Does anyone know how to be woman....  

SpeshandCutez 50F/60F
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4/2/2006 6:23 am

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Does anyone know how to be woman....

What is a woman?
What defines a woman?
As I look deep into these questions I begin to wonder?
Is it being sexy, either in sexy clothes or normal clothes.
Is it being a mother who looks after her children or just being happy who you are because you are a woman or a girl.
Does having a great job makes you a woman?
My own feeling is that being yourself and liking the person that is you, defines you as a woman.

But what if you're transgendered, a TV or TS?
They know they are a women, but their body says otherwise. How do these people define themselves, even if they have gone through all the surgical processes?
Do they do so by being sexual toys of the inquisitive?
Do they dress like 2 bit hookers?
They can't become mothers.
They struggle to find meaningful employment.

There are always little tell tale signs to give them away, at which point they are no longer seen as being female, viewed by many as freaks, and suddenly predjudice and bigotry start to effect their lives, and doors are either closed or never opened for them.
And yet they are women, psychologically and physically.
Is there anyway we can define a woman??


NiceGuyMush 46M

4/2/2006 6:57 pm

To be or not to be a Women?


A big question, a tough question.

May be as a male I'm not qualified to answer, but...
To me smile says it all, no matter sexual preference or ethnicity. I find many people can look attractive, but if they don't smile, there is no inner lenght to their soul, their feelings that give rise to being a sexual being - to being human.

As for the rest - its Monday - too hard a question!



SpeshandCutez 50F/60F

4/3/2006 2:44 am

Well I can agree with you in regards to a smile saying much about a person.
Thanks for your input.


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