Ah, the new year...  

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1/29/2006 11:27 am

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12/13/2007 11:12 am

Ah, the new year...

Standing in line at the gym the other day, I realized that it is absolutely true: January is the busiest month of the year for gyms. I've been told February it will be back to the same old easy access. The why is easy. It's because people are trying to keep to their New Year's resolutions. To eat better, to exercise more... and those resolutions last until February.

Looking at all the new members showing up in my Cupid report and my searches, I have to ask myself whether AdultFriendFinder sees the same January rush, and for a similar kind of reason. Have you made a resolution to stop denying yourself the pleasures you deserve? To treat yourself with more respect, and simultaneously, more esteem? To love yourself more? All of these are valid reasons to look for a new/different lover.

Statistically, January is also the month for break ups. Need a little something after your companion decided that their new self didn't include you? Have you dumped some dead weight and still have needs that need taking care of? Behold, the wonder that is online meeting for physical encounters.

My only issue is this: these new members, a few of whom have peaked my interest, are they going to stick it out? Or, like the gym and those salads, are we going to miss each other because we don't meet before the end of January? Does January end with your confidence, or your patience, or just with the desire to find something new?

So, if you're new and reading this, stick it out. There are great people on AdultFriendFinder, one or more of whom are going to be good for you. It takes some time, and there's a lot of feather's but not much chicken, but it'll happen, and it'll be worth it.

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1/29/2006 3:48 pm

I saw you looking at me....

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