only the good die "lonely"  

SoljerBlu 39M
134 posts
7/11/2006 6:22 pm

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only the good die "lonely"

This is answer to "HUNY".
I would leave a response but you have so many lovers I'll just get lost in the crowd.
Every time I click on you, I expect to read all about the truly wonderful man you have met and how happy you are with him!!!
And then I read more about your loneliness and it just reminds me how lonely I am. What the fuck is wrong with these pictures? Why the hell do you have time to write what you write? Why is there no man looking over your shoulder at your computer and just reaching aroung you and hitting the OFF button so he can kiss you into the blissful oblivion you deserve? Why are there 29,000 responses you can read? Why the hell am I sitting here writing this shit to you?
Because we're just too damn good to go out and find a cheap fuck to occupy our time... because we're too damn obsessed with finding the 'right' person to be with... because we've probably overlooked the persons right in front of us... because our standards have become too high... because WE have become too high (and mighty..maybe?)... because this world is no longer ours... our children rule now... because WE have become too comfortable in our loneliness and it will be our end.. because WE have become the picky-ass old fucks we swore we would never become... because it's all worked out so piss-poor in the past... because we fear the future so much we can't even talk to a woman/man without being afraid of the end result... because everyone we do talk to is more afraid than us... because we want so much what we have known before that we have convinced ourselves there is nothing out here that can ever make it true again.. because we are old fools fooling ourselves into believing any of this crap... because we are ever the believers wanting so much the things we knew.. because we are simply LONELY!!!!!
I know I am a good man. It means nothing!

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
7/11/2006 7:26 pm

I agree with you--the good are lonely. I am so lonely that sometimes I can't stand it. Many days I cry over this. I will be 60 this year and two years ago I asked my husband for a separation because I was lonely in my marriage.

I joined this site because I thought I wanted some sex, but soon realized that I didn't want just meaninless sex. I want love along with the sex. I don't meet men who are in my vacinity because I feel I would be "pressed for sex" and I don't want to feel that. So, I tend to end up in on-line relationships with men who are almost impossible to meet. Maybe we do get pickier as we get older. Good luck to all of us "mature folks" on AdultFriendFinder.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

SoljerBlu replies on 7/11/2006 8:44 pm:
I agree about 'picky', but I'm getting to the point where I'd almost fuck a sheep if it will bleat something in response.
It's hell when you're old before you are.

QTbye2 65M/53F
6 posts
7/11/2006 7:58 pm

I disagree that you could ever be lonely sitting on your freedom cycle. Loneliness comes from within. I tried everything to help me find my self in the late 60s. Seemingly my self wasn't quite what was to be NORMAL ... so I looked and looked ... still those expectations were none achievable even if they were achieved. So I said Screw you all ... I don't have to fit your picture and I would never expect you to fit mine.

I haven't lost out anyway in-fact I am who I choose to be and people that I share that with just fit no stress.

I enjoy my solitude especially cruising on my 2005 Harley Sportster or just running my dogs or just doing. I run into more opportunities when I decided I loved just being around's strange how many people must feed off this vibe. They appear out of the woodwork. Good Luck .... Born to be Wild!

SoljerBlu replies on 7/11/2006 8:41 pm:
Me and my Shadow understand that freedom... but I still have to park it at home and sleep in an empty bed. That's the part that sucks... but you're right about the freedom of the road... there's nothing finer than a moonlight ride over the Sunshine Skyway bridge on a full moon midnight... but it's sure sweeter with a warm lady snuggled in behind you......
Ride safe, my friend...... Lenny

warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
7/15/2006 1:50 am

I think we all arrive at Blogville's Grand Central Terminus with a suitcase of wonders and woes. Loneliness is often found in the baggage. But we also want to reach out and touch people with whom we can relate, so we write and open our hearts and minds.

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