Some erotic thoughts  

AstirRelicLatah 64M
1288 posts
8/20/2006 5:13 am

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Some erotic thoughts

The last week or so has been wonderful….I’ve had great interactions, deep connections and contacts that have taken my breath away. And, once again, I’m feeling a need for personal connection. This morning I woke up thinking some very erotic thoughts about some very special people.

So, in my best staring at my navel form I wanted to write a bit about the topic. And, as usual, I have no idea how this post will end, I hope the post starts to take on a life of its own. In fact, for those of you who read regularly know how disjointed my posts get. They start on one topic and end on something completely differently. I guess it’s just where my third eye decides to take me.

You also may have noticed that I decided to change the title of my blog. I have now formally declared that I intend to continue staring at my navel for the foreseeable future. That decision has come from the direction my writing has gone and will most likely follow in at least, the near future.

Now, back to those erotic thoughts.

I recently had an email conversation with a friend and she told me she saw my eroticism as primarily a mental one. Well, that’s where it starts for me…When I’m turned on it starts in the brain, but it rapidly moves through my body. I first feel my fingers tingle, and the nerve ends in my body get way more sensitive to touch. My cock will become half hard and with almost no physical touch become fully hard…

I love to undress my lovers with my eyes, in a very obvious way….I want them to fully understand how turned on I am with every sense they have…I also find anticipation a real turn on…I want to make love with in my minds eye and then in the physical realm…I want to lose myself in the body of my lover, and I want them to lose themselves in me….

I’m so turned on when time stops and we are just being…It seems that when this happens, I can make love for a very long period of time…It’s not about physical stamina at this point, it’s about connections…connections where communication happens on all planes, but mostly through the greater universe….Sort of like an instantaneous long distance call that calls in the energy in the universe which we get to share and build on.

Ah, there I go again, with the airy fairy stuff. *grin* But, that’s a turn on for me…..Being one with the Universe.

I also love the smell of my lover after we’ve both had orgasms. There a sweet sticky odor that just makes me feel safe. I love to hold my lover in my arms and rock….We join the rhythm of life together. The rocking often for me is very erotic and leads to another round of sex that is often a little softer with a higher level of communication than our first round…

Then of course, there’s the morning. There is nothing like waking up with a lover you have a deep connection with. Falling into each others arms and melting into each others bodies is a wonderful way of entering the day.

I guess for me, eroticism is about connecting in every way possible. The deeper the connections, the more erotic the experience…Mind, body and spirit, what a wonderful combination.

So, what is your connection to your erotic self? Do you think your erotic self can be enhanced with practice? What sort of practice would you do? Just curious and thanks for allowing my continued rambling.

rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
8/20/2006 8:07 am

Tantra is a practice that makes for a fine connection Shaye. Your totally right there. It is a bit trendy...but once in the practice, it's hard to stay that way with it. It's too deep for least if you are really practicing it as it's meant to be practiced, then you won't stay trendy. Pretenders are obvious from that perspective.

Josh, your descriptions of your experience of arousal are familiar to me...

I can be turned on by mental imagery. I can be turned on by the visual...and I can become very heated in the arousal from that mental stimulation. It's fun and I enjoy that....but I am totally lit up, totally responsive to someone when there is a mental, visual, soulful and heart connection happening all at once. If a man engages me fully that way, then I will respond to his thoughts, his glances, his most casual contact with me as if he'd caressed me intimately. Frankly, that can even be a bit embarrassing. LOL!

I have been met in this way romantically and spiritually on a number of occasions in my life. There's nothing like it. It's hard to settle for anything less once you've drunk of passion like that. I grow restless without it. It's stimulating and enlivening to be engaged so fully...*sigh...* Just thinking about it makes me melt and yearn.

I feel positively heated by this post...Nice post! And I like the new name for your blog. It suits.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


AstirRelicLatah replies on 8/20/2006 11:58 am:
I agree, there is nothing like it....The stimulation becomes all encompassing and takes a long time to come down from. I'm also amazed at how fast I can reach this level with some. I'm glad you like my new blog name, I do also *grin* - here's to staring at navels. LOL

bipolybabe 54F

8/20/2006 12:44 pm

Sounds like you're staring just a little south of your navel.



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AstirRelicLatah replies on 8/20/2006 1:25 pm:
Must be the lack of oxygen from my height...*grin* Actually the blog name change is a result of the last four or five posts I put up before this one.

ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/23/2006 3:48 am

*smiles* It can mean so much and yet go so much further if taken the time to work at it...Great post

AstirRelicLatah replies on 8/23/2006 5:32 am:
I agree, btw, great picture - I really like it.

catkit13 66F

8/23/2006 10:11 pm

oh, my . . .

AstirRelicLatah replies on 8/24/2006 7:33 am:

song2262 54F
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AstirRelicLatah replies on 8/31/2006 5:28 am:
Thanks and thanks for stopping by...I also think so.

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