Why can't men/women deal with rejection?  

SoftcaramelT 52F
157 posts
4/16/2006 9:54 am

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Why can't men/women deal with rejection?

I had a few experiences on AdultFriendFinder where I had to reject a man because of his beliefs or because there was just NO chemistry..(he couldn't get me wet, no matter what)..Why then do the men/women retaliate and come up with an excuse that it is the other person's fault that the rejection took place?
Because of self-esteem issues?
Because they just KNOW they are a "gift "to you and you are just nuts?
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Dark_Cat_MCMLXXV 41M
290 posts
4/16/2006 11:31 am

People don't want to admit their defects. A part is self-esteem issue, but there is more than that. Stuborness, lack of maturity, lack of capability to understand and to see your point and so on. All these define the person's character. But more than everything, it's auto-protection issue. If one doesn't accept a certain thing is because that thing is important in his own image about him-/herself. Once the person accepts that thing is not for him/her, that person feels about him-/herself vulnerable and mazed. So, that person tries to auto-protect him-/herself from that state of mind. Of course, that means also that person is not able to see him-/herself as he/she is in reality. Not once I've met such a person.

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