WTF is dating anyway.  

SolaEQ
156 posts
3/12/2006 10:10 am

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3/16/2006 7:11 pm

WTF is dating anyway.

So, I've never really dated.

I've kind of bounced from one relationship to another since I was 16, with periods of not seeing or fucking anyone (for up to 18 months at a time).

I don't know how to "date". God that's sad at 41 years old.

I had lunch last week with a very nice gentleman I met on here. It was fun. He was sweet. But up and to the point of actually seeing him walk into the restaraunt I was a huge bundle of nerves.

How does one start to do this?

I feel so... off kilter lol.


Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
3/12/2006 10:26 am

Just go with it, have fun, lose your self in the moment. And most of all, forget about attachments!


SolaEQ
93 posts
3/12/2006 10:28 am

Yup, no attachments. Don't want any, can't have any right now.

I just want to experience some new things. Without my gut being tired in a knot /wink.


singleagain53578 46F

3/12/2006 2:46 pm

I am the same way Sola. I was with my first husband since highschool. We graduated in 88, we divorced in 2000, I met my second husband as a rebounder, now we are headed for divorce. I never really dated and have not been on a date since he moved out in Jan. I was so looking forward to it at first, but now I am just going to let it happen. I am not going out there to search for it.

I would be a bundle of nerves too. That is why I hope this meet and greet at Paradise City is a great success. There are quite a few guys from both the Madison Board and the Sauk County board that I would love to get to know better. I really hope you can make it there. We would have a blast together. You can even crash at my house if you don't live in the area.

~SINgle~


vrec_dawn 39M

3/13/2006 7:13 pm

**LOL** I've never dated either. The two serious relationships I had started over the internet and then, bam, they moved in, instant relationship. No dating. And outside of those, I've just never dated. **shrug** So maybe one day I'll go out on my first date. **LOL** I think I'm more looking forward to it than scared though. Of course that's easy to say when I'm not ON the date yet. He he he.


SolaEQ
93 posts
3/14/2006 5:04 pm

Single and I will coach you. You can call us from the men's room or under the table


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