Insults by men who don't know me...  

SoftcaramelT 52F
157 posts
1/5/2006 6:04 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Insults by men who don't know me...


Unfortunately, I wasted some of my precious time this week trying to prove to one man what I really look like before we decided to meet. Apparently this individual refused to believe that I am who I am in my picture. I , a woman of mixed race , who is encultured, uninhibited, and has ecclectic tastes,should have the audacity to put a profile on AdultFriendFinder...and attract MEN to it. I tried to put up my web cam so that he can be assured that this is me..as my photo was too dark on his laptop(adjust your settings,#$%^)..But THAT wasn't good enough. Later I find out that this (*&^ didn't even register for IM on yahoo.. My web cam would not have come through to him because of my sofisticated computer settings..
And you know what..the insults at me flew..I was accused of being a liar..of being computer illiterate..of being an entity of nonexistence.Listen..if you insult me..due to whatever you have been going through in life,the behavior is UNACCEPTABLE. I have no TIME for you either. YOU are not worth the TIME or the effort..so ..please..pass me by.YOUR LOSS..DEAL!
I only repond to those men who are intelligent, respectable,and jovial.In this world I know there are men out there who can BE this way!Shout outs to the parents and mentors of these men.Peace!

dominator200673 43M

1/5/2006 8:05 am

Anger is understandable when you are faced with kind of response. I totally agree with you and can relate. But like they say there are plenty more fish in the sea. And yes Virgina, there are great guys out there, they're just all married lol.


40regular 53M

1/5/2006 12:58 pm

whoa. . . breathe, baby, breathe. . . life is too short and precious to get worked up about this idiot! for every jerk-off like that there is one that will make you smile. . . so get a message and relax. . . and think about some amazing place you have been and revisit it

pace


SoftcaramelT 52F

1/6/2006 6:10 am

Another peeve..If I meet you in one of the chat rooms...and you ask me for my number and I give it to you..Call me. Show your interest.. before you go back into the chat room.. It's a respect thing...not a game..(Play your xbox360 and leave me alone)..This type of behavior is telling me that you were just looking for boy scout points and that you were not serious to begin with.. Then when you are in the chat room, and ignore me while I am there..well!!It displays the vibe that you have a ball and chain at home. I am not interested..I'll just block you and life goes on..NEXT!Your loss,buddy..not mine...Don't waste my time. Thank you.Shout outs to the men who really respect women and are considerate to their feelings...


SoftcaramelT 52F

1/9/2006 11:15 am

I was contacted recently by a guy who I met on a phone chat line during the summer. He had demanded a picture of me back then since he lived in NJ. He did not have a computer. He would not give me his home address to send him the picture. He called me all sorts of names....from ugly to whatever..He contacted me the other day and informed me that he had purchased a camera phone.Could I send him a picture? I forgave him and relented. Now, why the heck did I do that? My phone blew up every 5 minutes. He was excited. I asked him for a picture..finally..He sent it.Do I need to let you know that I was NOT excited. Homey was..busted..I 'd put a bag over his head if I was really desperate for some dic.. Do you see where insults lead you? I guess I won't be hearing from him anymore,huh? Good riddance.


SoftcaramelT 52F

1/26/2006 5:43 am

Don't you just hate it when you spend time TRYING to talk to someone about their personality,lifestyle,etc. and all you get are non committal answers? Then when you confront them about why you are not compatible with them, they place the blame on you by accusing you of not being a good listener? Does this make sense? Especially when they tell you "I told you that already" when you damn well know that he got you confused with some other woman he was talking to..GUYS!!....organize your life and keep track of your bullshit..or you'll just miss out on something great!!


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