'It's how you use it' Is sometimes true  

Snufflesthekitty 41F
44 posts
5/5/2005 6:47 am

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'It's how you use it' Is sometimes true

He's a man's man. Solid, strong, aggressive. Imagine my dismay when, after an hour of foreplay, I go down to pull off his boxers and find, a relatively small penis. Usually a deal breaker for me. When I say that size matters, I'm not speaking for all women, just myself. I, in general, require a decent size. My usual experience with this has been like being doused a with a huge bucket of ice water.
And yet this guy is such a turn-on, I've never had anyone touch me like he does. So, undaunted, I go to work, and an hour later as we lay panting beside eachother, in the orgasm afterglow, I paid salute to the old adage "Its not the size that matters, it's how you use it"
By the time this man penetrated me, my pussy was so swollen and sensitive, that a feather could've knocked me over.
So it makes me wonder.
Has my love of big cocks been simply to compensate for men who aren't very good lovers? When they are big, regardless of how they touch you, you feel it.
And...will size begin to matter again when the honeymoon, infatuated with eachother, phase is over?
I suppose it would depend on if he continues to be as attentive as he is now. I was seeing a man recently who was fantastic the first time, great the next time, good after that, but he is already sliding in to home, wanting me to suck his dick for half an hour while he pays attention to my pussy for 5 minutes.
I do not know the answers, though I am interested in what you all would have to say. But I do believe I'm gonna stick around and find out

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
5/5/2005 8:52 am

I agree that size doesn't necessarily matter. However, I will say this, All things being equal I think a woman is most likely to prefer the larger cock. I do think that being an attentive lover and always making sure you satisfy your lover just the same as you want from them will make the difference between satisfaction and sorrow. And there should never be a decline in the desire to please each other, This is the part where LOVE comes in. When you're really in love with your partner the honeymoon never ends, so you never have that drop off! Good luck in your adventure!

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/5/2005 8:58 am

you got it snuffles, big cocks are nice for a hard pounding on occasion, but I find most guys who have em forget that the rest is just as important, the smaller guys really know how to WOW, I have a playmate who is a very small build isn't what you would call well endowed, but on my principle of giving them at least one chance, I found good things really do come in small packages!


100needfulthings 42M

5/5/2005 9:40 am

I'm not large, I'm not small, just had to learn, how to bury it all!

I have been with women who prefer my average size member (about 7"lx4"c because we can do more, I can go all the way in (i.e. balls deep), oral sex isn't always a throatfuck, anal sex isn't as intimidating a prospect, and yes, I am VERY attentive to a woman's entire body, but that's me. Not because of my dick size, but how I was taught and raised. Respect is the key. My ex complained that her previous would have to hurt her just to get off, he was that big! She was very thankful to find I was just as I am. My wife says I fit like a glove turned inside out, just deep enough to get everywhere I need be, but not enough to hurt her. Though, truly, there are some positions that allow for much deeper penetration, somewhat regardless of size. Try till it fits right! ~K~

myownthang1 38M

5/5/2005 10:02 am

What is small? What is BIG? How do you judge? length? Is a seven inch penis, 1 inch wide still small? What about a 4 inch penis erect and really wide? I'm confused by the whole big small thing.

chowbox2004 43M
210 posts
5/5/2005 10:58 am

Surprisingly enough (coming from a man) foreplay is the key. I think that anticipation is worth an inch or two. I love working up to the moment as much as the sex itself, seeing how hot I can get my woman. I'm not blessed with a giant cock, so I have to make up for it with attentive foreplay, and inventful (is that a word?) love making.

rm_reisender04 53M

5/5/2005 12:13 pm

Wanderlust! wondered where you disappeared to. Not being in the 3rd Std deviation myself, I've never had complaints about a focus on quality. But, given my intrigue with female variety, I can understand a lady's curiosity. Good to see you back

rm_reisender04 53M

5/5/2005 12:14 pm

Oh, nice nails too, now those could be very fun

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