Done with this site... It's a scam  

SmolderinGlances 42M
6 posts
12/29/2005 2:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Done with this site... It's a scam

My membership expires on 1/1/06 and I'm not renewing it. This site is a total scam. The vast majority of female profiles with attractive pictures are bogus accounts that try to solicit people to subscribe to webcam sites and other internet porn sites. I've seen the same exact profile info attached to the names and faces of scores of different users.

zoopc42 47M

12/29/2005 3:15 pm

yes youa re true in thinking that many are too good to be true but don't blame the site for anything but policing, in which it is very difficult to do.

learning to weed out the fakes is a better method.


12/29/2005 4:17 pm

I'm not here to counter your claims just to provide an alternate POV for those who might think your own experience covers the full gamut of possible experiences here.

The way that this site became a genuine and enjoyable experience for me was to become actively and regulary involved in blogging. Both in the active contribution to my own blog and to making frequent commentary in the blogs of others. By doing this you are immediately interacting with people that you'd otherwise most likely never run into if you choose to approach this site from only the perspective of accessing profiles.

And if that is the only approach you choose to take here I would very much agree that this site simply bites the big one. But like I say that is only from a purely profile perspective.

Even despite the careful wqork I have put into it my own profile is an extremely lousy tool to really get to know me (as basically are all others). So right there at the front of it I tell this straight up to potential female contenders and I say to not even bother to contact me unless they've begun reading my blog. Because who I really am is truly accessible there. And not a shadow of that is really perceivable in the profile.

And absoutely every person who I've met here that I might now feel was a now substantial asset to my collection of newer friends or acquintances I've gotten to know directly as a result of being an active blogger here.

So in my humble opinion blogging at this place kicks ass and also requires no membership whatsoever.

But it is absolutelely true that to only approach this site from the perspective of profiles sucks ass rather than kicks it.

Just my two cents worth,


saddletrampsk 54F

12/29/2005 4:31 pm

I have met some awesome men on here..but some assholes also..its all about how your market yourself I guess..sorry you had such shitty luck..

bardicman 50M

12/29/2005 4:39 pm

I feel your frustrations but because of this site I got my life back thanks to some really good friends I met blogging.

Now I am sitting here with a shit eating grin on my face because I met someone that is more than a friend.

Profile fake? So many of them are.

Bloggers fake? nope.

I am not dead yet

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
12/29/2005 4:45 pm

Sorry to hear things didn't work out for you. But just know that we're not all bogus - there are alot of real, wonderful people here.


Sexiedevil18 51F
1 post
12/29/2005 5:46 pm

Funny ...looks around...I'm real.

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