12 year wedding anniversary today  

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
2357 posts
6/26/2006 7:18 am

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6/27/2006 10:41 am

12 year wedding anniversary today

It' my 12th anniversary today.

I did not bring the subject up ahead of time; What would you like to do, etc.

She didn't want to do anything on Valentines day and actually worked that evening. Didn't want to go out the weekend before. I got her and our daughter nice gifts and I got a bag of grocery store candy.

It was like pulling teeth to get her to say what she wanted for Mother's day. She wanted bagels for breakfast. Then she went to the gym and to work. I went to my parents house for dinner.

So she did say happy anniversary to day but obviously had forgotten because she only said it after I reminded her of something I had tonight and that triggered in her mind what day it was.

I go her a card and some nice chocolate. But I'm not sure I will give it to her. Our anniversary I think is officially a non event.

Not that I expect anything different at this point but I'm sad none the less.

It's a rainy miserable Monday.



angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
6/26/2006 8:18 am

It's rainy here too SR. And there are tears falling down my cheeks right now. I agree.....this is sad! You are special...very special. So...Happy Anniversary anyways to a man who remembers.


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 5:57 am:
I always tried to remember important dates. I know how much it means. It is often a complaint I hear about men. I didn't want to be that way.
I do remember our first date anniversary. I remember our engagement anniversary.

SmallTightKitty2 105F

6/26/2006 8:27 am

I am sorry your Monday is turning out so bad and your anniversary too. But I think you might want to relight the fire some how. Sounds like things have become way too dull for the two of you. Specially when she seems not to care that today is ya's anniversary!!


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 5:59 am:
I think the fire has gone completely out sorry to say.
We did exchange gifts, see follow up post.
I believe she does care, sort of, but I don't know why given our current situation.

countryheart_71 45F
8082 posts
6/26/2006 8:55 am

I'm sorry! That is very sad! Hugs!!!!

~Country~


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 6:00 am:
I'm still sad.
Thanks for the hug.

MorganLeFaye1978 38F
110 posts
6/26/2006 9:19 am

What is wrong with her? This is sad. I mean I would be elated if my husband remembered our anniversary like that. Most of the time my man needs to be reminded in advance. I just don't understand some women these days. I feel for so much. Happy Aniversary from me and I hope that she soon realizes the awesome man she has just so that the days to come can be happier for you. All my luv on your aniversary.


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 6:01 am:
Thanks Morgan,
I'm sorry your man doesn't remember.
I'm still sad but it will pass.
Thanks for your wishes.

free2chose2 66F

6/26/2006 10:48 am

Not rainy in this part of Jersey, gloomy and air is heavy-not as heavy as your heart

It's a shame that you two are on different courses

Certainly when vows were sworn this was not to be expected

Celebrate the good times, Happy Anniversary

Don't worry, be Happy


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 6:04 am:
Still gloomy weather in central Jersey.
No, I never expected this.
I was very happy in the beginning.

JazzDlight 59F

6/26/2006 5:03 pm

The sun will come out tomorrow bet your bottom dollar that tomorrow come what may.
I am sorry today was not good. I know we talked about this last week. It is time to turn off the lights, lock the door and say good bye to this relationship, I am sorry to say it is dead. I know it is hard to move on even when we are not happy, believe me I know. I am here if you ever need to talk. Hugs and and love to you my dear friend. It is still pouring here in Allentown I think soon it will be time to build the ark will you be my partner? We got to go in two by two. Jazz


Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
6/26/2006 9:48 pm

I know this is so effing hard. I'm really sorry sweetie.

(((HUGS))) Elizabeth...


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 6:09 am:
It's really tough. I don't like feeling this way.
Check your e-mail.

free2chose2 66F

6/27/2006 10:03 am

Now SR, I'm in central Jersey also
what window are you/did you look out?

Its the next day here and sunny
hope some sunlight is warming
your heart today

Don't worry, be Happy


SpaceRangerNJ replies on 6/27/2006 10:38 am:
I'm in Trenton right now. Now window in my office. Was grey on my drive in. I see that the sun has come out. Someone said yesterday that the sun would come out tomorrow. lol.
Feeling a little better now.
Still sucks.

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