Do women rely get "SICK AND TIRED OF THA BULLSHIT"  

StrongBone71301 43M
27 posts
11/30/2005 6:27 pm

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While driving home from work today and I started thinking about the phrase "sick and tired of the bullshit." It made be wonder if women rely mean this when they say it or do they say it because its the proper thing to say? I'll use myself as an example.
I've worked two jobs while going to college. I have recently graduated, make decent money, I'm a big dude, but far from a ugly mofo, I dress well and get a fresh haircut every Thursday. I'm not Dr. Dick-u-down, but I handle my business in the bedroom. I won't be the best sex that you'll have for the rest of your life, but I'll be the best sex that you've had so far. I do aim to please. I'm not a selfish lover, as a matter of fact, my satisfaction comes from satisfying my woman. I will never hit a woman or call one a bitch or hoe. I do drink on the week-ends, but I don't smoke weed, pop pills or do any other drugs. I'm not one for arguing, fussing or fighting.
Yet with all of these manly qualities, I'm the one facing the bullshit. Can a man be too damn good for a woman? Why must nice guys finish last. Why do the "good women" fall in love with thugs, yet claim to desire a gentleman?

Ladies please elaborate.....

MissKittyNip26 106F

11/30/2005 7:53 pm

What's up you.. read this post tonight (because it was on the recently made list) and went ahead and read the rest (interesting

Anyways, women want a mix. We want the sweet guy when we're together, but we want the feeling of danger and excitement when we go out, knowing that people look at our man (guys envy him and girls want him) is a turn on. Basically, bad when it's time for business, but at the end of the day sweet enough to give a foot massage.. kinda like a sensative thug.

dh694 42M/40F
2 posts
11/30/2005 8:05 pm

Well darlin let me tell you, I am not looking for a man, but if I were you'd be an A lister! let me let you in on a little secret, nice guys finish last because they are nice, if you have ever been told your sweet, look out! women on occasion like a man to take control dominance in most relatioship between a man and a woman is expected to be the mans role. i am not saying there is anything worng with you but, being self assured acting as if you own it when you walk around will get further than candy and roses be secure that you are the man and start treating woman like they outta know that. women will say I want a sensitive sweet caring man, I am a woman our age is not all we lie about. Women are attracted to bad boys and "thugs" because we want someone to throw us down and make us feel dirty and if a woman denies it she's lying every girl wants a self assured confident man to us girls that seems to show strength mostly it winds up being a restraining order and wittness protection program but, we keep going for it see your perfect because if you put yourself out there as a bad boy, you'll be a sheep in wolfs clothing and your lucky lady will get the hard exterior with a lovely interior instead of vice versa. Good luck to you hun

rm_sweetblack71 45F

3/21/2006 8:14 pm

I don't know wut the hell these other people are talking about. But I feel the same way you were describing from a female's point of view. I've worked the 2 jobs, went to school, got caught up with a kid, now I'm trying to fix all the dumb shit. But I'm not complaining... I'm trying to figure out why all the good guys are not knockin my door down...since I've done most of the leg work... finished college, got a good job w/ bennies, buying a home, dont do drugs, not a criminal...but I always get the liars, cheats, and wutever else u wanna call them. Holla if you here me!

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