Just the facts ma'am...  

(Juan S)
3683 posts
9/15/2005 6:42 am

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Just the facts ma'am...

I have ot the slightest clue as to why i feel it necessary to reveal even more of myself, but...Having a temporary writing lapse...I guess it was meant to be... sigh.
I toyed with the idea for a while to do a top 100 list, but...
I don't think I can get to 100, but we will see as we go along huh? If any of these spark a question, feel free to ask. A couple were sparked in conversations... here goes.

1. I have two kids. Both boys. one 13 and one 15.
2. I graduated from High school at the age of 16
3. I produced my first record that summer.
4. I had a double major in college...music business management
and composition and theory.
5. I have conducted an orchestra
6. I used to be a studio musician...
7. My favorite phrase when asked what type of music I was into
back then, was... You payin, I'm playin!
8. I enjoy Rock, Country, , R&B, Jazz, House,Gospel, Reggae
world music, Tejano, Salsa...let's just say...a lot...
(Note: don't test it...I know groups by name...LO
9. I stopped training in 1983, when I recieved my Brown belt in
Shotokan Karate.
10. I used to work as an Executive protection security guard.
11. I love cooking
12. I watch more music programs than sports
13. I like sports
14. I lost my virginity at 18 in college.
15. Before my marriage in 1990...I slept with over 100 women...
before I stopped counting.
16. Since my marriage dissolved November 1999, I have slept
with 6 women.
17. Since my marriage dissolved I have turned down 32 offers
for Sex (Yes...they were all attractive women)
18. Gay men have hit on me.
19. I did not accept their offers.
20. I have dated 3 Bi-sexual women.
21. The first one taught me what oral sex is all about.
22. I have dated a women from a variety of nationalities.
23. I am extremely secure, unless I really, really want you...
24. I have dated models.
25. I know and associate with a variety of celeb...
(forget that one...)
26. I desire to be consumed with Love, not with possessiveness
27. I desire to offer the same...there is a fine line...
28. I prefer mixed drinks or Champagne...
29. I drink MGD beer or LaBatts blue
30. My current favorite drink is White Russians or Apple Martinis
31. I have only been drunk 3x.
32. It used to take a lot to get me drunk
33. I have no patience...primarily because the answer will still
be the same today as it will tomorrow.
34. Many people mistake my politeness,willingness to
please and understanding for patience.
35. I am a pleaser.
36. I love to make people laugh or smile.
37. I am a huge flirt...
38. I Do not cheat in a relationship, despite my flirting...
39. Most of my flirting will occur with my significant other next
to me...if i have one
40. I have been in a foursome.
41. I have paid for sex... (wedding, the ring, rent, divorce atty,
child support...That counts right?)
42. I pay attention to details, when I'm interested in someone
43. I like to play dumb, to keep people overconfident.
44. I can make 7 out of 10 women moist with the sound of my
voice...its been proven.
45. I am the first to tell you, if I don't know something.
46. It takes a LOT to get me upset...
47. I play chess.
48. I also play drums, piano, marimba, congas, vibes, timbales
and a bunch of other instruments, I haven't touched in years.
49. I am NOT rich... I used to be.
50. I will be rich again or die trying...LOL
51. I like beautiful things.
52. I buy for the best value.
53. I know HOW to shop.
54. I love traveling.
55. I love being near water.
56. I love kissing.
57. My friends tease me...carefully.
58. My practical jokes are not practical if you have teased me too
59. I love BIG dogs...
60. I have a Samoyed mixed with Black Lab
61. Animals and kids love me...
62. Women are confused by me...until its too late...
63. I love Art and architecture.
64. I want 2 Siberian Huskies one day.
65. I want to have multiple residences and I'm trying to figure
out, how to do it... A ranch, New York Apt, Miami Condo,
House in Detroit...
66. My kids and I go to the boat show every year. I want a boat
67. I ride a bike to work.
68. People stopped laughing when Gas hit $3.00..heh heh
(whose got the last laugh now...B*tch)
69. I own a Jeep.
70. I don't like to hurt peoples feelings
71. I like to hurt some people (racist, child molesters, abusers,
72. I have always hated winter...my opinion is changing.
73. If I can figure out how to relax, I might be able to show
"The One", what is really inside my heart.
74. I Like to read to my partner in bed...
75. I've never done it...
76. I hated Golf...until I went.
77. Tennis is overated...
78. My favorite song of the moment is Marques Houton's "NAKED"
79. Last year my favorite song was "Say Yes" by Floetry
80. I play "Sweet Thing" by Mary J. Blige when I'm Happy or Sad.
81. If I associate a song with you, I am WAY into you...
82. I love to watch a woman get dressed.
83. I excel at everything I do, when I'm in a relationship.
84. I discovered I waned to be in a relationship again, after
joining a.f.f.
85. I love Comedy
86. I love Romance and romantic comedies...LOL
(Ok...chick flicks, I said it...are you happy now?)
87. My favorite cuisine is Asian
88. I Also love Sea Food.
89. I can spend an entire day in Bed, if I'm allowed...
90. I have a favorite place that I like to go to, to just think...
91. I used to have a retail clothing store, closed it to open
a different business.
92. There is a souvenier of my company on BET's city
93. I rarely get sick.
94. If I get sick, It will be best for you to be concerned, not baby
95. Jeez...this is now difficult...I have a birthmark on my toe
96. If I am EXTREMELY mad and you simply wrap your arms
around me, I immediately calm down.
97. I don't like to argue.
98. I prefer to talk until we come to an agreement or
compromise, if we happen to dissagree.
99. I don't like to go to bed angry...or my mate for that matter

100. WHEW!!! JESUS!!! THIS WS HARD AS HELLL!!!!!!!!!
I am comfortable in almost any environment.

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
9/15/2005 8:10 am

wow Sizzle very intriguing facts
we both want #64 ..lol
and #25 is blank

have a great day!

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
9/15/2005 8:11 am

I love it, Sizzle! and I would love to flirt with you...

I don't think they would have let us graduate at 16, these days. And the need to be held... but I need a place to think - that would be great.

Thanks. Check out 100 things about me... for mine...

playfulwithyou33 56F
961 posts
9/15/2005 8:13 am

Yay! the man has STAMINA!

hey, come join my cooking/food group... Eroticism Thru Food

on your doggy, is he zebra striped or just shades of grey?

(Princess Lips)

9/15/2005 9:46 am

I make a killer appletini...


angel_wings2005 52F

9/15/2005 9:58 am

hummm--- #44 ...... care to make that 8 out of 10 ? *wink*...

digdug41 49M

9/15/2005 10:05 am

lmao@#41 thats a good one never thought of it that way

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
9/15/2005 11:17 am

very nice list...says a lot

someonelikeithot 50F

9/15/2005 11:18 am

No mention of a woman in your life right now! Just a slip or ... are we lucky??!!

dano6332 56M

9/15/2005 11:42 am

Sizzle nice work buddy. I totally agree with you on 46 and 71. I am not a violent guy but you hurt a kid and I will hurt back Just a pet peeve of mine.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:00 pm

...Not like that Trav!!! I meant going to places...LOL

Synn- I stopped on 25 because that would cause one of the conversations I try to avoid much too much anyway. I'll give you Two... Mark Farner of grand Funk Railroad and Mos Def

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:04 pm

Places to think are VERY important these days...I'll check out your post,Lucytart

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:12 pm

Playful he is dotted black and white. weighs about 70 pounds

I'll check out the erotiscm through food group, but fair warning...I get very creative

Redlips..pour away! I have a need to make a fourth time I've been drunk...

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:19 pm

Angel...{sigh}...I'm on punishment and can't give out my number right now...but I can mail you a CD!!!!

Digdug- Alternative thinking is a way of life... Most expensive piece I have ever had...LOL
Extra info...Every woman I have ever been with has tried to come back at one time
or another.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:28 pm

Smile4u- Summing up 23,42, 62 and 90. I'm really not hard to figure out at all.
Most people when they are excited about something or passionate about it
put forth that extra effort. Just now days, there are all these dating rules &
rituals and discreetness...ugh! I'm straightforward...many people can't
handle it, because of their past relationships, then when they figure it out
and realize what they lost, they feel bad...which makes me feel bad, but...hey
They did it to themselves in the end.

As to #74...I think that is extremely romantic to be cuddled up with someone
and reading to them. Sharing an experience...

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:38 pm

Bella... ma spiega le mie azioni ultimamente?

Someonelikeithot- If you want to call it that, I guess you guys are lucky...
Me... I'm starting to realize how UNlucky I am

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/15/2005 12:44 pm

Katsmeow- Thanks! #26 & 27 are even harder to define and live by...

Dano- Pretty much there is nothing to say on that one... Mean people beware
Me and Dano are out here...

TopFisher 63M

9/15/2005 2:01 pm

41. I have paid for sex... (wedding, the ring, rent, divorce atty,
child support...That counts right?)

I'm guilty as sin on this one! And yes it counts, prebably would hve been cheaper to hire professionals for the fun!

Mikey_B1972 44M

9/15/2005 4:23 pm

Siz...we have WAY too much in common.(very scary) You sound like a big teddy bear, that knows karate and music...lol

I'd be willing to bet that you couldn't match up half of this list back in your mid twenties....wanna wager?

Very cruel breaking Travs heart here on blogland in frt of everyone

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
9/15/2005 4:49 pm

Sizz, si, ho capito bene...ti scrivo a presto.

MrNuttz05 49M

9/15/2005 5:37 pm

Fa Sizzle, since you are into the music industry, do categories bother you? I was watching some music award show the other night & there are way too many categories. Doesn't music speak to us ALL? I mean, I made a CD that starts with James Brown, slides to the Culture Club, swings by U2, picks up some Kravitz, slams a little Tribe Called Quest, before ending with my Maxwell. No one digs my CD, it's too vague. No, maybe you are to simple.... I just feel that music is music, no categories needed. In reference to #8. And of course I am a fan of Bob Marley, Snoop Dogg, & Guns & Roses (If you know what I mean ) Just kiddin' dude, you know me....

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 1:12 am

Topfisher...Not the way I party...LOL!!!!!

Trav...I'm sure you'll get over it...

Mikey B- You lose. Got married at 26. All but 13 of the items I've been doing a long time.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 1:16 am

Bella...I look forward to it.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 1:24 am

Nuttz, where you been? LOL... Other than losing all of my and any rational persons respect for the culture club thing...LOL (except Time won't give me Time), categories are necessary in order to facilitate the marketing. It doesn't mean that we as consumers have to give a crap about it, except to find where it is stored, which brings us back to marketing.LOL.
Did you know that JayDee from the Ummah, Tribe called Quest production team is from Detroit? ...and that he did a track for me on my Detroit Hip Hop compilation featuring Proof of D12? LOL. Probably not huh...
Your CD sounds cool to me (except culture club)...LOL.
Oh..and Boy George is a DJ now...LOL...has been for a number of years.
He'll spin for 5K a night plus hotel,airfare and transpo...

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 3:34 am

You know BigGirlz...I've been thinking that maybe I am more complex than I think I am lately...

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
9/16/2005 6:49 am

Sizzle ..I wasn't expeting an answer hun..just letting you realize that to me I understood your point and the fact things like that tend to derail wonderful conversations ..but it is cool nonetheless

I welcome you to the House of Syn...

(Princess Lips)

9/16/2005 7:44 am

* passes a green sugar rimmed chilled appletini*


(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 9:54 am

Its all good Syn...
I try to answer everyone. Just my personal way of touching those who touch me.
I'm awed by my good fortune sometimes concerning that list myself. Being behind the scenes causes a crazy problem. You get casual over mentioning the names in conversation, because you KNOW these people and for others looking at you and listening they either are going yeah right or they start pumping you for ridiculous info that you wouldn't have interest in knowing no matter what, to try and disprove or because they are fans... Like what color is Method man's toothbrush?...duh, like I would care...LOL

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 10:00 am

* leans in to give redlips a litle kiss as he takes the offered glass*
Awww...Thanks princess! Perfect timing... ((( hug )))

xx_44DD_xx 51F

9/16/2005 10:52 am

I admire your honesty and ability to communicate in such an eloquent manner.

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 11:37 am

Awww...Thanks XX

MrNuttz05 49M

9/16/2005 3:53 pm

What's wrong with the Culture Club, dude? Are you going to tell me that you don't stop what you are doing & dance when "Karma Karma Karma Chameleon" hits the airwaves? Man, I am glad that I didn't tell you that I just downloaded the extended version of "Milli Vanilli's" Girl You know It's True. Hey, what do you expect I am an 80's baby...

Didn't know that about your man Ummah, we have so much talent in the "D" don't we? If I could get 5K a night, I would be a DJ too... Get out a lighter & turn that Culture Club up loud

CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
9/16/2005 4:22 pm

*sighs and pouts*

And you're HOW far away now? How many miles from KY to Detroit?

*sighs again*

Musical diversity - Can ya dig some bag pipes on occasion?

Dogs - What ab out Giant breeds? Irish Wolfhound, Great Pyranese(sp?), Great Dane, Mastiffs?

Celebs -Well they are just folks that are lucky enough to have a job that they love to do right? Just people like the rest of us...uh...that get paid a LOT more and uh..have less privacy and uh...stuff. But people are still people. There's the good and the bad and well..I hate to say it but in Keith Richards case the ugly. LOL.

Mikey_B1972 44M

9/16/2005 5:19 pm

Siz, my hat is off to you bro...You just may be as nice as you make yourself out to be..

Boy George rocks!!!! I can see the braided hair and the river boat video now.....

rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
9/16/2005 6:44 pm

what an interesting list. love your music choices... Marques Houton - Walk Away a fav of mine

SJ *adding another to her list of lists*

kyplowboy2 61M

9/16/2005 7:16 pm

you're a lot like me but a world apart...thats's what makes us, us.


(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 10:43 pm

Nuttz...Only if I've had WWAAAAAAYYYYYY too many martini's...LOL ...and I only do that at home... Its Scary out there...LOL!!!!!! HEY???? I didn't know you were from the D.... You ever go to St. Andrews? Or hear of Modern Tribe ? ...and you have got to have heard of Jay Dee... From Slum Village Nuttz!!!!

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 10:50 pm

Curious you are only 313 miles from me...about 6 hours...LOL
I like the giant breeds, but someting about those Huskies with the blue devil eyes...
Wanna get two big fat vicious ones...LOL

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 10:54 pm

Mikey B...NOOOOOOOooooooo, Not you too????? For the record I have never danced to Karma Chameleon... (...trying not to dance in seat as he remembers song...) You guys are gonna have that song stuck in my head now...aaargggghhh....

As to the other part....Real as it gets...all the chinks and cracks are actually there...lol

(Juan S)
2642 posts
9/16/2005 10:58 pm

Reine...sounds like you've been there before...

SJ... welcome...thanks for stopping thru and hanging at Chateau Sizzle...thanks for the add

KYPlowboy- Correctamundo...welcome to Sizzle's place

islandgirl_702 54F

9/24/2005 5:29 pm

Hmmm! I can at least think of another 10 things that you like...listening to me, pulling my hair, smacking my ass, bent over your desk, showing me who is IN CHARGE, letting me be naughty, hearing every THING I say, improvising, adapting, and cultivating... ewwww yeah there is the ten....LOL Mwah Sizz! Kamana wanna lei u!

RavishingRed1062 54F

9/27/2005 7:49 pm

I would like to go on record..(not that it matters or that anyone noticed...) but Sizzle364's list (hello, nice to meet you BTW) and my own.. posted just a few short days ago... had many, many similar items. This is amazing to me (and I'm semi-easy to amaze.. yes,.. BUT) doing that darn 100 list was really HARD.. and I struggled trying to think of things that MIGHT be interesting to someone else about my boring ole life... so I find it interesting that he and I choose to share some of the same types of things.. even though the answers might have been a little different...

But.. I digress...

I do note however, that I don't know any famous people nor does ANYONE pay me $$ to make music.. to the contrary.. sometimes they offer me cash to shut up!!

But.. I have not had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Sizzle.. and look forward to reading his blog and getting to know ya...

(that was a pretty suble flirt.. right? huh?... LO

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