Christmas Eve Morning  

Straycatsetsuko 61F
96 posts
12/24/2005 5:58 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Christmas Eve Morning

I'm sitting here, finished the latest box of shreddies, now working on some M&Ms. I love peanut and almond M&Ms.

The newest guy, a former tank commander I'll call Tank for short, was supposed to be here this weekend, but his transmission is screwed, so I'm going to see the grand babies. Which means I should be off this infernal machine, cousin to the television, and hit the stores. I couldn't do it before this--the whole money thing--but I'll buy for my grandkids.

Got an e-mail from a guy here, he wanted me to get back to him, but he's got kids. Grown kids, I can handle. He has custody of his kids, it's admirable, but I'm 50 years old. I've got grandkids. I relate well to them, but I'm just as happy to see them leave. They're the only kids I want to deal with. Dude e-mailed me back, speculating on my lineage, and possible future trips. Told me I lost a good guy, I"m so materialistic, and he has a 6 digit income, yada yada. I reported his ass.

Ya know, when you're done, you're done. I"m going to have to deal with his kids at one point or another, and they need to be part of the relationship. Would it be better if I had favorably responded to him, and refused to deal with his kids? He'll likely not listen to reason, though. Testosterone poisoning. So, the question now is, do I change my profile yet again to accommodate people who have kids? I don't want to mislead anyone, but I sure don't need this kind of shit.

Okay, enough grumping. Off to the madhouse, for stuff for the grandkids.

GaudsDogesSitar 61M

12/25/2005 7:05 pm

why are you changing for everybody. When you do that you loose your self.

Straycatsetsuko 61F

12/26/2005 6:42 am

Changing my profile isn't changing me. When I changed my profile last, it was to point out that if you're married/attached, go elsewhere. Well, if you have kids that still need raising, any kids under about 15, look elsewhere. That is what changing my profile will consist of. I love my grandkids, ages 6 and 2, but I'm glad when they leave, too. They are my blood, and I care for them. A man who, admirably, has custody of kids that need attention, I'm older than that. I've had second/third/fourth place long enough.I don't need to be anyone's centerpiece, but I know if I need the guy, and his kids need him, he's with his kids. It's good, it's expected, but I've been on the shelf too long. I'm past that.I want it to be us, him and me. Just us.

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