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SolaEQ
156 posts
4/8/2006 10:43 am

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Profile Updated

So, I did update my profile today.

It's not a huge change, but it's just enough to get a point across. I hope.

Life has been so stinkin' busy this week. Well, not life. Work. Work has been hell. But I love it, deep down. It keeps my brain moving and my creativity flowing and while it leaves me NO time to socialize right now, it does feed me in other ways.

So what did I change? Besides making it MORE clear that I'm not looking for a quick fuck or a one night stand? I added a little paragraph about being a kinky girl.

Why not just come right out with it? Tie me up, and spank me, make me do things I don't wanna do. I'm not ashamed of my Proclivities. I learned a long time ago, that's it's better if you know what you want from a sexual relationship instead of being mired in fundamentalistic bullshit, or hiding from your true self because you are..

you are what?

~~ Afraid ~~

I'm not afraid of any part of my sexuality anymore. Oh, I'll admit, there are a few fantasies in there that might be considered disturbing *chuckle* but in reality, I know what I like, what I need, and what gets me off - so why not look for it, rather than trying to fit into some MidWest 40 Year Old Woman mold?

I'm not average. I'm not "normal". And I am not going to pretend to be.

*snicker*

Ahhh....life on the edge~


vrec_dawn 39M

4/8/2006 3:44 pm

Damn skippy. And good for you. Life's too short to waste time not getting what you want.

I think the world would be a better place if we could get rid of all of those molds.

I still don't know what to do about my own profile. I keep shortening it more and more because I feel like I had the longest one on earth. I haven't changed it in a while, but I'm still not happy with it. But then, maybe that's because I'm also not quite happy with where I'm at. **shrug**


SolaEQ replies on 4/12/2006 7:00 pm:
YA! Down with molds! Break the molds! Pulverize the...err..sorry

gentelmanjim53 63M

4/9/2006 12:44 pm

I would have to agree to breaking out of that mold, the one that is what you should be for other. I have come out of that mindset and am determined to be the who I am that suits me. You go girl


SolaEQ replies on 4/12/2006 7:01 pm:
Thanks, GJ

UrFuckBud 60M
323 posts
4/11/2006 9:59 am

That's a lot to own up to. Exploring submissiveness and what it is to you can be journey all in itself.

Are you comsumed by it, like some? Not that that is a bad thing.
Or is it just a need to incorporate a bit of the dark side into the total sum of everything.


SolaEQ replies on 4/12/2006 7:02 pm:
I am occasionally consumed, occasionally non-chalant, and occasionally frustrated.

It ebbs and flows - in the intensity that I want for, and the intensity of *what* I want for

rocco69696 45M
25 posts
4/14/2006 6:10 am

Hey a girl's got to do what a girl's got to do. Sounds like someone is searching for some attention and I would like to give it a shot. You say you are not looking for a one night stand or just to hook up, but I also hear that someone needs to hear how good of a person they are. Let me give it a shot.


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