Sex and the singlechick  

Singlechick25 36F
253 posts
10/20/2005 9:49 pm

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Sex and the singlechick

As far my sexuality goes, I was a late bloomer. Did the usual experimenting with boys but was never really interested in anything beyond that when I was younger. I didn't date much in high school, had a few crushes, naturally. I never cared to have a boyfriend at that age.

The next few years after high school, life was...well it was a little difficult for a while. So it wasn't until I hit my early 20's that I became extremely aware of myself as a sexual being.

It was then that I started looking at men with appreciation. I love men's bodies and the way they move. Most are just naturally solid and give the impression of strength. Now don't get me wrong. I am a forward thinking woman. I love to vote! But I still like a big, strong man . That being said, strong does not necessarily mean muscle bound (to me.)

I am initially attracted to men that are taller than me, broader than me. Normally you wouldn't think this is a big deal but, I'm 5'8" and have been since I was 10 years old. I've been taller than guys all my life. I have been attracted to men shorter than me. One in particular was only about 1 inch shorter. As we all know, with a man and inch might as well be a mile. He hated the fact that I was taller than him. I didn't care - I was really into him so I didn't see it. Course he ended up being a total jerk so now if I end up having to talk to him I make sure I don't slouch lol.

So anyway, men's bodies. I like their butts, arms, chests, stomachs, back. I could just be a horn dog, I don't know lol. Beyond the physical, it doesn't take me too long to find out if I will continue to be attracted to a man once he begins to speak. I don't care how fine he is, even if he's got the prettiest face since sliced bread. If he's an a** my attraction dies. Instantly. Otherwise there's at least potential.

So now I know that men turn me on, right? Right. So the rest is easy, right? Wrong! I have been told time and again that I am intimidating. Apparently this is because I walk with my head up, I don't shuffle my feet, I make eye contact, and I have my own opinions with no problem expressing them lol. I've discovered that most guys don't want to date a strong woman, for fear that she will be stronger than he is. So I've got a problem. One that I've had no luck in solving for the past five or six years give or take.

I am by no means a quitter but I did decide to take a break from conventional dating/man hunting and headed for the internet.

DorianVampire 38M
20 posts
10/22/2005 10:34 am

If ever there was a woman that had insite on what I complain about daily, its you!

Just change the relavant facts to 6' 7" at age 13. Since there are only three women in the world (well my world) that are my height I went the opposite direction and developed a fetish for short women. I dated a girl for over a year that was only 4' 8".

As for the comments on attraction vs. bad personality I agree one hundred percent. Recently a friend wanted me to distract his sister-in-law for a fun night out. I was warned that she was hell on wheels. When she arrived at the bar I was in awe. She was beautiful. But true to form ten minutes later, after she had chastised about everything and everyone available, I started to see her diffrently. By the end of the night I was praying to any god to find a way to get me out the door. Hot as she was the personality grated on me like nails on a chalkboard.

The point here is I feel your pain.

Singlechick25 36F

10/23/2005 2:57 am

To be perfectly honest I try to keep my expectations down to a minimum lol. The less I expect, the less likely I am to be disappointed, right? Well, maybe that's how it works in a perfect world...This response has suddenly turned into another blog post. Say tuned lol....

Thomas, my dear, I've looked at your profile and just never paid attention to how tall you are. I tend to just skim the physical stuff and focus on the meat and potatoes of the profile. Quick side note, I've been watching yours BTW. You've led a very interesting life! Anyway, I nearly mentioned in my post how men seem to be shrinking. Rather, the boys aren't growing as tall as they used to lol. As far as your "hot date" goes - don't you wish sometimes people came with a mute button??

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