Dr. McDreamy and his secret life..?  

SmartType 51F
560 posts
8/12/2006 6:18 pm

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8/20/2006 3:58 pm

Dr. McDreamy and his secret life..?

A few months ago I met this amazing guy off this site. We talked a few times before meeting and it was like talking to sunshine, very positive and warm. He had such a no-nonsense straightforward way of expressing himself. In addition to being smart (PhD), he was funny as hell (big plus). From his profile - he sounded physically wonderful, and then when I met him in person I almost fainted. I had asked him to meet me outside the science museum, and I found him standing on Saturn, kinda goofy standing on one leg - but goofy in a good way. Tall, broad shouldered, mussed-up hair and a smile to melt the arctic. At 50, he was still in unbelievable shape. As we walked around the exhibits, every once in a while he would brush up against me and it felt electric. After the museum we ended up at my place to kill some time before dinner, and with all that energy....well needless to say the sex was amazing. The way he led me into it, the gentle but insistent pressure of his hand in the small of my back when I would pull away...drawing me closer..his breath on my neck, the small sighs. Overall I would have to characterize it as an amazingly carnal, spontaneous, but sweet experience. He explored every inch of my body, every single inch. The word "No" was not part of my vocabularly that afternoon. He was such a sensualist. Three hours later, we cleaned up, went to dinner, and then continued the pleasure until after midnight. It was a shame it was a Sunday. Well he called the day after to say he had a great time and we met again that week. Same amazing sex, felt like I could absolutely melt into him if allowed. My body has not responded to any one like that in ages. I had the temerity to ask him about the sexual exclusivity thing and he eluded giving me any sort of firm yes or no. and to be candid, I liked the guy, but I am also really concerned about my sexual health - and keeping it healthy. We had sex a few more times over the course of three weeks and he was fab about calling to say hi - and couldn't wait to get together again. There's nothing like pinning a guy or getting pinned against the wall the minute your lover walks in the door. Time stood still and going to dinner was a very low priority.

At our last (little did I know), interlude, I asked him about some of the friends he had in his network - as I had not really noticed it before. I'm not a big fan of that network thing anyway - but this was interesting. WOW. WHOA. Really! I clicked on the profiles available and was quite surprised that at least 40% were TV/TG. And then there were the usual (you know who they are) AdultFriendFinder standard females collecting as many 'contacts' in their networks (for ratings I guess?). Well after our usual romp and then a late lunch, we were returning to my place when I sort of made the comment of "you have some rather interesting types in your network". He asked me what I meant and I said, the TV/TGs and then he made some sort of comment about his "good buddy" had his logon too, maybe it was a mistake. Needless to say, he seemed quite ready to disengage from my company after that, and of course has since then gone into radio silence. He's a smart guy, I can't imagine that he did not realize what was on his profile, no less who he had in his network (which was gone that following day). I give ZERO credit to a 'buddy did this to me'. Shit, who shares their password? But I guess I must have hit a weak spot with him unknowingly, although he should have known me well enough by then that I was a sensualist too. Pleasure is pleasure and if my ass was game, so was his. Anyway, I feel bad that perhaps he thinks I was judging him. Well I do know that whoever he is spending time with these days, he, she or he-she, is a lucky, and very satisfied individual.

Here's to open lines of communication and acceptance.

bipolybabe 54F

8/13/2006 7:15 am

Hmmm...it's an interesting thing when men just shut down the communication. I haven't figured out what is exactly the mechanism that causes it. It may have been your asking about his network, and it may have been something else entirely. That's what peeves me about men, is the not knowing what went wrong from his perspective.

But, it does sound like you had a lovel couple of romps!



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SmartType replies on 8/14/2006 5:02 am:
BPB - the romps were amazing to say the least. This guy is extremely talented, but apparently I wasn't his cup of tea. But this is a big pond with a lot of fish, but I would have liked that particular fish....

louandal2 65M/60F

8/14/2006 9:40 am

Sound's like you embarrassed him more than anything else - either way, it sounds like there was more going on in his life than he was happy sharing with you. And that's a shame - you write about him with a lot of warmth ... more than most people do and he's a fool to let that go.

Embarrassment is a powerful force - the trick is (I have found) to do something so embarrassing at least once in your life that all regular day-to-day embarrassments become insignificant and easily shrugged off.

SmartType replies on 8/14/2006 3:50 pm:
Embarassment - I have tons of them: tripping at the podium while accepting an award; accidedtally farting during a group exercise; spending a while dinner with parsley in my front teeth; and of course the condoms in my dogs poo as a recent moment!.

likurlips2006 54M
16 posts
8/16/2006 2:28 pm

sorry for smartypants (or not) that the romps with this amazing-sounding guy (well, she sure made him sound good) have ground to a halt, but as she said it's an awfully big pond (you know, some think we've topped 7 billion creatures already, but i'm sticking to the UN and Census estimates, ty very much). we should all definitely get together, coz there are so many worthwhile people (on this site and otherwise)! Cheers

rm_quimpie 57M

8/20/2006 1:46 pm

ST- hope safe sex was the order of the day with Dr.Genderbender. Nothing wrong with his proclivities, just perhaps he should issue a health warning. Later. Q.

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