Steph_in_heels 49M
7 posts
1/29/2006 9:49 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I forgot to tell ya'll, but my wife found my stash of closthes, so the cats' out of the bag sort of. She still doesn't know about this site and she doesn't know that I'm Bi, but she now knows that she married a crossdress.

How did it go you ask? She FREAKED THE FUCK OUT. (wich I can certainly understand) But it did not go good. I tried to explain to her that it was a turn on for me, that no, I didn't want to get a sex change, No, I'm not gay (bi- but not gay) but non of this seemed to matter. She was still just too wigged out.

She wouldn't have sex with me for over three months after she found out.

Now, things seem to be OK between us, but we dodn't talk about it. It's almost like it's a forbidden subject. She is very "frigid" when it comes to sex, she has no desire to experiment or anything and I think this is just a tad bit too much for her.

I wish she would be a little more open to this, after all I think we could have a lot of fun together if she would dress me up and do my hair and makeup. then we could go back in the bedroom and get down to business, but she just wont go for anything like that.

It's been about five months since she found out and we have only talked about a couple of times during that first week, after that, she has never brought it up again.

Here's a good way to end this post. If there are any women out there reading this. What is it about being with a crossdresser that women just don't like? Most women that I see on this site are Bi or Bi curious themselves. Alot of women are looking for a threesome or more and willing to try just about anything, but when it comes to crossdressers.......... Not going there.

I chat quit a bit in the AdultFriendFinder New England chatrrom and have a HELL OF A TIME getting women to chat with me. I usually get one or two guys to caht with me no problem, but women..... avoid me like the plague. And judging from my wifes reaction and the reaction I get in the chat room's, I would suspect that MOST women are not into crossdressers.

What is it about crossdressers that turn women off?

rm_30minman2000 45M
1 post
2/10/2006 11:13 am

Hi Steph, Boy,that sounds just like my ex wife. I'm with a wonderful woman now but she definitly wouldn't understand my deeper sensual side. I live in Auburn and I would love to hook up with you. The problem is finding the right excuse. I wish we were already friends and our girls would think nothing of us going out together. I f you want to chat to see where this could go. I'm open. I'm down to earth safe sane. It's just my sexual appetite that needs to get wet. I would love to kiss you from head to toe... send me a note on this site and we can take it from there. Take care...

naughi 44F

3/23/2006 2:09 am

Hi ya Steph, that sooo sounds like what I fear ! I did tell my wife once and that was enough ! We were both drunk and she asked me to dress up for her. BAD IDEA. half way thruogh she laughed at me, said it was too freaky and wouldn't let me near her until I promised not to do it again. I and the piss taken out of me for another couple of mouths, the odd comment here and there. she has forgotten about it now as it was 5 years ago.

If she knew I still do it !


rm_jak_bak3 53M

12/9/2006 9:12 am

Also got busted dressed up in pantyhose, panties, and satin nightshirt, we were both drunk and I had them on underneath my regular clothes, and we feeling each other up when she felt my stockings and satin night shirt. Since I was drunk and so was she, we had sex together with my pantyhose still on, she was really freaked out though and doesn't like the idea that I enjoy wearing them. She also just found a digital picture of me with a dildo trying to give it head, not real happy about that either.

veronicacd1222 30T
15 posts
1/7/2017 1:22 am

Sad to hear she reacted like that.

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