My 100th Post....A Deletion....How Appropriate  

StaynHardnHot 42M
87 posts
3/13/2006 2:03 pm

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My 100th Post....A Deletion....How Appropriate

Well...with all this blogging enthusiasm on my part it had to happen sooner or later, i got deleted...plain and simple..lol. To the defense of the person who deleted me..apparently there were rules that come with blogging to which i was unaware of..lol...which of course lead to my deletion. After the intial sting had worn off..it actually led me to rethinking my whole blogging status...what brings me here...what blogs should i watch...why do i watch them...and why do i find i write much better in response to anothers blog than i feel i do in my own.
Starting in reverse order i have found that the reason i belive i talk more in others blogs more in my own...is first of all for the simple fact that noboby save a few brave and loyal soul, actually ges to see mine, so its just about the numbers..lol..i guess if your going to say something its nice to be heard..lol. Secondly..looking back since the days when i USED to be shy..lol..i have always found that i am not much one for volounteering things but have always been one quick to comment when someone has either asked a question of me or raised a subject for converstaion....in this sense...Blogland is perfect for me to get my input quota as apparently i'm not getting enough of it in my "real" life.
As for what blogs do i watch, well i freely and shameless admit i watch only those i am attacted to physically...at least intially. I have found that just as in "real" life..if their intelligence or humor or personality is otherwise lacking...i soon grow tired and look elsewhere. I find that i am more apt to view and comment in blogs where the person actually takes the time to return comments either as a whole or even more impressively idividually, as i reason if i didnt want any interaction i would simply read a newspaper editorial or commentary...INTERACTION is what BLOGGING is all about people!!
Finally, even though this is with out a doubt a sex site..and while i may in the future become a paying member again at somepoint..i have realized i know come here to find ,amazingly enough, intelligent life among the opposite sex, as there clearly is none among my immediate circle..lol. Luckyly, to that purpose, i have been relatively successful in these bloglands, not in quantity of friends that have truly impressed me with their beauty, intelligence, talent, humor, and charm, but rather in the quality of these select few who have entrusted me with there friendship. Alas, it is always unfortunate when someone you find worthy of being a friend is not similiarly inclined, or quite simply, isnt really here for that purpose, but i take solace in the fact that one lifelong friendship in any form...however it starts...is worth an infinite amount of rejections to that cause. Leave it to me to always look at the glass half full and not half empty...but then again that part of what i think makes me worth knowing.. Not sure if i'll post in my own blog again, but if i do..i'll try to make sure its well thought out and worthy of reading or at least entertainment value.

Yours Truly,

Chris

Kelli did i spell appropriate wrong.???:


rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
3/14/2006 4:21 pm

delete? nahhh .. I want to read the comments....
I enjoy reading everyone else more than I enjoy writing..
and I like to write... hope you stay....

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

3/14/2006 9:32 pm

blog on...

*hugs*

TTFN


LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
3/14/2006 9:45 pm

BLOG ON...I just throw together what comes to mind...and I like what people may or may not say about it...

Good Luck!

[blog ludtytaurus]


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
3/14/2006 10:57 pm

You spelled it right, honey.


StaynHardnHot 42M
305 posts
3/16/2006 11:35 pm

sexyfitwoman....the reason i was deleted when explain was valid...everyone has the right to govern there own blog as they see fit, but it certainly did sting considering the circumstances at the time.

mzhunyhole....i'll always be around reading and responding to my favorites peeps here. I have something to worthwhile to say every now and them...but mostly i have a very busy life..its just a time thing....i'm actually very talkative in real life..lol

goddess1946...i also love to hear comments....wish i had the time to do this mcuh more ...but alas life beckons..

redlipsprincess.......backatcha

lustytaurus.......despite your misspelling of your own blog....certainly something i can relate to..lol...i will have to read your posts sometime

Kelli Kelli Kelli.....lol...what would i do without you...kind of reminds me of a substitute teacher i had once in high school...lol..did i happen to mention that we dated a few years later..?? Luvs ya

Thanks to everyone who visited my humble blog and in particular to those brave souls who also commented... your esteemed company honors me.. I will endeavor to add my small contribution to your talented works in Blogland if and when i have something worthwhile..

Chris


aascrompn 42M
6444 posts
3/21/2006 7:55 am

It's what the blogs are all about... I love it that you are honest about who you read and the reasons why. Sometimes, I can write pages on another's blog, but lack on mine... sigh It just happens. I've not followed your blog, and it seems horrible that I'm finding it when you are possibly leaving.


StaynHardnHot 42M
305 posts
3/23/2006 6:16 pm

Never leaving...as long as my newfound friends are here...but maybe just posting less on my own blog.. Maybe i need to travel again...lol..


frogger1995 39F

3/25/2006 5:33 am

Welcome to Blogville! YOu should have read my This will be Banned post first. But stay here long enough and you are bound to get CENSORED!

As for the rest...all valid points. When you actually do become a top blogger, you will realize the futility of responding individually to everyone once you get over 20 comments, half of which are the same. My next post will be on this very topic.


StaynHardnHot 42M
305 posts
3/25/2006 12:13 pm

Frogger..your so silly i've read all your posts..lol!! And perhaps i wasnt clear as to the cause of my deletion..it was by the actually person who owned the blog, for their own reasons, not our beloved A.F.F.But i will eagerly look forward to your next post..as always..


rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
4/10/2006 7:29 pm

Still not understand why someone would delete you...
or how your blog got deleted...confused Goddess just
thinks your photo is so beautiful she doesn't understand
delete.


Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


sexymermaid6956 62F
26390 posts
9/6/2006 11:40 am

I have had you on my watched list for a long time but as you said life calles and there is no time for blogland...i am off for a few days and here i am going back to list and pulled up yours and i must say you are a delight to read and very easy on the eyes to boot....blog on...

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