Marriage Update  

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
2357 posts
7/27/2006 8:23 am

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8/1/2006 7:59 am

Marriage Update

For those of you following along:

The talk with our daughter went well. She is OK wither her mother and I divorcing; just wants us to both be happy.

I have been researching what area I will want to move to after the house is sold.

We will probably use a divorce mediator / arbitrator. I believe in NJ they are the cheap alternative to lawyers when there are no major issues or conflicts; for divorces where everything is civil.

Everything is pleasant between my wife and I.
We spent an evening together shopping and then went out to dinner. Talked a little about things and just hung out so to speak. Very nice. I hope it remains this way.

Not much else to report.

free2chose2 66F

7/27/2006 11:15 am

I hope it remain civil too {=}

Don't worry, be Happy

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 7/27/2006 3:26 pm:
I think it will remain civil. I've worked very hard to make sure it started out that way. Thanks for your wishes.

countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
7/27/2006 11:20 am

That is so great to hear that things are going well considering the circumstances. You are one of the lucky ones to have everything go so pleasantly. I wish you well!


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 7/27/2006 3:27 pm:
Just two good people who can't be married anymore. Our time together has run it's course. We were married for a reason and now the reasons are gone. It's all good.

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
7/27/2006 12:00 pm

I hope it continues along this path! But you are doing all the right things.....a mediator....being honest with your daughter....and acting like adults towards each other!

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 7/27/2006 3:28 pm:
Honest, adult-like behavior so we can both feel good about the process, ourselves and each other when it is over. I hope the mediator thing pans out.

firestarter665 42M/39F

7/27/2006 5:23 pm

This is so good to hear. As with everyone elses comments, I hope that all stays this way for you.

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 7/28/2006 6:51 am:
Everything looks good. Keeping a good attitude.

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
7/29/2006 1:41 am

Catching up here and am glad to read that all is going okay. Hugs and kisses to you sweetie! Whisper...

SpaceRangerNJ replies on 8/1/2006 8:01 am:
Catching up too. My responses have gotten behind. Yes, things are going well with the Divorce plans. No one can believe how well it is going. We really are two good people that just shouldn't be married any more. Already planning a future that involves each other, that's how optimistic we are.

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