I solder you not  

Straycatsetsuko 61F
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9/19/2005 9:37 am
I solder you not


So, anyway, I get this call last Friday, oh, they won't need you until NEXT Monday. Maybe not then. They won't know until FRIDAY. I'm, like, yeah, I've dated guys like that. NEXT!

So, to avoid cleaning the house and generally getting ready for winter, I'm here, doing nothing really. But I was thinking about men. Actually, man, but, hey.

I like a guy who doesn't expect me to be a girl. I'm female, I've been told I'm feminine (while I'm poking around under the hood of my car...), but I'm not a girl. Make up? What's that? Dresses. Well, they have their place. I've got 6 pair of shoes, 4 of them sneaks. 7. I'm sorry, I do own a pair of heels. The others are sandals and snow boots.

I like a guy who doesn't give me shit about my animals. They're here to stay, a part of me. You want them to go? Honey, they ain't the ones going.

I like a guy who is just a little sexually aggressive. The guy I'm something resembling dating now has the right balance. Never had a guy all over me like a cheap suit before, and it's great. Ass grabber. Accomplished at kissing and backing accurately, too. I like this guy a lot.

A guy who can appreciate where I live, and understand why I choose to live this way. I'm not "off the grid," though I'd like to be. But, heating with my fireplace, making my own whatever, I do that, and like it. It's work, but it's work worth doing.

A guy who respects me and my feelings. No, I don't want to live together. Hell, I'm not sure I want to sleep together, except occasionally. My own space is meaningful to me. My life is meaningful to me. Yes, I want a man in it, but as an addition, not as my centerpiece. Did that for nearly 30 years, and he decided his job was more attractive. Not again.

This guy that I may be seeing now, understand I'm not sure, and it's okay if we don't define it, fits the bill so far. Great guy. And I found him here. Weird, when you don't go looking for it, it finds you....

xxxhandyman4u2 55M

9/22/2005 10:23 pm

Good luck and I hope it works for you...sound s like a good catch...


AlbertPrince 57M

9/25/2005 11:31 pm

The best ones are often the ones you find when you are not looking!


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