Life w/a 14 yr old  

Submsvmisskitty 47F
66 posts
11/29/2005 9:46 pm

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Life w/a 14 yr old


I thought years ago when my daughter turned into a teen it would be easier but nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo I have new delemas.
She talks a lot and Im not aloud to go to the high school with the truck. I cant kiss her cheek or say I love you in public or be myself. I graduated from taking her to school and back because she was too little to being a taxi because she has to stay late to finish projects at school past dark.
Now she has her own cell phone and I wish I could get her an Ipod but then what else could I give her with the little money I have in her present budget so I see about her brthday in April.
Her friend has a boyfriend and Im trying to look cool about it but Im not ready for all this.
.........................Kitty

Poker115 52M

12/2/2005 12:49 am

I know exactly what you are going through, my nephew is 14 doesn't want me listening to my music because what ever I like is gay....lol, he has to dress a certain way can't wear just any clothes have to be a certain ones. It's funny when they were little they knew nothing but as soon as they reach 12 years or older they suddenly know more than you, they know everything all of a sudden. I feel for you, but what can you do but accept them for who they think they are and love them and be there for them. Good luck.
Take Care
Poker115


FriendlybutKinky 49M

12/2/2005 1:32 pm

Margaret Mead, the reknowned anthropologist, upon researching adolescent behavior in many different cultures, quipped.

"...we should bury our children when they are 13 and dig them up again when they are 18..."

Hang in there, you are having a universally recognized teenager experience.


needalotoflics 42M
112 posts
12/4/2005 8:32 am

KITTY dont freakout BUT at the same time DONT let your 14 yearold forget that your the parent and that she is the daughter Tell her EXplain that when you tell her that you love her that she should'nt be imbarrased THATS cool how many other kids her age dont recive that kind of love from there parents You should always know where shes at and how shes doing who shes with ITS just being SAFE look what happend to the little girl in FLORIDA SHE was KIDNAPPED by a rapest that worked at a car was when she was walking home SHE never made it home YOUR daughter should never be ASHAMED of you or you actions THAT LOVE


needalotoflics 42M
112 posts
12/4/2005 8:36 am

KITTY dont freakout BUT at the same time DONT let your 14 yearold forget that your the parent and that she is the daughter EXPLAIN to her that when you tell her that you love her that she should'nt be imbarrased . THATS cool how many other kids her age dont recive that kind of love from there parents You should always know where shes at and how shes doing who shes with ITS just being SAFE look what happend to the little girl in FLORIDA SHE was KIDNAPPED by a rapest that worked at a carwash when she was walking home SHE never made it home YOUR daughter should never be ASHAMED of you or your actions THATS LOVE who cares what her friends are doing tell her to be a leader not follower


Submsvmisskitty 47F
14 posts
12/4/2005 10:32 pm

All I can say is huh.................I really really dont think you needalotoflics have ANY kids because you proved my point why I dont date guys with no kids. Lets say the joke went over your head and you ruined the little giggle I had here.


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