What am I supposed to do with this?  

SlimGoodGuy 38M
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8/13/2006 10:34 pm

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8/15/2006 12:29 pm

What am I supposed to do with this?

I am on two hotlists right now, but if you know anything about me, I'm not looking for anything because I already have a woman in my life.

The first person has kept me there and probably forgot I was even on the list and has never bothered removing me. To make it even more interesting, she's from the Netherlands. I guess she likes my blog or liked a comment I might have left on her blog. Does that warrant being on a hotlist?

The second member who added me is from my area and added me on 4/21/06. She has yet to try and contact me and since I'm not looking for any lovin' it's not my place to try and contact her. Maybe she's waiting for me to become single again. Who knows? It just irritates me sometimes. Is there some kind of unspoken expectation involved?


As for blogs lately, I'm coming across a lot of bitter souls and rather immature attitudes. They seem to be so hung up on how the rest of the world offends them that it's okay to gloat about it. I couldn't help but respond to a few of them. One has already deleted my post. Hers had to do with overpowering her doctor's decisions over the last year. What should have happened in that situation was her doctor needed to approach her and ask why she didn't like the choice he made and why she was refusing to follow that treatment regimen. Then he needed to explain what would happen if she refused said treatment (I think that was done, but she was not receptive to the conversation). The physician should have also presented alternative treatments. She (the patient) needed to quit huffing and puffing and explain her reluctance to use the meds. It sounds like they both brick-walled each other and stood at a stalemate until the physician caved a year later.

This brick-walling is going on waaay too much in every day life folks. I don't know why people are so damn hell bent on not budging no matter what the cost. I thought most people learned not to let so many things bother them as they got older and to surrender to some extent. They learned life is too short to let every little thing bother them. They learned how much of a waste it is to try and be right all the time when there are more important things in life. Maybe I just learned how to be that mature earlier than most, however sometimes people get the impression I'm trying to be right when all I really want to do is discuss something that has some importance to me.

(Note: This is not like stonewalling where people are providing evasive answers. This is more like people flat out refusing to talk like adults because they are afraid of letting someone in.)

Okay, on to more upbeat things....the photo of the day. Ladies, this is how you show off your tits. See how the hands are placed?


And check out this blog by SxyCrazyCool. You'll like it. Trust me. 5/5.

SxyCrazyCool 38F

8/15/2006 10:15 am

*blushing*.. wauw.. I think this is my first recommendation here (that I've seen anyway).. Thank you

And .. for your information.. I Hotlist people that I find interesting. People who's style of writing I really like, people that seem intelligent and funny and smart (etc), or people that probably have a very nice blog.. I Hotlist them so I can easily find them back if I want to.. Usually I don't have much time to really sit down and actually do what I intended when I hotlisted them, but once in a while (like now).. they come to my blog and post a message so I get a reminder

So no worries.. I'm not waiting for ur relationship to finish.. haha ur too far away anyway.. and I hope you'll live happily ever after with the woman you love~!!



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