Sleeping Single in a Double Bed III Part A  

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
2357 posts
6/15/2006 6:58 pm

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Sleeping Single in a Double Bed III Part A

Well, phase one is here. The first house guest has arrived. And from the looks of things the wife is not, at this time, moving back into our bedroom.

Almost understandable. Wants to spend time with our guest who will not be here long and who she does not see often.

So why does it hurt? I didn't really expect anything else. Just didn't know how she was going to work it. Well see how phase two plays out.

I think I'm just emotional today.

Dentist gave me too much Novocaine.
I wasn't able to see someone special that I was looking forward to seeing. I got sad after reading a blog. Sad about something that hasn't bothered me in a while. Feeling a little lonely.

Oh well. We all have these days once in a while.

He Whisper, it's now almost 10 and still have only had a protein bar. I really need to eat don't ya think?


Pic is of flowers someone in my office received. Just felt like putting in something different.

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
6/16/2006 12:44 am

Well I was wrong. She isnt' sharing the guest room with our guest. She is in with our Daughter in her queen sized bed. This makes no sense. How does she explain this to the guest?
The rejection is even more without any plausable explanation. She is doing this in front of her Family. Will she do it in front of her parents in phase two? Stay tuned!

firestarter665 42M/39F

6/16/2006 4:44 am

I'm sure, you of all people, have something planned in case this happened. What she is doing not only causes an uncomfortable situation for you, but your guests as well.

I can see how it still hurts. Big hugs to you SR!

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/16/2006 11:11 pm:
I'm not sure the guest are really aware. I don't know.
It just caught me by surprise.

MWWwantsmore 51F

6/16/2006 5:16 am

Have you asked her why? I am sure you have but just thought I would ask. Must be a bit uncomfortable with houseguests. Sorry you are feeling down.

Hugs to you!

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/16/2006 11:15 pm:
I know her original reason for going to the guest room. I know a reason she stayed, lame as it was. Why she continued to stay after our daughter went back to her own room is beyond me. Well, not really. I have various thoughts.
I'll be alright. Other things bothering me that day so it added up to being sad through part of the next day. I've dealt with sad before.

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
6/16/2006 7:32 am

    Quoting rm_jerseygem70:
    Babe I wish I could give you the BIGGEST hug right now! Funny how you feel sad when someone else you care about is sad

    Hmmm if I could sneek away from work I'm sure that I can make you feel better today

    Keep your chin up and try and make the best of the situation! You know I am always here for ya!

You take the hig road and I'll take the low road and we'll meet in the middle. Oh how I wish it could be. Sneak away, I won't tell. You know how to get me.
I'm still sad. I don't know why totally. Haven't been like this in a while.
Thanks for being there.
Hugz and those special kisses,

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
6/16/2006 7:09 pm

SR......I'm feeling bad now for only thinking about having sex in 5 more days! ~hugs~ to you! I'm sorry that it is like this for you right now. If it makes any husband and I didn't sleep in the same room for a long time. And we are better together than ever now! And back in the same room.

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/16/2006 10:37 pm:
It's good to know I'm not alone in my experiences. Thanks.
No sex for over 8 years and her out of the room for 5 months now for no specific reason, even with being invited to come back, is just wrong.

(Princess Lips)

6/17/2006 12:50 am

*sniffs pretty flowers*

*leaves hugs*


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/17/2006 7:42 pm:
So good to see you.
Flowers are nice.
Hugs were needed.
Thanks my Princess.

Whispersoftly5 51F
15176 posts
6/17/2006 4:53 pm

I'm sorry you're hurting. It crushed my heart to read your words and have some understanding of how you're feeling. I've no words to make you feel better and I'm reallt sorry for that. You're on my mind though sweetie - I'm sorry this is happening.


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/17/2006 7:49 pm:
It's been happening for a while. Just caught me by surprise this latest development. And I was dealing with some other issues which made it hard. One of which you know of from my comment on your blog.
Better now.
Thanks for your thoughts.

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