Politics of Passion  

Sizzle364
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8/15/2005 12:00 pm

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Politics of Passion


I watched the new reality show, "Kill reality Stars" and they had that guy Bob "Batchelor Bob" Guiney on there. Brought back the thoughts I had on the few episodes of the batchelor that I watched. I thought Bob was one of the few that came right out and was honest. He said point blank, I'm looking for the right relationship and I am going o kiss and/or sleep with all of you to find out. Sex being an important factor in a long term relationship, How could you blame him? He got ROASTED for saying that. Same with Alex Michael...I think his name was. The 30 or so ladies were mad that he had kissed more than one of them. I'm sorry. I love kissing, I love sex and I love passion. I was in a relationship where i thought the kissing would get better and went with it, cuz i cared.Teaching her was not an option. So there I was deeply dissatisfied and longing for more.
That's how CHEATING starts and I'm not a cheat. So what's the answer...if you are seriously wanting a Long term relationship, is it bad to sample on the way? What do you think of a guy doing that? Be honest...

angel_wings2005 52F

8/15/2005 2:59 pm

You have to 'taste test' to see what dessert you like- and you try on clothes to see if they fit- you test drive a new car before you buy it- WHY wouldn't you taste-touch-try on for size*WINK*-and sample to find the right person that you will hopefully be sharing the rest of your life with - ONCE you make a decision (hopefully the other person agrees)- to see how things fit together in a relationship- THEN you might not want to go shopping !!! HUMMMM~~~~ are there gift certificates availible for Chateau Sizzle ??? ( oh sorry- one track mind !!) Angel


TopFisher 63M

8/15/2005 4:21 pm

The sampling process is a big time part of the fun while shopping! Make no mistake, shopping is exactly what it is too. Though women do indeed do alot of shopping, they can forget how to properly package themselves for a man!

Only one problem though, sampling the sex can be such a changing thing, since they can be "the one" one night, and the one you don't desire tomorrow.


ProtonicMan 48M

8/15/2005 8:12 pm

Angel, I don't know about gift certificates, but as part of the security detail, I can get you a back-stage pass for the Sizzle World Tour. But it will cost you...

I wish I had sampled more before saying "I do."


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
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8/15/2005 10:20 pm

SensuallyKate- Thanks. I'm still trying to figure out why everyone called him a jerk after he made that statement though. Its like, don't they want the guy to be serious about the choice he's making?

Angel- LOL. You want to gift me to someone? LOL.

Top- Amen brother. Don't know what you mean about packaging themselves for a man, but as far as "the one" one night and the ony you don't tomorrow. That happens sometimes in 10 to 20 year marriages. Personally, I won't really, really know for sure who the one is until I look into her eyes, hold her in my arms and after the first 84 kisses. LOL


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
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2642 posts
8/15/2005 10:23 pm

WAIT A MINUTE!!!! WHAT WORLD TOUR?????? My victim of circumstanceness continues.
I don't even know my own schedule anymore... LOL


rm_summer765 52F
123 posts
8/15/2005 10:48 pm

You must sample.I feel that kissing is a big part of a sexual relationship. If they can't kiss worth a damn..no use in going any further..that's just my opinion..what do i know? lol


CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
8/16/2005 7:09 am

Like the song says Siz "My mama told me....you better shop around!"

As long as you are upfront and honest about seeing other people with the woman she has no right to be upset if you do. But this is something that MUST be said point blank where there are no second guessing or "but you said blah blah blah and I thought you meant Bleh bleh bleh"

I think you have to find the right chemistry to find the ONE. If there isn't chemistry then it all falls apart. So to answer the question: It's okay for anyone to sample along the way, as long as they are direct and honest about it. After all, sampling can lead to long term but you never know until you've tried and started slowly with the person. Rushing into anything can be disasterous!


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
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2642 posts
8/16/2005 10:03 am

Hi Summer! So very, very true...If they can't kiss, it just kills it and I can let my inner freakiness out. LOL. Apparently we have similar opinions...

Honesty is always the best policy. I definately am letting anyone know where I'm coming from and at present I haven't been doing any playing anyway...so....Makes it a little easier.LOL. (Can we say,Volcano, waiting to erupt...? LOL )


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
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2642 posts
8/16/2005 10:14 am

PS. Curious- I dumped the saucers of milk, I'm dangling the other bait, do I have to drive down there to Lexington? Hmmm?


angel_wings2005 52F

8/16/2005 4:29 pm

MT. ST. SIZZLE ???? ---HUMMMM ~~~~ would like to be around for that explosion !!!! ( YUMMY!)


deliciousngood 64F
1666 posts
8/17/2005 7:22 am

"if you are seriously wanting a Long term relationship, is it bad to sample on the way? What do you think of a guy doing that? Be honest... "

What do YOU think of a woman who does the same thing? I have experienced the old "double standard". YES...in this day and age!


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
8/17/2005 9:50 am

Hi deliciousngood and welcome to Sizzle's World. Thank you for asking that.
My problem is that I have some ideas of life and how life should be run, but i wonder if my off beat way of thinking, matches with other people. Hence my question in this post.
I have NO double standards in my world. There are differences in the sexes though and those cannot be ignored. Everyone doesn't fit into the category. A lot of men, Lie...when they are sampling and a lot of women are Brutal, when they are telling the truth...
Then there are those men and women that have got the situation correct.


DCEbony
1586 posts
8/17/2005 4:46 pm

Eatin' ain't cheatin'?

Is that the correct answer, quizmaster? LOL


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
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2642 posts
8/17/2005 9:24 pm

LOL, DCE... So that means that 69 is fine...ha ha


CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
8/18/2005 5:49 pm

Hmmmmm... <wonders if it's a nice rare steak Siz is dangling now or...some other sort of steak...tubesteak?>

LOL! I couldn't resist the pun!


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
8/19/2005 1:21 am

Nope...Too late...now you have to follow through...LOL


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