A Woman Who Knows Herself  

SuccessDrive1 50M
13 posts
7/13/2005 11:26 pm

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5/20/2009 2:16 am

A Woman Who Knows Herself

A Woman Who Knows Herself

What I know I appreciate in a woman is the ability to know herself. She knows what looks good on her, and that is all that really matters. She dresses herself from the heart of herself. She knows not to lay on too much makeup, and she only uses her makeup to extenuate the inner beauty that she feels inside herself. She takes great pride in her nail care. She knows that this is what attracts the inner beast of men, and not ashamed or afraid to use them in the throws of her passion for him. She knows how to relax around her man, and does not need to put on false pretenses to impress him. She knows how to kiss, and enjoys the art of kissing (for it is truly a forgotten art). When she is with her man in public, she is not afraid to show her affections for him. When they walk down the street she holds his hand and caresses it as they stroll. Perhaps there is a chill in the air, and she is not afraid to pull him close, and hold onto his warming body. When they watch a movie together, she is not afraid to cuddle beside him and caress him in her gentle ways. If they lay together in the moonlight of the evening, she draws him close to her, yearning for him to never let go. She ALWAYS let's him know what she is thinking and feeling, and does not expect him to read her mind or her feelings. She knows that life has been hard on him and her both, and only expects them to change together as they search for growth together. She is not afraid to take on any subject of any conversation. She will debate him and take her stand for what she knows is right. She does not expect him to change to her point of view (even though she is always right...lol). She believes in God the Almighty as her savior and source of TRUE LOVE. She is independent, and does not need a man to approve of her philosophies. Most of all she is honest with her man, and does not feel the need to hide anything from him.
She respects the man she is with, and supports him in all that he does. She is not jealous of him, and knows she can trust him completely. (This, of course, is her hardest task when all the ones that came before him left her for another, but she knows that this man WILL NOT do this to her again.) To appreciate her man she will always listen to his needs, but not forget that she has the power to control her own. For men are weak at heart. They are children yearning to be loved. She knows that when HE finds that deep hole in her heart, he will sew it up and sorrow will never fill it again. She has the power to give this to him. When she does, they are united FOREVER with enriching power as two hearts that beat as one.

ProspectorsPlace 67M/64F

2/28/2006 2:27 pm

Jim.. ever the romantic..



Veritas vos Liberabit–Semper Vigilo, Fortis, Paratus, et Fidelis!

Prospector /l\

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
3/5/2006 1:14 pm

Holy cow and your not writing more for WHAT reason?

hugs and smiles

SuccessDrive1 50M
8 posts
3/9/2006 10:52 pm

I would love to write more, but you are only the 3rd person to ever say anything about my blog. I figured no one is interested in deep thoughts here about ones self. Thank you for the compliment. I wish you all the best in your search.


rm_DenverGirl8 46F
2 posts
11/27/2006 7:06 pm

Hi Jim,
I just read this and wow ... that was amazing. You wrote that beautifuly and I agree with all of it!

Your heart is beautiful.


iamsooready4 44F

4/13/2007 3:53 pm

it can be very unsettling knowing that there is a man out there that can want the same things from his lady that most women want from there men.

you put what is in your heart very eloquently in words BEAUTIFUL

SuccessDrive1 50M
8 posts
4/15/2007 5:39 am

FINALLY!!! A Woman who gets IT!!!! There may be more to you than meets the eye. Thanks for the comment, and I look forward to knowing you much better. JIM

rm_deroc83 51M

4/20/2007 8:22 pm

I know were you are coming from brother!!!!! When you have this you never let go. I found that now, when I thought it was lost it forever. Best of luck to you!!!!

countrygirl407 45F

6/20/2007 2:58 pm

A sad fact of today's society is no one knows who they are. They are so concerned with being everything everyone else desires they have lost their true self in the process. What you have written holds true not only for women. Both men and women are so afraid of getting physical close due to not wanting to smear their make-up or wrinkle their suit. They have sacrificed the art of being in love. They have found it is easier to give up when hard times hit a relationship rather then stay together and put in the extra effort to help not only each other but also themselves.
I've heard so many people say relationships are a 50/50 situation. I wish they could see how unbalanced that line of thinking is. Each person needs to give 100% of themselves to the relationship, not just a mere 50%. Each person needs to enter the relationship knowing that it isn't going to be fair or even. There are going to be days when one person can only give 90%. Then it's the other person's job to give 110% without hesitation or resentment. Because the situation could change and the person who gave 110% may only be able to give 80%. Then the first person has to give 120% for the relationship to survive.

GlistenMe 46F

1/26/2009 8:10 pm

I really wish I could understand men, but for those of us woman that do know who were are and know what we want seems to scare off men? So why is that? Could it be that we are head strong on our goals, wants, needs, disires, and dreams? If anyone can explain this to me I would greatly appreciate it...

SuccessDrive1 replies on 1/26/2009 8:53 pm:
I think that there are so many contributing factors these days. In my years of study (LO of my relationships, I have found that the biggest contributing factor is that Men and Women do not know what their roles are any longer. There has been so much gender bending. traditional values are out the window these days, and morality is at its lowest in decades.
Men have definately forgotten how to appreciate women. Women have completely forgotten how to please a man. Sex seems to be where they both think that they can FIX their shortcomings in their relationships. When the sex is stale or it no longer is the FIX they need, they look to end the relationship, or look elsewhere (LIKE AdultFriendFinder).

For me, I have not completely given up on the idea that there might be the right woman out there for me, but for now I am completely content pleasing woman in the bedroom if that is their desire. I know that may seem shallow, but why fight it any more is my answer. I am just going with the flow.

Perhaps someday they will develop a pill that will cure all of this for us. However, I would hate to read the warning label or the disclaimer for the side affects. LOL

ladybug_1 52F

1/31/2009 9:40 pm

WOW! where have you been all my life!

SolitaryBeauty 43F
4 posts
2/2/2009 12:11 pm

This is very well written. It is a shame to let your talent go untapped because no one appears to be interested in what you have to say. Please yourself and those who are interested...
Revealing yourself in this manner can only increase the chances you will find the woman who completes you. Write more... let me see deeper... please?

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