Life of Bi in MTL  

SooperDooperGuy 34M
5 posts
11/16/2005 7:57 am

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Life of Bi in MTL

Well, it's the first post. I've tried blogging before, but it hasn't always worked because of certain limitations of the things I could say about myself. Speaking of myself, here's a little description: young, fun, bi guy, lives in Montreal, likes dancing, eating, video games, music, cartoons, some light bondage, and junk food(although I eat healthy most of the time. I think that's why I like junk food so much, it still feels like a treat).

That about sums it up nicely. So, what's the goal of this blog? Well, I would like an outlet for my daily thoughts on bisexuality in my everyday life. It seems that, as a bi guy, life is giving me a lot of options. Many people around me don't know about this aspect of my sexuality, and it's really easy to hide it. I go out with women, have sex with them, won't hesitate to point out the one with the tight top and big tits to my friends, so many automatically assume I'm straight. It's funny, most people don't even consider the possibility of bisexuality, they just think "gay" or "straight". Anyway, all this to say that I can easily play the role of straight guy (and it's the one I'm most comfortable with). On the other hand, I don't go out with men, but I do have sex with them, and won't hesitate to look at the hot guy with the hot ass when I'm around friends who know about my "secret" lol... I'm not as comfortable playing the role of gay man, simply because I don't really have the capacity to fall in love with/date men. Men as friends I have, men as fuckbuddies I have A LOT, men as lovers I have none and want none. It's just the way I'm built.

Wow, hope that explains some of what I'm thinking. Anyway, what prompted this blog are a few events that took place over the last 2 months. Here's the backstory: around a year ago, something happened, which I may or may not talk about later on, which caused me to be completely asexual for a while (a full year actually). So from around last September to this September, I got laid once in December, and it wasn't exactly awesome. Around 2 months ago, I decided that I was tired of jacking off, and started picking up guys again. Man, am I GLAD I did that. I had some really great sex, and am now sexually full active again. Now all I need to do is pick up a woman and I'll be back to normal, but I'll get to that later...

So, if you're interested in hearing about my sexcapades with a variety of men, women, straight couples and gay couples, check back here every couple of days. I'm pretty sure I'll either be posting up a flashback story or a new one at least once every two weeks. And if you're interested in what goes on in my bi head when I hang with straight people, check back a little more often, There's going to be lots of that happening in here.

Bye for now people...

P.S. Something that bothers me about the AdultFriendFinder location system is it only narrows the location down to province, which in my case is Quebec. So, I'll be putting a little (MTL ) at the end of every post title to help people find where this little blog is located... Also keeps you on your toes if you think you know someone that kind of looks like me (or is it ACTUALLY ME? )

happy2surveUslav 39M

11/16/2005 8:24 am

well wellcom to Blog land
and yes that sucks about searching big difference between toronto and thunder bay for example.
would love to here your sexcapades post them up

AGreatExperiment 46M

11/16/2005 9:19 am

Hey fellow Bi Blogger. -

I'm new too. I'm str8 mostly, but a practicing bi. Used to only get serviced - now am finiding that I am dropping to may knees around other hung guys. That statement used to be hard to say, considering the way I looked at my cocksuckers, but now it adds to the excitement - having the whole sceanrio turn around on me.

Looking for cool guys to either chat with or talk to - depending. Trying to be honest, but still unsure of this site. Also have a blog Fellatio Specific. Safe2Share

See you.

SooperDooperGuy 34M

11/16/2005 12:19 pm

Nice! Only one entry and two replies already! Well, it's always nice to meet a fellow bi guy, I'll be sure to check your blog when I have more time (I'm just writing this on my way out). Also, I'll put up a sexcapade as my next entry, probably later on tonight when I get back from the club... About the fellatio, well, I never had a problem sucking a guy off (and swallowing if he's really hot ). It actually turns me on a lot, because I find that when I blow someone, I hold the power. A lot of guys will beg you to stop teasing them and suck, especially when they get close to cumming...

rm_lickmepretty 50F
851 posts
11/19/2005 6:02 pm

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

Ready2CMore2 50M

7/11/2008 4:54 pm

Hey Sooper, Another Bi-guy here, sort of dragged into it by my devious best friend and his girl in college (Damn mudslides) and have since given myself over to it. I used to feel like you did re: relationships, in fact, felt that way for about 15 years, but it was mostly because i wasn't very active with dudes, and had great guy friends who I love like brothers already. Read my story I posted for some good bi-love...

I Didn't see the relatioship thing as a possibility at first either, and hence, it wasn't. I think that might be one of the triggers for us Bi folk. We have the capacity to make whatever we're capable of seeing as a possibility, a reality. Anyway, that feeling changed, when I met an amazing guy who after being an INCREDIBLE fuckbuddy for a year, looked me in the eyes and said, "hey, I love you know." And other than feel that bristling cloying gut feeling that I felt before, my heart pounded in my chest, and my eyes watered and I thought to myself, "Man, this is something."

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