Does age matter?  

GlueyShunsPitch 45F
19 posts
10/14/2005 3:40 am

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4/3/2006 4:31 am

Does age matter?

I'm in my early 30s now and only attracted to men above 40. I dont mean 'the older the better' but to find them caring, loving and most important: unselfish, in and off bed.

Maybe I was wrong but once I had this guy slightly a year or two older than my age and I feel sorry for both of us. Self-pleasing was only aimed of our intimacy! Dont get me wrong, he gave me a utmost pleasure but there was no bond, or even a chemistry. He just got off after sex and headed to bathroom to clean the mess we had. Put his clothes on and light a cigarette without looking at his sex partner. Did he purposely do that to get my ass off or just being selfish providing his urge was fulfilled.

Does age matter to you?

RailBaron2 54M

10/14/2005 8:25 am

Personally, I would prefer someone closer to my own age, I have widened the scope of age that I might date or get involved with from 28 year old minimum to about 48. To me its not about age,its about
looks- as a man it is what I see first that attracts me, then its personality.

johnnie_xxx 36M
2 posts
10/16/2005 9:56 pm

age isnt big deal.

rm_cintai 53M
5 posts
11/4/2005 11:33 am

yeaaaa, I think you fancy of a caring older guy.

rm_sparks2005sg 50M
3 posts
11/13/2005 6:52 pm

hi like ur blog wanna chat sometime

rm_Singdsoul 39M
6 posts
11/15/2005 12:02 am

Haloo there Slim! May I call you slim? I hope it's ok.
Well I'm 28 years old, for me , absolutely age does not matter. In my romance or sexual life, I've been with mostly older women. Some even 15 years older than me. And it was always went out very well. The problem that matters is not about the age gap, but it's about the attitude or personality of the people. That story of you is exactly most women always complain about. For me it takes two to make love (not just sex). Eventhough there is no string attached, compassion is still a big deal!I'm now currently in relationship with a foreign woman with 33 years of age. And I'm also having a non string attached relationship with a married 35 years old woman. Believe me, it's all so much fun. Because everything based on mutual respect. And just for your information, caring, loving and most important: unselfish, in and off bed are not simply the type of older men. I'm not just talking girl. I'm living it. So don't worry, I'm in your league. And I believe many others are also to. If you wanna talk more contact me at AdultFriendFinder

5 posts
11/16/2005 2:35 am

I prefer younger than me...but age doesn't matter if i meet person who match with me...

rm_Singdsoul 39M
6 posts
11/16/2005 5:58 am

Hi there Slim! Let's chat some more!

SexRecon25 44M
5 posts
11/17/2005 6:22 am

i think it is not the age that matters, but the personality. i am sorry to hear your experience. it seems that he treats you like a piece of meat only. i am wondering if we can meet and talk about that some other time. look forward to hearing from you.

zantiko 45M
3 posts
11/23/2005 9:05 pm

i just want to say that thats a nice pic you post........does age matter? yes, if they are too diverse......

fwolfc 43M
519 posts
12/2/2005 5:56 am

yes age matters.... but it matters on what u want from the relationship.... I have been out with a girl 10 years younger and one my age and the when out with someone older by 5 years....

They all offer something different....

nickolla2 34M
1 post
12/3/2005 8:26 am

allo...friend.... gw mau ketemu kamu tuh.. blh kan kita kenalan?...
gw di klapa gading jakut . kamu dimana? tlp kamu brapa?

rm_jolim355 52M
1 post
1/11/2006 4:32 am

Hi Slim

It depends on what you want from a relationship. I am 45 years old dating a 27 years women whose an absolute darling in and out of bed. On the other hand when I was younger, I spent more time bedding ladies much older than me who were more sexually compatible with men of my age (You know, raging male adolescent hormones and all). The point though is mutual satisfaction. I hope you find what you looking for. I spend alot of time in Jakarta, maybe we can meet for coffee and more.

wilderbeast54 62M
1 post
1/21/2006 3:28 pm

Slim, I can only say that as a 51 year old I have found real love for the first time in my life. The woman who has given me this wonderful experience is 29. I am not sure if it is because of the age difference, but we are very much in love. Every minute of everyday. Oh yes and the sex is out of this world.

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