Sore Losers are a dime a dozen  

Snufflesthekitty 41F
44 posts
5/4/2005 8:38 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Sore Losers are a dime a dozen

I've made no bones about who I am. My previous screen name was Wanderlust, and anyone who has bothered to read my blogs who it would matter to would know this. And yet, a thwarted young man, still stinging from my rejection, chose to comment on my blogs that I am a fake.
So my dilemma is this:
My previous profile was deleted for some reason that I do not know. As I have no interest in using the service to meet people anymore, only for the blogs, I listed my profile in a different city. My profile is brief, and explicit in saying that I'm not interested in meeting anyone. I don't believe that there is anything wrong with this, and I don't believe I'm leading anyone on.
The good news is that, in his bitterness, he is only proving me correct in my assessment of him, and any remaining doubt that I had about him has been put to rest.


rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
5/4/2005 10:00 am

Some are extremely sensitive here, don't know if it is because of past rejection, or what!! I say, if you have stated on your profile, that u are not interested, then it is up to the "responsible" adults to take the time and read your profile in its entirity!!!
Although this is RARELY done!!!

Good luck, however!!!

Lady


need_4more2 44M

5/4/2005 11:56 am

I actually find it rather amusing that some poor keyster can't read the writing on the wall...just because he is not getting his childish requests makes u what - not real, someone who is deceiptful? Doubtful! Although it is really only a question of ones morals, if that were really the case - would any of us really be able to call ourselves real? I digress...Am I deceitful or fake for using a photo of my favorite activity on my profile versus throwing caution to the wind and putting up my face? Eh, who cares!?
Besides the fact that I find your photo alluring and rather sexy - it would seem to me that intelligence is the real issue...or lack thereof! Continue on, my dear, and peruse (sp?) as many more minds necessary to get to the pot at the end of the internet!


arribaarriba69 51M

5/4/2005 12:03 pm

Snuffles, it's his problem not yours. Leaf it with him and enjoy yourself. LOL


cochise226922 46M

5/4/2005 12:07 pm

It is me she is referring to and I will say this loud and clear - my interest in you was 100% genuine. It is you dear lady who is having issues with what you want - not I. I don't have an ad stating I live in some other state (to me this is FAKE) and I would never have said anything I said without meaning it - again 100%. You claimed in our conversations and some of your blog posts to be interested in something more if it indeed presented itself - and it did. You turned and ran faster than Marion Lewis. Strange how your old profile disappeared soon after. YES I am stinging from your casual dismissal of me because I truly was interested in you - from the very beginning. Your blogs were what interested me in the beginning...not your pretty face or anything else. Your mind is what attracted me. You can slam me and talk about me on your blogs all you want, it doesn't bother me. I am true to myself and true to my desires (any who wonder please read my profile and you will see what those are) - always, from one day to the next. I had a burning desire to meet you and get to know you, you did not. I respected that, gave you your space and parted cleanly and like a gentleman when you made your desires clear - despite the gutwtrenching pain I was feeling. I don't understand why you continue to bring it up in your blogs, but that is your choice. You never gave me the chance to show you how I felt - merely dismissed me as one who was not true - and you were mistaken. Seems to me to be a blessing at this point.

I am not a part of the dime from the dozen, but one of the two true shiny pennies that simply wants to meet a woman who will give me a chance and allow me to show her who I really am.

I had deleted my posts regarding this lovely young woman out of respect, but will now re-open them for all to see. I am doing this so that others can be warned of what opening your heart can do to a person who truly cares. Crazy that this all took place in a matter of days and through a limited number of phone calls and IM's. I AM sensitive, loyal, honest and caring and was truly hurt by her dismissal - but like a true man I recovered and have moved on strongly.

I hope my fellow bloggers find this an interesting read, and are able to see the a little more clearly who I truly am.


Snufflesthekitty 41F

5/4/2005 12:13 pm

Good Grief!


rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
5/4/2005 12:20 pm

Cochise you know that, I personally think you are a sweetheart!! I do not know what happened between the two of you, and am curious now!! I truly hope that you find someone worthy of the qualities you and I have discussed through the comment boards!!! I also wish you luck Snuffles that you find peace and happiness!! I cannot speak for her Cochise, only can guess that maybe you are so rare that you incited a fear inside her!! You never know what somewhat is feeling, but it would have been better it you two had a better understanding!!

I wish you both luck!!

Kisses

Lady


rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
5/4/2005 12:26 pm

need 4 hey be careful!!! I put up a pic of my favorite body part on a woman, and was called a pic stealer, a fake, all of the above, when no one even bothered to ask me about the pic to understand why I had it there!! So be very careful!!!!! You might end up with a scarlet letter F on your breasts....I mean chest!!!

Lady


Snufflesthekitty 41F

5/4/2005 1:12 pm

btw, the picture is of me, even if it of me in a previous life (before babies!)


rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
5/4/2005 1:25 pm

i was speaking to need 4more2!!! LOL!!!

Lady


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