what we're looking for. Of course with the holidays approaching everyone is busy but all I want for Christmas is a nice...quess what...

blonde_hottie20 31F

12/9/2005 3:55 pm

I know what you mean. Bi girls don't really get a lot of love from the gay community. it's wierd since people think of the gay community as very tolerent, understanding people. I guess some people believe that you have to choose sides, as if everything is so black and white. It is not easy to meet people on these boards, especially if you are from as small a place as I am. I find it hard to meet girls in general and when I go out guys to fuck are a dime a dozen. I feel your pain!

plainjane50 64F

12/19/2005 12:12 pm

Yes, it is difficult to meet other bi-girls especially if you aren't truly experienced and also if you are not in your twenty's or so it seems. Have you had any luck yet?

Sugaree53 63M/63F

12/21/2005 8:51 pm

So far the one woman we met through AdultFriendFinder wasn't compatible. In trying I don't mention being Bi or will get bounced. I've met 4 women there but have only become friendly with one. We met to walk our dogs,but she recently met Ms Wonderful and has dissappeared from view. I try to keep optimistic! Of course I haven't been to a club in 20 years and what would I do with girls young enough too be my daughter????I stayed out of circulation for a while to avoid hurting my x-GF who is now my best friend, but I'm tired of sitting home alone. Wish me luck!!!

lliwredd 52M
34 posts
2/5/2006 12:37 pm

sugaree,i wish i had a salutation to your problem but i don,t and it seems that my problem and yours are similar. i have problem finding a woman that likes or willing to try the lifestyle with me..i,ve been on the site also for over a year and everyone i,ve come in contact with is only interested in talking or just giving out false infor.
so like you i,m wondering were are all the people at that really enjoy free, clean fun. do a person have to move to a state like n.y,
chi-town, or cali... good look on your search and if i ever find a woman that matches my likes, i,ll get back to you guys

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