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Sex and the singlechick
Sex and the singlechick
As far my sexuality goes, I was a late bloomer. Did the usual experimenting with boys but was never really interested in anything beyond that when I was younger. I didn't date much in high school, had a few crushes, naturally. I never cared to have a boyfriend at that age.
The next few years after high school, life was...well it was a little difficult for a while. So it wasn't until I hit my early 20's that I became extremely aware of myself as a sexual being.
It was then that I started looking at men with appreciation. I love men's bodies and the way they move. Most are just naturally solid and give the impression of strength. Now don't get me wrong. I am a forward thinking woman. I love to vote! But I still like a big, strong man . That being said, strong does not necessarily mean muscle bound (to me.)
I am initially attracted to men that are taller than me, broader than me. Normally you wouldn't think this is a big deal but, I'm 5'8" and have been since I was 10 years old. I've been taller than guys all my life. I have been attracted to men shorter than me. One in particular was only about 1 inch shorter. As we all know, with a man and inch might as well be a mile. He hated the fact that I was taller than him. I didn't care - I was really into him so I didn't see it. Course he ended up being a total jerk so now if I end up having to talk to him I make sure I don't slouch lol.
So anyway, men's bodies. I like their butts, arms, chests, stomachs, back. I could just be a horn dog, I don't know lol. Beyond the physical, it doesn't take me too long to find out if I will continue to be attracted to a man once he begins to speak. I don't care how fine he is, even if he's got the prettiest face since sliced bread. If he's an a** my attraction dies. Instantly. Otherwise there's at least potential.
So now I know that men turn me on, right? Right. So the rest is easy, right? Wrong! I have been told time and again that I am intimidating. Apparently this is because I walk with my head up, I don't shuffle my feet, I make eye contact, and I have my own opinions with no problem expressing them lol. I've discovered that most guys don't want to date a strong woman, for fear that she will be stronger than he is. So I've got a problem. One that I've had no luck in solving for the past five or six years give or take.
I am by no means a quitter but I did decide to take a break from conventional dating/man hunting and headed for the internet.
10/22/2005 10:34 am
If ever there was a woman that had insite on what I complain about daily, its you!|
Just change the relavant facts to 6' 7" at age 13. Since there are only three women in the world (well my world) that are my height I went the opposite direction and developed a fetish for short women. I dated a girl for over a year that was only 4' 8".
As for the comments on attraction vs. bad personality I agree one hundred percent. Recently a friend wanted me to distract his sister-in-law for a fun night out. I was warned that she was hell on wheels. When she arrived at the bar I was in awe. She was beautiful. But true to form ten minutes later, after she had chastised about everything and everyone available, I started to see her diffrently. By the end of the night I was praying to any god to find a way to get me out the door. Hot as she was the personality grated on me like nails on a chalkboard.
The point here is I feel your pain.
10/23/2005 2:57 am
To be perfectly honest I try to keep my expectations down to a minimum lol. The less I expect, the less likely I am to be disappointed, right? Well, maybe that's how it works in a perfect world...This response has suddenly turned into another blog post. Say tuned lol....|
Thomas, my dear, I've looked at your profile and just never paid attention to how tall you are. I tend to just skim the physical stuff and focus on the meat and potatoes of the profile. Quick side note, I've been watching yours BTW. You've led a very interesting life! Anyway, I nearly mentioned in my post how men seem to be shrinking. Rather, the boys aren't growing as tall as they used to lol. As far as your "hot date" goes - don't you wish sometimes people came with a mute button??