Fantasy vs Reality...Keithcancook said keep the random thoughts coming...  

Sizzle364
(Juan S)
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11/7/2005 4:38 am

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Fantasy vs Reality...Keithcancook said keep the random thoughts coming...


I am currently stuck in such a vicious circle...as i assume a lot of us are.
I have been asking myself some tough look in the mirror type questions lately.
1. Am I being Shallow by looking for the girl that I see in my dreams?
2. How I view myself and how i act, i sometimes don't believe correlates to my age, what's up with that?
3. Women that are my age and match what I am looking for are rarely still single or at least available?
4. Why the hell is my ex trying to torture me and why do I give a shit?
5. why are most of the women that I communicate with regularly in cities other than mine?
6. when is one of us going to make a move?
7. Why do I feel above the mating competition?
8. Am I spending way too much time working and blogging?
9. What do I have to do to get my a.f.f. e-mail going again?
10. Why is Paolo Rey, Ashley Dorenzo and Rosina Grosso so incredibly HOT and none of them are married...to me...LOL!!

redlipsprincess
(Princess Lips)
51F

11/7/2005 1:06 pm

1. The girl in your dreams is your fantasy, the woman you shall meet will be your reality.
2. Your soul is young and it just wants to have fun and be free.
3. If they are still single and available, run the other way!
4. Because you let her...think like a duck...roll it off...
5. "Communicate with"- is that what they are calling it these days? Two Words- Planes and Trains...
6.Thought I just did...lol
7. Because you are...
8. Yes you need to get off the bench and in the game...
9. Sign on the dotted line in blood??
10. So you can play with the women you "communicate " with...

xo

TTFN


tillerbabe 55F

11/7/2005 10:04 pm

1. Am I being Shallow by looking for the girl that I see in my dreams?
NOPE!
2. How I view myself and how i act, i sometimes don't believe correlates to my age, what's up with that?
Doesn't matter...
3. Women that are my age and match what I am looking for are rarely still single or at least available?
Quit looking...They will "find' you.
4. Why the hell is my ex trying to torture me and why do I give a shit? Because somewhere you do "give a shit" and you're getting some kind of reward fro continuing to "engage".
5. why are most of the women that I communicate with regularly in cities other than mine?
Its a BLOG thing..
6. when is one of us going to make a move?
That is up to you.
7. Why do I feel above the mating competition?
It must be true..
8. Am I spending way too much time working and blogging?
Probably, (I know this from experience!)
9. What do I have to do to get my a.f.f. e-mail going again?
"got me" there...
10. Why is Paolo Rey, Ashley Dorenzo and Rosina Grosso so incredibly HOT and none of them are married...to me...LOL!!
Huh?


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
11/8/2005 2:56 pm

WOW!! My random thoughts are dangerous...LOL. I didn't quite expect to get them all answered in this way, but definately informative answers...

Let me take a sampling of each so far...(This should be good..LO

1. OK. The general consensus is that I am not being shallow. Although, Yes, I am looking (as most are...) for an attractive woman, The thing that really sets the girl in my dreams apart from others is her dedication to the relationship and her actions. The way that I am
hoping to one day be loved.

2 COOOOOOLL!!!! That means i can watch Beavis and Butthead re-runs, throw ice cream at passerbys from hotel windows and jump up and down on the bed without feeling really silly...

3. Hmmm...toughter to explain than it looks. I kind of ascertained that I am simply in the wrong places at the right time or however that goes... That and we all have baggage at this age of some sort. As to the stop looking. I Try...I really do and I wind up attracting a lot of
women, whose hearts I do not want to break. Don't like to hurt people... so...at least if is someone that I sought out, it stands that I am most likely not going to do that...

4. There is kids involved. So zero contact is not likely. We don't have a volatile situation, just sometimes I really wish she'd pay attention to her surroundings and HOW things happen around her, instead of just reacting...ESPECIALLY where are children are concerned.

5. Oh.

6. Lips...LOL, Yes..you did. Tiller...You're right./ Sil...Torn is a better word. I play for keeps...So a BIG effort needs to be made. Guess, I don't want to pull out all the stops the way that I do, If I don't find someone willing to do the same...

7 Definately don't DO the games thing...lol... and Thank you ladies

8. OK, that one was too easy...LOL

9. My e-mail capability has declined since I fell from the most watched list...

10. Hmmm...No porn stars. All three are models and I've dated a few...(looking away, whistling, hands behind back, looking for the lightning bolts at the "A few" statement),
Rosina Grosso was Miss Italia also...and uh, I'd get those trainers, nutrionist, etc. for my
girl...no prob... I was just trying to be funny...


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
11/8/2005 4:55 pm

I stand corrected...one of them IS a porn star...
MAN!!! WHEW!! Am I glad you pointed that out... LOL


impish_pixie 54F
6867 posts
11/8/2005 7:25 pm

1. "The way that I am hoping to one day be loved." And doesn't that just say it all!
3. (Because really...1&3 do go together don't they?) I always have to laugh (very loudly actually...) when someone writes on their profile, "I'm looking for someone with no baggage." If you've really LIVED you are gonna have baggage. It's not the baggage you carry...it's how you "unpack" your baggage. It's how that baggage has shaped your life and what you do with it. So...what you have to do Siz is just love, openly and abandoned, yea..you may end up with a little more of that baggage - but what if you don't?

That's it.

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
11/8/2005 8:51 pm

Hi Impish!!! Missed you...


RavishingRed1062 54F

11/9/2005 9:41 am

1. Am I being Shallow by looking for the girl that I see in my dreams? only if you by-pass someone of quality who isn't the girl in your dreams, based only on physical looks.

2. How I view myself and how i act, i sometimes don't believe correlates to my age, what's up with that? this is me in a nut shell.. what should we do about it? lol.. nuthin.. just be ourselves.. those who love and care about us won't mind.

3. Women that are my age and match what I am looking for are rarely still single or at least available? Says who?

4. Why the hell is my ex trying to torture me and why do I give a shit? Some of us have ex's.... some of us have children with ex's.... some of us have accepted and moved on. I agree with whoever said your letting her get to you, for whatever reason. When it's time, you will either move on completely or go back. Period.

5. why are most of the women that I communicate with regularly in cities other than mine? Because God has a warped sense of humor!

6. when is one of us going to make a move? can't answer for you.. but I don't because I have small children that it's not fair to uproot just to DATE.. if someone were to ask me to marry them.. different story.

7. Why do I feel above the mating competition?

8. Am I spending way too much time working and blogging? don't we all?

9. What do I have to do to get my a.f.f. e-mail going again?

10. Why is Paolo Rey, Ashley Dorenzo and Rosina Grosso so incredibly HOT and none of them are married...to me...LOL!!
and I thought you were gonna ask why I wasn't married to you... go figure lol

Siz... I think you know/knew the answers to most of these.. but it was fun to give us our shot at answering them for you..

I miss talking to you.. you forget my # or what?


spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
11/9/2005 3:31 pm

The questions you ask yourself are not all that uncommon to most of us the reason you were able to get such detailed answers is it's always easier to solve someone elses problem. The truth of the matter is EVERYTHING HAPPENS IN DIVINE ORDER THE TRICK IS TO GET THE LESSON!
Once you know the lesson there is a measure of growth associated with it. you want your dream mate; she's there are you ready to receive her if she arrives tomorrow? All those things not withstanding, the universe is telling you something sit still ask for clairity and wait for your answer!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me!


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
11/10/2005 6:56 pm

Ravishing...we do need to talk, don't we...

Katey...yes, weall have responsiblities and decisions to make...

How ya doin valley rat...Thanks for the visit and the advice

spold...hmmm...ok! LOL


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
11/10/2005 8:16 pm

jeeze, I thought those were rhetorical questions...

Even if they aren't, I'm still not gonna answer em for ya!


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
11/11/2005 4:04 am

LOL... Keith!!! It started out that way...ha ha!!


Valdrane78 38M

11/11/2005 5:11 am

I am constantly asking myself question 4. And the answer (for me atleast) is that she could really make my life hell if she wanted. She is one vindictive bitch too

BANG! POW! BOOM! a study in useless knowledge and sick humor!
I want a damn soundtrack to my blog!


CuriousKitty675 41F
365 posts
11/12/2005 2:01 pm

5. why are most of the women that I communicate with regularly in cities other than mine?

Heh....Because fate is a cruel evil bitch of a mistress that likes to toy with people by dangling things in front of them that are out of reach.


Sizzle364
(Juan S)
52M
2642 posts
11/15/2005 7:47 pm

Valdrane...I know the feeling...

Curious...LOL!!!


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