Take off your panties... yes,more random thoughts...  

Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
3683 posts
10/14/2005 10:39 am

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Take off your panties... yes,more random thoughts...


So much can happen in a day or two...especially in a cluttered mind, looking for mental escape, sensual pleasures and just something else to do...LOL. I apologize for these thoughts just randomly jumping all over the place, but..its how it is in real life
...

1. I use cucumber melon and Vitamin E body wash, because its the only one I found so far that was not feminine.

2. I use Crest whitening expressions fresh citrus breeze toothpaste,because i was bored...LOL

3. I have had a re-occuring daydream/fantasy or whatever you want to call it to...uh...have 4 women, take advantage of me...
No bondage or blindfolds, just 4 women and me, in a room, on a bed, floor, dresser, shower..you get the idea... kind of the same as a woman enjoying 4 men. Except it will be 4 women.
NO THERE WILL BE NO STRAP ON FOR ME !!! LOL.

4. It came to light that because I am a pleaser, that my fantasy is
possibly due to me just wanting to be pleased and not in control of the situation totally. No it is not a submissive act.

5. I have this burning desire to cook this meal, but because I live
alone and have no one to cook this kind of thing for, i can't see doing it just for myself.

Salad Che' Sizzle w/slices of boiled egg,cucumbers, chicken,cheddar and provolone cheese, bacon bits, ham, purple onions, green pepper, mushrooms, pineapple and croutons.

Steak grilled to perfection with a honey and peppercorn glaze

Whipped potatoes with chives,ranch and garlic

Lobster, shrimp and scallops skewered and dusted in almond w/a lemon and garlic butter dip.

creamed corn w/red and green jalapenos (chopped)

Dessert: French apple Cream cheese Pie ala mode...
(Sinful..I know)

6. Racism is defined in one of the dictionaries I read as the belief that human races have distinctive characteristics that determine their respective cultures, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.
If you take away the superior thought and the ruling others, which would qualify as HATE, then there is some truth behind this principle. Which creates a "Grey" area. There are characteristics in every culture that is specific to that culture and within those cultures there are people that do no conform to the norm. This grey area creates an uncomfortable place for those that do not have hate or malice in their intentions, when they think or make statements that at best are mildly frustrating to the individual it is directed at with questions or preconcieved notions. The best way to defend against this grey area and racism as a whole is to treat every individual person as an individual and try not to generalize as best as you can.

7. I love removing a womans panties with my teeth...
( Told you I was jumping around...LOL )

8. My youngest son and I call my Jeep, The rustbucket custom deluxe...LMAO

9. I have given up on my "End of The year Projection". I think my desire to do this activity has put undue pressure on myself...
Whereas, I still want to do it one day and have wanted to do it for several years now...I am going to go with the flow on it.

10. I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance by switching to Geico....LMAO

Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/14/2005 12:54 pm

I can put Hot sauce or red pepper on almost anything that I eat...LOL


RavishingRed1062 54F

10/14/2005 7:05 pm

Number 6-

You said " Racism is defined in one of the dictionaries I read as the belief that human races have distinctive characteristics that determine their respective cultures, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.
If you take away the superior thought and the ruling others, which would qualify as HATE, then there is some truth behind this principle. Which creates a "Grey" area. There are characteristics in every culture that is specific to that culture and within those cultures there are people that do no conform to the norm. This grey area creates an uncomfortable place for those that do not have hate or malice in their intentions, when they think or make statements that at best are mildly frustrating to the individual it is directed at with questions or preconcieved notions. The best way to defend against this grey area and racism as a whole is to treat every individual person as an individual and try not to generalize as best as you can.


I will respond to this directly, as I am sure that your post is, if not directed at me,....is a direct response to something I said in my blog. I do so, in a medium where you can't hear my tone of voice, so there is the chance that this could be taken out of the context in which I intend. You just have my word that there is no anger in my response, but I am a bit suprised that you have pointed the racsim finger at me.

Let me begin that I believe that everyone, yes... I said EVERYONE has a degree of racism in their heart. In fact, whenever I hear the infamous words "I'm not racist....." I know that the person is about to say a something stupid and.. yes, racist.

If you have ever crossed the street to avoid a large group of kids who did NOT look like a group of boy scouts... You had a racist thought.

If you ever told a blonde joke.. you had a racist thought.

If you ever told a joke about a woman.. you had a racist thought.

If you have a racist thought... then you are a racist.

You and I do agree... that the various degrees of racism can range from the inadvert to the overt... and that there is sometimes NO intent to cause harm. I suspect that we will not agree on much else from that point on.

I have started this post and can not go back to my orginal post in my blog without posting it and then I can't get back into this one... but I don't believe that I said that "ALL BLACK MEN DO NOT KISS".... I do believe I said that "all the men who refused to kiss me were black." Thos are two completely different statements. In fact... I have had MORE black men kiss me.. than I have had black men refuse to kiss me ( lord I dont know how many black men I have kissed... but its double digits... and there have been only 3 who refused) BUT if I am wrong and I did say or infere that ALL of any kind of man or person do or did something.. the I will apologize.

I personally try very hard to refrain from EVER doing that. It would be like saying that everyone born on June 15 is a liar, a theif, an asshole, an user, an Anti-Social personality... just because my son's father is one... and I would never say that.

While your intitled to your opinion, I believe YOU are showing a form of racism to jump to some sort of assumtion about my own personal thoughts, ideas and beiefs based on one statement... or even two that I have made.

In 42 years,I have never had a white family invite me for chittlens... but I have recieved MANY invites from my former in-laws and other realtions from my son's father for chitlins...

Would I be racist to wonder why more white people don't eat chitlins and is it a cultural thing that the majority of the black people I know seem to enjoy this food while most white people I know don't share this like?

If I asked others if they had any similar experiences where they had never been asked by white familes to eat chitlins,... yet knew several familes of black people who often invited them over for that.... would you still consider me racist?

If I offened you (which I obvously did for you to post about this not only in my blog, but again in yours) then.. AGAIN.. I apologize. It was not my intent to offend anyone.

I simply asked a question regarding something that I had experienced.

And... you can bet I won't be guilty of doing that again.


rm_summer765 52F
123 posts
10/14/2005 10:43 pm

Hmmmm..we have something in common other then loving to please the 1 we're w/...cucumber melon body wash...love the scent.You should also try ocean breeze mmmmm sends shivers lol


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/14/2005 11:01 pm

Reinne...Just an apron? no pinching ok...LOL

Katey... nope, have not been in your bathroom...

Wet... LOL... You're not trying t see me in the apron like reine are you? LOL


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/14/2005 11:43 pm

Summer...where have you been darling?

Ravishing... darling, baby...that particular part of the post that you responded to was inspired by several incidents in the real world and a few recent posts and post in memory from this site. Maybe yours pushed me to finally say something in my blog, but I definately was not pointing a finger at you, I am not offended by you and as I said the last time i spoke to...please point those sorry asses out to me, so I can smack THEM in the head.
Sorry for the misunderstanding and hope to continue our friendship...and NO, you do not have to mince any words or feelings with me...

Racism strikes again. Now against my blood.....
Racism
Today is "Screw It" Day.......


keithcancook 60M
17846 posts
10/15/2005 7:24 am

I love reading your "Random Thoughts" series. Keep em coming please.


RavishingRed1062 54F

10/15/2005 7:35 am

SIzzle-

No harm.. No foul.


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/15/2005 9:09 am

Jez...mmm...Now THAT would be a good meal... maybe a Gwen Stephani and Angelina Jolie sandwich.... yumm!

Keith your encouragement is inspiring!

Red... does this mean I can still lick you behind the knee caps...


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/15/2005 9:12 am

I'm hurt...no one is mentioning the 4 women thing... LOL!!!


rm_summer765 52F
123 posts
10/15/2005 1:34 pm

I injured my knee baby.No...it wasn't a sexual injury lol but it has interrupted my sexual appetite to an extent..not so much my appetite but my fav. position..DOGGY...not able to get on my knees yet lol the injury isn't serious..just taking a little too long to heal. Awwwww..did ya miss me?


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/15/2005 11:20 pm

Of course I missed ya Summer

Reine... I still want to go, I just figured I would be attached by now or then or however the right way to say it is. Have too many things in the air, so being a planner, I didn't want to keep beating myself over the head about it. Also, i think maybe some people think that my New Years at Shanty includes all of the fantasy stuff, that i wrote about in my blog. just want to spend that weekend with someone special.


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/16/2005 6:14 pm

NOOOooooooooo!!!!!! Not December!!!!


TopFisher 63M

10/17/2005 2:55 am

Oh gawd I really need to share some recepies with ya!

No siz, no fried chicken or watermellon at all!!!

Yeah I've heard it. Could care less in reality. Though I've little experiences with other races, besides Navajo, Hopi, and well, I guess by now in reality, many others. Again by now, I'm old remember?

I figure that most folks will be judged by they themselves and the actions they perform or the thoughts they percieve as reality or not. It's way too bad that, in my perception, the black community, continues to be the black communities own worst enemy. Spokespersons like JJ, or Louis F and all too many of the elite members of congress that profess to give a shit??? Sorry I've litte respect for them or their spoutings! Yet I look at Condi Rice, Collin Powell, Clarence Thomas as well as others that I have had the opportunity to associate with in the hotel industry. I've no problem at all. They have demonstrated the ability to alter the challenges of early life and build a real life for themselves, and demonstrate how such can be done. Even in the face of great challenges.

Poverty is not a race issue! It's an issue that effects many blacks but also many others as well. Such is proven in my own world. Most seems to be caused by those willing to continue to hand out money and benefits for nothing in return.

I can't help it if Bill Cosby was correct, even if not popular, he was and continues to be correct! Hell Bill Bennett may also have been correct, though I must say, his comments were pretty narrow minded because I can think of large areas comprised of nothing but white folks that the same solution would apply.

It's very late, please forgive me if I've offended, whick I'm sure as hell I've probably done.


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/17/2005 10:59 am

The problem top is that other people are being dragged into opinions and examples and indeed violence by things that they had nothing to do with and/or knowledge of.
Continuing to generalize an entire race, whatever that race may be, is wrong, because you will always find exception to the rules...in a lot of cases, LARGE NUMBERS of exceptions.
OK, you've met Condi Rice and she seems like a nice lady..she probably is, but do you realize that you just took a segment of people based on your opinion of her and decided that you have no problem with people like her? I would have a problem with her whether I was black or white, because some of her causes were not REAL WORLD realistic to people that did not fit into the cookie cutter outlines that she champions. Clarence Thomas was accused and probably got away with Sexual Harrassment, but he was a nice fella when you met him at the Hotel. No person...even the worst of criminals are one sided and act in one way all the time...As to poverty, there was not a mention of poverty in any of the linked post or in mine...Poverty is and has always been a global issue.
As to Bill Cosby..another fantastic example, as Mr. Cosby is an icon in the entertainment field and in philanthropical endeavors worldwide, but you know what? The Same man that you consider to be correct on race issues, has a viewpoint from a very narrow box, one that he chose to ignore during his moral rants, when it was discovered, how many years he had been cheating on his wife. the one child that was proven to be his and the other one that was jailed for extortion after taking the blood test. Guess what...That child turned out not to be his, but he slept with the girls mother while he was married, which is what made the blood test necessary!

As to offending me, I simply think that you have your view points based on the information that has come across your path, like many, many people...so you don't offend me, by that. Walk a mile next to me...See the rest of the story, then make an informed opinion.

I do wonder what the Watermelon and Chicken reference was about, though...
Was that an attempt at humor? Let me inform you for future reference that using that remark in an insensitive and uninformed manner, would not go over very well in certain neighborhoods or in certain settings.

Thanks for stopping through again Top...Just research a little more..ok.


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

10/19/2005 9:25 am

Dear Siz,
I am home..sick..sniff...
Bring lunch..
I will put on panties for you
Strap on optional..lmao...you submissive toy you...

TTFN


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/19/2005 10:26 am

Awwww...lips... those really lacy, crotchless black ones that I like soooo well?
On my way with Chicken soup, cranberry apple tea and moi!!!!


redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

10/20/2005 10:56 am

*pulls up the matching black lace thighs highs...
and waits for my toy....*

TTFN


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
10/21/2005 9:57 pm

Heh heh...


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